Girls have you ever been rejected before?

[Anonymous]

I know girls get rejected too. Even the pretty ones

[LazerBean]

I've never approached a man for myself. There have been times where I have approached a man to ask if he was single with the intention of setting him up with a friend if he said yes. All of those occasions, the men said he already had a girlfriend. That is the closest thing to rejection that I have experienced, although I know it doesn't really count. My husband's brothers considering it as me getting rejected though lol

[Asker]

Well I guess you’re married so you’re off the dating market now. Thanks for the answer

[midnightmoon05]

Of course! So what! Life goes on and keep moving till you find the needle in the haystack. I found mind…not easy. But it’s worth it!

[Asker]

Yup 👍

[blueonblack22]

Women do get rejected but nowhere near to the extent men do. Also the phrase “rejected” is subjective to women. If a guy just wants friends with benefits but not a relationship the most women will call that rejection. But I don’t think most men would call that scenario rejection even if they themselves wanted a long term relationship.

Anyway given #metoo has scared the living hell out of a lot of men from approaching nowadays. I expect more and more women will have to deal with rejection nowadays.

I’m actually glad that women get to experience this because it makes them better understand how rejection feels and how they could do a better job when they reject men. Too many women think that guys actually “enjoy” approaching women and (rude) rejection just rolls off our shoulders. Guys do get thicker skinned with experience but we aren’t bullet proof.

Anyway there is nothing wrong with rejecting someone you are not interested in. A mature person will handle it well. But how you do it does matter a whole heck of a lot.

[Asker]

Well. If I ask a woman out and she considers it assault. She’s gonna be made into a clown. Making something into something sexual that isn’t.

I would say MOST women aren’t like this though and the few who are deserve to be alone

[blueonblack22]

I agree most women aren’t like this. But a growing minority of them really ARE like this. Men often have no idea what they are dealing with.

The safe route is to start out friendly. But there is a big friéndzone risk of not be direct about your romantic intentions (unless she already likes you too).

Anyway the chances are very slim about getting metoo’d but it does exist. Men are paranoid for good reason. Women need to step up their game a bit if they want something to happen.

[CarnaGirl18]

Because of my rare syndrome and disability, it makes me have a rare body type. I'm 70 pounds if I'm lucky I can get up to 90. I'm 4.7to8 ft. So you can picture of me being a grown woman in a child's body. So trying to get a date then getting rejected hurts especially after they go for your friend

[A_Bell]

Not really. I've never been the pursuer, only the pursued. I have had hints of interest fail, but not any direct asking out.

Of course, I don't date now since I am married. Obviously neither of us rejected each other.

[Asker]

I know it makes you nervous. But when you only let someone ask you out you limit your options. Also pursing someone should be equal effort no matter who initiates. Some women want men to chase them…. Until the men finally find someone else who isn’t going to play games

[A_Bell]

I don't play games. I just don't pursue initial contact.

[Asker]

I don’t play games either. But that’s not playing games. If you want to limit your options, frankly some guys might not even notice you because they’re just living their dah to sag lives.

That or sit around crushing on guys who may not even be into you and waste your time. That’s on you boo.

[Asker]

I met my current girl because she made contact with me first. And things are going great

[Asker]

And tk be honest. Guys with a lot of options. Have girls throwing themselves at them. If I see a really beautiful girl (when I was single obviously) I know she’s probably not gonna approach me she gets asked all the time.

The girl I’m with was a exception

[Ozanne]

I was considered pretty when I was younger. I was rejected many times! Just because a woman can be considered pretty by others doesn't mean she's pretty to the one guy she's interested in.

[Spongebobssocks]

I've never really asked anyone out.. but I'm sure I would be rejected if I did

[catarecute]

dont bother asking guys out seriously they are a nightmare most of them. the prettier you are the more likely they will reject you so they can tell all their friends "look who i rejected".

[Spongebobssocks]

@catarecute well humans overall are nightmares but I've met far more nicer men than women in my life.

But if thats the case i wouldn't be rejected cause im ugly lol..

Thank you for the heads up:)

[catarecute]

tbh i have asked guys out before and i make sure i look as ugly as possible when i do it. that way if he rejects me he was obviously shallow and i dodged a bullet.

[Spongebobssocks]

@catarecute okay but to play it fair. Would you say yes to a male dwarf? There are reasons why we are attracted to what we are attracted too.

Im not saying you should look perfect all the time but trying to look ugly is harsh dont you think? Cause im not trying to look ugly I just am

[catarecute]

tbh dwalfism is a disability i dont think disability and malformations can be classed as ugly. most people who have no disability or malformation are good looking. what some people call ugly is someone who doesn't do their hair, doesn't look verry clean, hasn't waxed or shaved properly or isn't wearing piles of makup. when i dont take care of myself people call me ugly, i look completely different when i do myself up even been recruited and interviewed by photographs and model agencies. honnesly if a guy is to shallow to see past all this and can't see me for the person i am he isn't worth my time.

[Spongebobssocks]

@catarecute alright well hope you find the man you want!:)

[Asker]

@catarecute that’s their loss then

[Asker]

If you never make a move you limit your options only to those who approach you. And besides if a guy whose like that rejects you he did you a favor

[Asker]

You’re just sexist against men. That’s why no good decent man wants you. Sad.

[Asker]

Ignore her SpongeBob. She’s basically as pathetic as a incel.

[Spongebobssocks]

@asker i dont wanna start any drama. I see some feminism in her statement that I dont agree with but either way wish you both well

[catarecute]

asker fuck you thats all i have to say to you

[Asker]

@catarecute fuck you you too. No wonder no good men want you. Nobody likes a sexist piggy who hates me. Except loser men

[Asker]

Sorry SpongeBob. She said some good things. But these men bashers here are really pathetic. It used to be all the incels but it seems many of the women have gotten just as bad

[Spongebobssocks]

@asker yeah its gotten bad I know.. I see equally as many feminazis as male Incels i'd say

[catarecute]

why do you think you can talk for good men you dont seem to be one you seem like a complete a hole i would never date you.

[Asker]

@catarecute lol. I speak for myself. You’re a sexist. To most people I’m very nice unless they give me a reason not to be

[Asker]

@catarecute and you don’t even deny your sexist. Why would a good dude want you? If you seem to hate men in general. You seem like a ass yourself.

[Asker]

Yup lmao 🤣. It’s getting that way. But there is also a lot of common sense people here too.

[catarecute]

i dont even know why i bothered insulting you. its late at night so i am tired and i completely forgot i could just ignore you. or block you.

[Awesomesauce2005]

@catarecute this is a false statement. Do not trust this woman.

[catarecute]

@Awesomesauce2005 i am a woman and you and some other guy are basically treating ne like shit so you are both proving me right.

[Asker]

@catarecute well. You seem to hate men. That’s why I don’t like you. I get along with most women. Good luck ever finding a decent man with your sexist attitude

[Asker]

@catarecute you treat men like shit. Don’t expect men to treat you nicely. Any decent man with self respect is gonna walk on by.

[catarecute]

as you say i "seem "to hate men. you dont know for sure because you dont know me and never will.

[Asker]

@catarecute I don’t wanna know you and you do have a problem with men. Now I’m done arguing. You’re pathetic. You deserve to be alone

[Asker]

The fact that you’re so angry by what I say. Tells me I must have struck something inside of you.

[catarecute]

and you will never know that for sure because as i say you dont know me. i am complete stranger on the internet. you are wasting your time analysing me.

[Asker]

@catarecute you really need to prove yourself to a stranger online. Goodbye. You hate men. That’s why men don’t like you. Sorry!

[Asker]

You’re wasting your time posting all these comments. You sit here bashing men in general. If all men are the problem you probably need to look at yourself. Especially if even girls see the problem you have

[Awesomesauce2005]

Wow, this took a turn lol

[Unit1]

Way to answer your own question. Take a look here

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=girls+getting+rejected

[sunflower00]

Yeah, when I was 12/13 the guy I liked did not like me back but we were kids, it really doesn’t matter.

[Asker]

True

[Nikki1989]

Of course, it happens to everyone at least once.

[Asker]

Seems to be. Thanks

[Robertjo16]

By many. Guys, my dad, my mum, my friends. Everyone almost.

[Asker]

Oh sorry

[Robertjo16]

It's fine

[CubsterShura]

Yeah they do. It literally happens to everyone who does approach people, pretty or not. What about it?

[KrakenAttackin]

When girls get rejected they loose their fucking minds.

[Asker]

Well. This depends on the girl lol.

[Apple1996]

All the time as a kid/preteen. Boys constantly rejected me

[scooogy]

Preteens have no taste for pretty women

[In_Trance]

If you already know this then why would you ask the question

[Momma-404]

Yeah I was rejected once in like middle school

[Billlewis]

@Momma-404 So, in other words, once in your entire life;).

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yes.

[Vegasrunner]

@lafemmefatale_1 What happened?

[smashleyy]

yeah but I was piss drunk so valid

[catarecute]

yes once by some mormon guy.

[Jmmmfi4]

THE HELL THEY DO

[Asker]

Guys are in relationships. Some guys just aren’t interested. It happens dude. Believe me.

[Simslover92]

Yes and it hurt bad

[Asker]

Happens to us all. At least you put yourself out there.

[Simslover92]

Yeah that's true.

[love_conquers_lust]

Yes. So have I.

[SeaStorm1]

yep i have rejected more then once's

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Plenty, sure

[sashasauce]

All the time. It hurts like hell every time.

[Anonymous]

No. I've never asked a guy out.

[MsElizabeth96]

Nope

[Akam93]

All the time.

[Libarena]

Yep.

[Christoff92]

It works both ways.

[Amarasimmons7]

Yepp.

[MissBoogus]

No .