Have you ever being rejected? If so, what was your reaction?

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Davis04 · Accepted Answer

Yes! I was heartbroken AF! I chased this guy for a whole year. In the end he didn’t want anything more than “just being friends”. I respected that and I moved on with my life. I’m glad I did because now I’m with someone who makes me feel so much happier!!
I’m not doing the chasing by the way LOL.
Sometimes God removes people from your life... to replace it with someone you actually need and that deserves to be in you life.

LuvAsh · Accepted Answer

Plenty of times by guys u didn't rlly care about either. But I've also gotten half rejected by a guy i rlly liked and I was left confused bc he nv wanted to give me a def answer🤦🏾 now we dnt talk anymore

lernulo · Accepted Answer

Well, depends of the madurity I had on that time. By now, I understand it, and I move forward, if she says let's be friends, I try to feel if it's what she really wants or not.

Grond21 · Accepted Answer

Not significantly. So we will see how I react, if it happens.

StingRayxoxo · Answer

Yes, of course. The earliest rejection of my life was an "Ew, no" in 6th grade. Two boys said I was the ugliest thing they'd ever seen in their lives.

Adulthood: After a first date, he said we didn't click as much in person as we did on the phone before previously meeting. I explained that nerves can cause things to not be as comfortable and was a bit hurt. A week later, he begged me for a second date, which I suspect was not because he had reconsidered but rather that dating wasn't going as he had planned.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If you have been in more than one relationship, them you have probably experienced rejection. When I was young, I was devastated by rejection but, now, I don't care that much. I just think to myself 'it wasn't meant to be' and I start looking for my next victim! :)

alif24 · Answer

I’ve never been directly rejected but there’s one guy I’ve been friends with since childhood. I’ve liked him on off and throughout the years. Recently we were talking about his exes and he said ”Funny thing is i can’t imagine myself falling for you because you’re pretty much family & you don’t fall for family” - that did hurt a bit but at the end of the day to be called family by someone is a pretty big deal and I love him too much because of which i’ve made peace with the fact that we will always be just friends and honestly , i’m content with that because relationships come and go but friendship is ❤️

Daniel3035 · Answer

Yes my reaction was plain ok I get it.
Deep down I was pissed off not because she rejected me but because of the way she rejected me.
I asked her out and she said she won’t not because she didn’t like me but because she didn’t know me despite actually knowing each other for years and even then I knew that and that’s exactly why I asked her on a date. She basically bs’ed me to my face and that’s one thing I absolutely hate. Don’t ever reply to me with dishonesty after I open up to you honestly about my true feelings.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Oh yeah, and the first couple of times it felt like I got slapped in the face and I felt like junk. I got more used to it over time, but there was truly only one girl that had the guts to tell me straight up she didn't like me like I liked her, had mad respect for her after that. Better than the girls that would say "Maybe some other time," or "I have this going on..."

Nowadays it's more like, "Aw, shit. Well, onto the next girl." Always helps to practice and maintain abundance mindset

Anonymous · Answer

I was rejected once, but now I think about it, it’s hilarious! I met this girl and I thought she was an amazing person! I asked her out and she really responded very harshly and I was kinda shocked!

I think she later realized she did a mistake and came to me and apologized, but I was no longer thinking about her anymore! When she apologized, I said: “Don’t worry, I was wrong” and she immediately turned red! Ohh my God, it was priceless! 😂

musicloverr8 · Answer

Haven't been rejected per se but I got ghosted by someone because I think he feared I would reject him... kinda the same thing. I was obsessed and it hurt for a long time but now I see him on the street and think pfft loser.

genericname85 · Answer

i was pretty depressed about it and i was still hung up on the girl for a long time, cause she got with a guy from my friend circle. so i couldn't get rid of her. i eventually had to abendon the entire friend circle to get over it.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

In my case was something like this:
- Hey do you want to go out?
- Sorry, but you are my best friend ex so no.
- I understand, no problem.
*gets a little upset but doesn't remembers it two days later*

jayden888 · Answer

I've been rejected. I try to find out why and get her to like me, but if that doesn't work in a simple attempt, I just pretend to be cool with it. Resolve my sorrows in my den. Works out fine and saves the drama.

Nivinxus · Answer

Been rejected plenty of times, nowadays it's just a shrug at most. Sometimes you can't win, better to take the loss and fight another battle.

Phanta · Answer

I've been rejected numerous times. My reaction: great anger and depression. I've subsequently washed my hands of women.

maddog998 · Answer

I don’t really call it being rejected cause I just take chances and look at it like their loss

Prof_Don · Answer

It used to be a sinking feeling in my stomach... now I brush off rejection completely and I see HER as making a bad decision she has to live with.

lanabug · Answer

I’ve never been rejected but if I was I’d just say ok and go away. I’d contemplate for a few days but I’ll get over it.

witherwing · Answer

I was pretty embarrassed, because I had been racking up the courage for a while to even talk to him.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I am sure. It goes both ways. I dont take it to heart. No reason to dwell on why... move on to next.

sasukeuchiha7 · Answer

Nothing actually bit hurt the first few times but after that you don't really feel anything. It's just boring now at the least, so I usually don't bother asking anymore.

CharlieTheUnicorn · Answer

Smile. Let them go without making drama. Pretend I'm totally cool with it. Then if will feel like shit for a bit and I'll move on 👍🏻

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I have. I dont take it well. I tend to try once to convince them to rethink but then cut all ties

Wolframium · Answer

You know…it would be better to ask if I have been ever accepted. The list would be way shorter.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Rejected? About 90% of the time, but I have a thick skin (perhaps a thick head, too?) so I keep swinging. The hits make the strike out irrelevant.

StellarDrift · Answer

It only sucks if you think it has something to do with who you are. I pretty much don't care because it isn't me. It's all them.

toddthemod · Answer

Never fun. But painful too is hurting someone by rejecting them. I think/feel too much as a rule... lol

idiotmanchild · Answer

I only get rejected. I just thank them for their time and move on. Then again, I expect rejection so it doesn't phase me much.

TheFlak38 · Answer

Every man gets rejected about 90%. Your loss not mine, let's move on to the next one.

janna_jcb · Answer

Yes, I thought: well that’s something I’ll never try again

Anonymous · Answer

I get rejected by a girl almost every single day lol. The worst was probably my first though since I legit loved her and I still think about her everyday even though it's been more than a year. I'll never see her again though

Anonymous · Answer

This question makes you seem like a sociopath that feeds off of the the misery of others.

windingroad · Answer

Usually my rejections occur online, and being blocked says it all to me. I hate it a lot

Mr_Mystery · Answer

Yes. My reaction. You have a bad taste, nice to know you anyway. Good day.

Dionigi · Answer

ok bye Then rethinking about it "omg I was so awkward, why did I say that, I didn't smile..."

coolbreeze · Answer

Just pick up my pride and move on.

artemis77 · Answer

sad but you win some you lose some we have all been there at some time in our lives

Hrdnow · Answer

Of course, what reaction really, it's life how it goes

Titanic1912 · Answer

I’ve been rejected so many times because of my autism. No other girl wants to be with a mentally disabled guy.

Felinegirl · Answer

"Shit... Well, wanna fuck then?"

Lonely_indiangirl · Answer

Anyone would reject me.

tartaarsaus · Answer

No. You can't be rejected if you don't approach

Lemia · Answer

Because of my problems and the way I talk.

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

I just walked away backwards

thechesseman · Answer

14 times in a day. I just don't care.

megaman242 · Answer

I move on that's my reaction

sp33d · Answer

'no worries' and get back to what I was doing.

Anonymous · Answer

Sadness and ugliness, I want plastic surgery

Lance1965 · Answer

I just forget about it and move on.

MisterSir · Answer

yeah, i just got over it

FebronianMainline · Answer

Udontwant2kno.

lealorraine · Answer

embarrassed

Eleni91 · Answer

Yes and I move on.

valualty · Answer

It's usually me who does the rejection... lol

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