Guys, have you ever been rejected by a girl for being inexperienced?

[Anonymous]

I’m 27 and I’ve never had a girlfriend, I have had sex one time and made it to having oral sex with another girl, but that’s it. I’ve also only ever been on one date so I’m still pretty inexperienced. What’s holding me back is that I feel like I’m stuck in a very bad situation where no girls are gonna date me because I have so little experience for my age, and that most would rather be with a guy who has more experience and had a better idea of what he’s doing, both in the bedroom and with leading a relationship. I just feel like things get a lot worse once you get older and still have no experience, so I was wondering how many guys have been rejected specifically for being inexperienced.

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[Marcuslrh]

I can't relate sorry have had a lot of experience from being a kid but you need to get out there just be confident in yourself dont lie be honest about your experience and you will find someone for sure dont let that hold you back or you will never gain experience

[Asker]

True, so many guys who are in this situation let it hold them back and assume that it’s too late for them now because no girls are gonna give an older inexperienced guy a chance. It is still kind of concerning for me because I get the feeling that I’m gonna face more rejection than the average guy would because of this.

[Marcuslrh]

Where do you get the idea that because of that it will get women to reject you I can't see that being true at all they are much more mature than that it's just you over thinking it I reckon

[Asker]

I’ve heard from some girls and dating coaches before that a decent amount of girls will be concerned that you’ll get super clingy since she’s your first and that she’ll have to take control and teach you a bunch of stuff, both with sex and about being in a relationship. And at a later age like your late 20’s or 30’s, most would rather have a guy who knows the ins and outs of being in a relationship and at least knows at least the basics about sex and kissing than someone who doesn’t even know that.

[Marcuslrh]

Yeah big enthuses on girls not women if a women is interested in you as a person they will take the time to be with you every relationship needs work and everything does not fall into place over night most of it is just common sense and being respectful, loving and open it's not hard being in a relationship as long as your not selfish or controlling you will be fine and by the time you get to the sex she will be interested in you anyway and if its come up about you sleeping with just 1 person in your life then I can't see that being a problem either if that even comes up before sex which I highly doubt it even will and you could find that you was worrying for nothing and are perfect at sex or close to being perfect for what she is looking for in the bedroom