Girls, Have you ever faced rejection?

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Razp_Sorbet · Accepted Answer

Of course. I remember the first time so vividly. Had a crush on a guy for a while, we chatted a lot and he seemed to like me too. We were gonna hang out one day but he ended up not being able to because of a family emergency, his best friend told me at school the Monday and was super apologetic (he was not the nicest guy class clown a pain to the girls). Ended up texting more and more, figured out that our houses backed onto the same creek and he was talking about sneaking out and having a picnic under the stars. So cheesy. After a while I kinda just decided to go for it and ask him out officially, he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. I was super bummed, heartbroken. Felt betrayed in a way. A couple weeks later I ended up starting to date another guy. My first boyfriend. The crush found out and messaged me "you move on quick". I was hurt it was a rebound in a sense. But he kept close and ended up coming to the rescue a couple times when things got messy with him.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Yes of course. I was rejected very often. I remember one day I applied for a temporary job to help me with my studies. The manager told me that I did not meet the minimum requirements for the job I applied to and my application was rejected.

It is actually not a big deal. It happens to people all the time. Rejection is part of life and if you cannot take rejection, then you should probably not apply for a job because unless you are very qualified, you are likely going to get a rejection.

What do you think happens to all those that are unemployed and write dozens of applications without ever getting the job.

provokeesmokee · Answer

I've been rejected softly by girls I've asked out, and I once gave a guy my number but he never texted (didn't expect it either, tho).

I feel awkward, but I don't mind. I've found my life is better when I focus making time and effort for those who reciprocate my interest.

I'm not for everyone, neither is everyone for me.

curiousmandy · Answer

It’s not fun or easy but objection is a part of life and growth. I’ve dealt with it myself plenty of times, I’ve just learned to be kinder to myself about it and move on.

silvermoon84 · Answer

Yes, for jobs and relationships. It happens to both genders and it sucks for both genders

DishLady · Answer

Sort of. It felt like surreptitious rejection to me, but guy will insist it wasn’t. 🤷🏻‍♀️ For me, it was just a question of reciprocity.

12karen · Answer

No bc I confess only when I'm 80% sure I'm not gonna get rejected

Anonymous · Answer

No. I only make a move if I know it’s mutual

Theraingoddess · Answer

It's like i wasn't even included in the picture in the first place.. makes me feel different from everyone else

CaitlinSims25 · Answer

Yep did get rejected some guys. yep got rejected whiling be flirty, rejected by friendship

FionaGarrett · Answer

Because I seldom take the initiative to invite people, I am an introvert.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, but it is never important.

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

No I haven't.

Justneedtokno · Answer

Yep, definitely have

Anonymous · Answer

Guys suck!!

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