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Approximately six months ago, a guy, for whatever reason via Facebook took an interest in me, and after finding out who he was, I welcomed him as my friend. Well, shortly after, he proceeded persistently with pursuing me, and trying to talk to me. At first, I wasn't at the least bit interested, as I did not know him at all, but given the current state I was in, I decided to be open-minded, and give this guy a shot, for all time's sake. Well, he seemed alright, I suppose, but he did lie about his age, and he did pressure me into sending him numerous photos of myself, and I innocently enough, took a chance, and sent him one that was decent, but then he wanted more and more, and again, I was uncomfortable as I did not know him well enough for that...Therefore, I very politely told him that I was not confident that this was working out for the best, so I felt we needed to perhaps, go our separate ways? Months passed by, and he contacted me again, wanting to talk to me via the telephone, and after awhile, I decided to give him another chance, and so I accepted, and for about two weeks we spoke via the telephone, and he seemed to be what I thought was a great guy, and he asked me out, and I said sure, but there were some suspicions, before I close my story. He very frequently, disclosed to me how in-confident and low his self-esteem was, and how he repeatedly claimed that beautiful women would approach him all the time, but that he was unsure to approach them, intimidated, and afraid of trusting them for fear of getting hurt, and so my heart sincerely went out to him, to encourage, console, and lift him up, and help him all together naturally, and so more information that I probably shouldn't have disclosed so prematurely was disclosed when asked or volunteered. The most important thing that I shared with him after he asked me, was that I am a virgin, and waiting for the right guy. I normally wouldn't have shared that so soon with a guy, but I did, and I know it was a mistake. My point is, was he using his sad stories to get me in bed, especially after he discovered I was a virgin or was he good guy? by the way, I finally met him in person on my birthday yesterday, well before our scheduled date or what would have been our date this Friday night, and he kissed me four times passionately, and I didn't feel any sparks or specialness there at all. Mind you it was my very first kiss ever, and it wasn't an awful kiss, but unless I'm crazy, and I am certainly not a lesbian, shouldn't a kiss feel a certain way, especially If you're supposed to be into the guy? I realized that I was not into him at all, and I told him politely and respectfully over the phone, that there wasn't any chemistry there for me, and that I feel we would be better off as friends, and I meant that, because there wasn't any chemistry there, it was just very awkward, and if you're into somebody it should not be, right? Did I make the right decision? Was I wrong for turning him down for our date?