Have you ever been rejected for being inexperienced?

[Anonymous]

I’m almost 29 and have never had a girlfriend or dated. At this point, I just feel like its gonna be a repeating cycle of going on dates, only to get rejected once a girl finds out how inexperienced I am. So I was asking this because I was wondering if this has happened to any guys on here who are or were inexperienced at an older age, or if their inexperience gave them no issues with dating.

Yes I’ve been rejected because of it

No, I’ve never been rejected because of it

[LonelyTimes]

Dude, I am 27, turning 28 soon, and I never had a real girlfriend. I haven't touched a woman in 7 years, since I lost my virginity during a weekend fling. She didn't want anything to do with me after that.

I feel like a failure with women. I know the feeling. I cannot even get dates. I just feel like it is all downhill from here, as most of my former friends are married and/or have kids. I feel I am having less and less in common.

[Asker]

Hey man, I just read your reply and your story sounds identical to mine. I lost my virginity back when I was 21 and it was a one time thing also and I never saw or talked to her again either. Its been 7 years for me too, and I feel like I’m a failure with women by my own inaction since I’ve never had the confidence to even ask anyone out and to this day I still haven’t. Now at this point, a lot of girls see it as a red flag and think its weird if a guy has no experience. I created a poll on here asking girls if a guy who’s almost 30 and has never had a girlfriend or dated is a red flag and all of them said yes, I even added the option for them to vote that it depends on the reason why and only 1 picked that option so that shows for most girls, the reason why is irrelevant just the fact that you’re inexperienced at such a late age is a dealbreaker. Most of my former friends are also married and/or have kids too, and even when I was back in high school, my group of guy friends began distancing themselves from me because they were all getting girlfriends or hooking up and I wouldn’t even talk to any girls because I didn’t have the confidence, so they started trying to avoid associating with me.

[RobT312]

I Think you’ll be ok.
u just need to find someone in the same situation or find a girl that thinks it’s “cute”

[Asker]

There’s no girls in the same situation since dating and sex comes so much easier to girls, especially these days with sites like Tinder. No girls really think its cute either, what they mean when they say that is its a puppy kind of cute, not a he’s cute and I wanna fuck him kind of cute.