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So my mom wants me to have a girlfriend, she’s been hounding me about it for years.
There’s a few reason it’s never happened.

•I’m shy
•I’m not ready for a relationship, at all.
•I like older women

Once I turned 18, I joined this local dating site...
since I’m 18, I can only meet women who are 18+

I've started talking to a few women
I've asked them about eventually hooking up
So many women rejected me because of my age.
Except 4 women.

They’re aged 25 - 55.
We’ve been talking & I’ve told them I wanted to end up losing my virginity, but I’m very patient,
so I’m not rushing.
i was just letting them know my intentions.

•The lady who’s 55 lives closest to me
She told me I was too young for her, but she really looks good for her Age.
This lady may end up telling me off because she just absolutely wasn’t going for it, but she was interested in seeing more pictures of me, so you never know what could happen.

•Another girl I’ve been talking to is 37.
She’s actually ok with my age, she’s just further away.
If I could get to her house my virginity may have already been lost.

•Another woman I’ve spoken to is 45.
She’s also close to me.
she's not ok with my age, but she hasn’t exactly
pushed me away.
She told me that we could talk & she’d see where it went, but for now it’s a no (to sex)

•The last woman is 25
the youngest, this woman actually seems pretty shady.
She was quick to talk about meeting up & sex so I may end up blocking her, it’s too risky.

My moms 46
if she found out I was talking to one of these women
would she be disappointed in me?

I'm sure many women here have heard this time and time again, about whether being a virgin male would be a deal breaker, and just as many said it would all depend on the reason... so here's mine.

I grew up watching things Like Maury, Jerry Springier, Snapped Various Shows that show what happens when a relationship goes south from rushing in to quickly or being irresponsible about it.

My Parents relationship wasn't always the most... stable either, as my father was obsessed with bills and money and would always get frustrated when it comes to the topic more often then not. Which was made all the more apparent when he otherwise kept his cool.

Not to mention the constant reminder of Deadbeat dads that ran out on their families cause they could never pay child support.

And A large part of that had to do with women getting pregnant too young, or both men and women being particularly loose when it came to relationships.

So, as a young teen, I decided to put relationships on hold and focus on my studies, I wanted to make sure that i was a responsible, dependable and reliable young man who had his own bank and once he had a family could make sure his wife and children wanted for naught.

Now I feel like i wasted my time doing so, as my desire to be a person worthy of respect is met with whispered mocking due to my lack of experience, my age, and general light mocking.

So that's it, I willingly practiced celibacy to focus on school and getting work, and my reward for it is getting blindsided by societies double standards about when a man should get his cherry popped.

So Please be honest with me, would a man being a virgin still be a turn off knowing all this?