Have you ever being rejected? If so, what was your reaction?

Have you ever being rejected? If so, what was your reaction?

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  • Yes! I was heartbroken AF! I chased this guy for a whole year. In the end he didn’t want anything more than “just being friends”. I respected that and I moved on with my life. I’m glad I did because now I’m with someone who makes me feel so much happier!!
    I’m not doing the chasing by the way LOL.
    Sometimes God removes people from your life... to replace it with someone you actually need and that deserves to be in you life.

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  • Plenty of times by guys u didn't rlly care about either. But I've also gotten half rejected by a guy i rlly liked and I was left confused bc he nv wanted to give me a def answer🤦🏾 now we dnt talk anymore

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  • Well, depends of the madurity I had on that time.
    By now, I understand it, and I move forward, if she says let's be friends, I try to feel if it's what she really wants or not.

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  • Not significantly. So we will see how I react, if it happens.

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    • 4d

      What do you mean by not significantly? Were you into her but it didn’t matter that she rejected you? 🤔

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    • 2d

      Thanks for the MHO!

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      You bet! 👍🏼

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  • If you have been in more than one relationship, them you have probably experienced rejection. When I was young, I was devastated by rejection but, now, I don't care that much. I just think to myself 'it wasn't meant to be' and I start looking for my next victim! :)

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  • Yes, of course. The earliest rejection of my life was an "Ew, no" in 6th grade. Two boys said I was the ugliest thing they'd ever seen in their lives.

    Adulthood: After a first date, he said we didn't click as much in person as we did on the phone before previously meeting. I explained that nerves can cause things to not be as comfortable and was a bit hurt. A week later, he begged me for a second date, which I suspect was not because he had reconsidered but rather that dating wasn't going as he had planned.

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  • Oh yeah, and the first couple of times it felt like I got slapped in the face and I felt like junk. I got more used to it over time, but there was truly only one girl that had the guts to tell me straight up she didn't like me like I liked her, had mad respect for her after that. Better than the girls that would say "Maybe some other time," or "I have this going on..."

    Nowadays it's more like, "Aw, shit. Well, onto the next girl." Always helps to practice and maintain abundance mindset

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  • In my case was something like this:
    - Hey do you want to go out?
    - Sorry, but you are my best friend ex so no.
    - I understand, no problem.
    *gets a little upset but doesn't remembers it two days later*

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  • I've been rejected. I try to find out why and get her to like me, but if that doesn't work in a simple attempt, I just pretend to be cool with it. Resolve my sorrows in my den. Works out fine and saves the drama.

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  • Haven't been rejected per se but I got ghosted by someone because I think he feared I would reject him... kinda the same thing. I was obsessed and it hurt for a long time but now I see him on the street and think pfft loser.

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  • i was pretty depressed about it and i was still hung up on the girl for a long time, cause she got with a guy from my friend circle. so i couldn't get rid of her. i eventually had to abendon the entire friend circle to get over it.

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  • I’ve never been directly rejected but there’s one guy I’ve been friends with since childhood. I’ve liked him on off and throughout the years. Recently we were talking about his exes and he said ”Funny thing is i can’t imagine myself falling for you because you’re pretty much family & you don’t fall for family” - that did hurt a bit but at the end of the day to be called family by someone is a pretty big deal and I love him too much because of which i’ve made peace with the fact that we will always be just friends and honestly , i’m content with that because relationships come and go but friendship is ❤️

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  • Been rejected plenty of times, nowadays it's just a shrug at most. Sometimes you can't win, better to take the loss and fight another battle.

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  • I was pretty embarrassed, because I had been racking up the courage for a while to even talk to him.

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  • I am sure. It goes both ways. I dont take it to heart. No reason to dwell on why... move on to next.

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  • Nothing actually bit hurt the first few times but after that you don't really feel anything.
    It's just boring now at the least, so I usually don't bother asking anymore.

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  • I've been rejected numerous times. My reaction: great anger and depression. I've subsequently washed my hands of women.

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  • Smile. Let them go without making drama. Pretend I'm totally cool with it. Then if will feel like shit for a bit and I'll move on 👍🏻

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  • It used to be a sinking feeling in my stomach... now I brush off rejection completely and I see HER as making a bad decision she has to live with.

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  • I have. I dont take it well. I tend to try once to convince them to rethink but then cut all ties

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  • I’ve never been rejected but if I was I’d just say ok and go away. I’d contemplate for a few days but I’ll get over it.

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  • Rejected? About 90% of the time, but I have a thick skin (perhaps a thick head, too?) so I keep swinging. The hits make the strike out irrelevant.

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  • It only sucks if you think it has something to do with who you are. I pretty much don't care because it isn't me. It's all them.

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  • Never fun. But painful too is hurting someone by rejecting them. I think/feel too much as a rule... lol

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  • I only get rejected. I just thank them for their time and move on. Then again, I expect rejection so it doesn't phase me much.

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  • I don’t really call it being rejected cause I just take chances and look at it like their loss

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  • Usually my rejections occur online, and being blocked says it all to me. I hate it a lot

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  • Yes my reaction was plain ok I get it.
    Deep down I was pissed off not because she rejected me but because of the way she rejected me.
    I asked her out and she said she won’t not because she didn’t like me but because she didn’t know me despite actually knowing each other for years and even then I knew that and that’s exactly why I asked her on a date. She basically bs’ed me to my face and that’s one thing I absolutely hate. Don’t ever reply to me with dishonesty after I open up to you honestly about my true feelings.

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  • You know…it would be better to ask if I have been ever accepted. The list would be way shorter.

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  • sad but you win some you lose some we have all been there at some time in our lives

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  • Every man gets rejected about 90%. Your loss not mine, let's move on to the next one.

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  • Yes, I thought: well that’s something I’ll never try again

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  • I’ve been rejected so many times because of my autism. No other girl wants to be with a mentally disabled guy.

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  • Yes. My reaction. You have a bad taste, nice to know you anyway. Good day.

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  • Of course, what reaction really, it's life how it goes

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  • ok bye

    Then rethinking about it "omg I was so awkward, why did I say that, I didn't smile..."

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  • Just pick up my pride and move on.

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  • Udontwant2kno.

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  • No. You can't be rejected if you don't approach

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  • "Shit... Well, wanna fuck then?"

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  • 14 times in a day. I just don't care.

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  • I move on that's my reaction

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  • 'no worries' and get back to what I was doing.

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  • I just walked away backwards

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  • embarrassed

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  • I just forget about it and move on.

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  • Yes and I move on.

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  • yeah, i just got over it

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  • Anyone would reject me.

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  • Because of my problems and the way I talk.

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  • It's usually me who does the rejection... lol

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  • I get rejected by a girl almost every single day lol. The worst was probably my first though since I legit loved her and I still think about her everyday even though it's been more than a year. I'll never see her again though

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  • I was rejected once, but now I think about it, it’s hilarious! I met this girl and I thought she was an amazing person! I asked her out and she really responded very harshly and I was kinda shocked!

    I think she later realized she did a mistake and came to me and apologized, but I was no longer thinking about her anymore! When she apologized, I said: “Don’t worry, I was wrong” and she immediately turned red! Ohh my God, it was priceless! 😂

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  • This question makes you seem like a sociopath that feeds off of the the misery of others.

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