Search Results: ways to approach guys at a gym

Shy Guy & Shy Girl; how to talk and conversation starters?

I'm an introvert and very shy. I don't feel comfortable going up to anyone I don't know and starting conversations (unless its buying groceries, ordering dinner, etc). There's a guy I like at my gym and I think he might...

Diskid

Xper 5 Age: 39

What's a pickup line you'd like from a guy AT THE GYM?

I've seen many guys approach girls at the gym but it looks pretty invasive the way they do it, and it showed in the girls' reaction. I was wondering if there's something girls would maybe "like" a guy to tell them during...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why are most chicks awkward around me and how they can shoot themselves in the feet?

It's not so much a complaint as much as it is actually a question haha! I've been out with gals before, sexed and all the rest of it, but there are times it can feel like such a drag; not 'cos the chicks I go out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If you were out and you saw a guy that you was attracted to, how would you like him to approach/start a conversation with you?

Girls if you were out doing something, could be anything like sat in a coffee shop, or in the library (uni), or in the gym, I know that if you're in the library or the gym, 99.9% of the time you won't want to be...

talltom94

Xper 6 Age: 31

The Real Reason Why Men Are Single

For the record, I am no longer single; however, I know what it is like to be a single man. For that reason, I decided to write a Take on some reasons why men stay single for a long time. Before I continue this Take, let...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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7 Reasons Why I'm Single

Just a few of the reasons why I'm single: 1. I'm sexually liberated. I'm not having sex with the crew but when I want it I get it. If I like a guy I'm seeing I will have sex with him. Basically the same things men do....

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Is he attracted to me? Help please read i'm curious to know?

So I'm African American and I am pretty attractive I guess you could say. One day I was wiping down the equipment at the gym where I work and this white guy a couple years older than me ( I'm 19) kept looking at me. And...

Stargirlxo

Xper 4 Age: 28

Are good morning snaps a good thing?

A couple weeks ago I went to a party and met a guy who goes to the same Uni as me. He noticed and approached me first, asked if I had a boyfriend and asked for my snap. My phone was dead so I used his phone to add my...

Bleu52

Xper 4 Age: 27

Girl was very into me, now sending mixed signals. Should I walk away?

Went on a date with a girl (21), I'm a 28 yr old (somewhat famous) athlete. Before Id met her, some1 from my gym said she overheard this girl talking about me.. I'd seen her around thinking she was very beautiful and I...

trevor6

Xper 2 Age: 35

Please someone read the full story and give me advice? Very complicated client vs. personal trainer relationship?

From the first day we started working out, i told him I'm a very shy and introverted person so if i hold on to you as my trainer, you'll always be my trainer, because I don't get used to people quickly (I'm basically...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I don't want to give up on my crush as, yet?

Part 1 it's in the gym, we don't know each other at all, but I'm getting the some of the signs, I've experienced similar behavior from other girls before and my assumptions if they like me was correct but it was they...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don't want to give up on my crush as yet?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are these signs of interest or just him being friendly? If he's interested then why has be not asked me out?

I've gotten to know this guy over the last year as I see him a few days each week. Initially he would just say hi and smile. Eventually it turned into him joking a bit with me. He knew I had a boyfriend so it was just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why did my boyfriend get upset with me when I told him guy's hit on me?

I recently lost a lot of weight from working out, and a lot of guys approach me at the gym. When they do, I am friendly and polite with them. I like to make new friends and my intentions are always pure (I have a...

Calixx

Explorer Age: 32

Hitting on girls at the gym yay or nay?

Is the gym also fair game, what would be the best way to approach indirect or direct? Have you ever cold approached at the gym, what would you say? Girls would you mind if an attractive guy at the gym hit on you, not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is the gym also fair game, what would be the best way to approach indirect or direct? Have you ever cold approached at the gym, what would you say? Girls would you mind if an

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Is the gym a good place to meet women? Ladies, do you ever pick up guys there?

First let me point out this isn't my sole intention for going to the gym, I'm not stalking women or anything lol, I'm just curious as I recently started going again and I've been single for a while, is the gym a good...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girls, regular flirting or something more?

A few months ago, I approached a girl at the gym. She was at a bench next to me at the free weights section. I complimented her about her strength. She was very receptive and smiled. It was a very brief conversation. At...

rutherd313

Xper 4 Age: 32

My Take on Being What Might Be Considered a 10/10 Guy (Not as Jolly)

My take on being a 10/10 male I just read a take that was featured about being a ten of ten guy and I will be honest, it did not sound right. Almost all of the things mentioned to happen were true but it was emotionally...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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