I write this Mytake for men. Of course if you're a woman reading this I obviously can't stop you, however, I can warn you that you will that you may find this offensive.
till then here are a few of the many things women say that are obviously total lies and I also believe that our society would be a lot less deceiving once we start to accept that women never mean any of this bullshit.
1. I’m attracted to personality.
This is an obvious no brainer. If this was the case then why do women flock to douchebags with obnoxious and repulsing personalities like flies to a pile of shit?
Even worse, these are also the same individuals they not only tend to develop feelings and emotions for but are also the once they love to go even as far as committing to and starting families with.
Seriously if women really were attracted to funny personality (or personality in general) then why isn't Robin Williams, Charlie Chaplin and the Three Stooges aren't considered sex symbols?
I also never understood how can personality be a factor powerful enough to initiate any sparks of love, sex, or actual act of relationships. I met a lot of women in my life who had nice personalities yet I never found myself attracted to them because they didn't have the physique that I'm attracted to and I can say the same in reverse. same with men, me along with my male friends have gotten it on with a lot of women who have both nice and miserable personalities. we fuck them because we simply thought they were hot and were dtf, regardless of their personalities since is not their personalities that we put our penises in.
till then I really don't see how women are any different in this department. I'm not sure how a man's personality determines whether he will be good in bed or just worth having a fuck with in general.
2. I’m not all about money.
If this was the case then I wonder why all my male friends and relatives always claim they envy me for being single and “never broke.” even if women do play a good role at pretending to be humble it won't be long till they start whining and complaining about how you never “take her out or buying her presents, etc.” and then guilt-tripping you about how you “don't love her” or “care about her” if you refuse.
It also seems that the only time women behave more loving and sexually active is when they want something from you for cheap or even free. that old saying...
Take me out to dinner first!
Which is where I’m getting at one the next one.
3. "I have a sex drive too!”
Ok, I wouldn't say they don't have one but if they do then it sure as hell does not function the same way ours do. this is something that our society (especially liberals and feminists) has wanted us to believe.
I mean could it be a coincidence that unlike us men women, even when it comes down to simple things like a hookup or one night stand they're still not conformed with you looking "hot" and attractive. they still demand other things from you outside the act itself such as...
Free Dates
Free Dinner
Free Gas Rides
Favors
Attention
And many other freebies, along with some sort of attachments after the act is over. If for whatever reason they did not get any of the above from you then they either feel used, exploited or abused. Even worst they can never move on with their lives, they will always feel entitled to hound you around and make your life miserable one way or another.
Bottom line is that while we men want to spread our seeds women in the other hand want the “right” seed planted in them and that seed is usually the one that will provide them with the best-unlimited supply of the crop.
PS: If you have sex with a guy and you expect more than just sex or have any other ulterior motives than you're a prostitute.
4. "I gave up on men!"
When they say this what exactly does this suppose to mean? Have they decided to become lesbians? Have they dated all the men in town and been deceived by each one? Did all men suddenly decided to get them for whatever reason?
Women who make such a statement are usually a major red flag in the world of dating and relationships. Obviously this means that she has hopped around different men and none of them decided to take her serious or live up to her expectations; because apparently she couldn't live up to her end of the bargain and can't stand that she had little to offer in return.
So now they feel like all men are suddenly evil and don't want to accept the fact that they can be a huge part of the problem themselves.
5. “You have no game!”
Last time I checked and according to them themselves women are humans too. So obviously I don't see why you need to talk/communicate with them in a certain way just to prove to them that you are dating/relationship material.
bottom line is whenever a woman tells you that you have no game she is simply telling “sorry you do not impress me or meet my high ass standards” in a hypocritical way to avoid hurting your feelings.
Never feel discouraged when they tell you such bullshit. you never know what her standards and intentions are. she is either looking for a sugar daddy to solve all of her problems or just a drama queen looking for a lapdog to intimidate those she perceives as a threat to her or her image. you better off just not meeting her demands that might become a burden to you in the long run.
6. “I’m waiting till marriage.”
As sacred and holy as religions, society, and politics make this appear to be Marriage is not a biological act and it definitely does not promise actual love and affection!
Marriage is just a social constructed business create to exploit men and serve as a liability for us to be under control and not live our lives freely. It is no wonder why it's been called the slowest form of prostitution. With that said even if a woman is claiming she’s waiting for marriage it does not mean she is automatically a holy faithful princess.
So if a woman says she is waiting for marriage she's just simply suppressing her own sexuality to conserve it for the “right” one. By the right one, I mean that one fool who is too pussywhipped to go as far as solving all of her problems in life while she does nothing except to pay him back with her unexpendable resource that comes with expiration date and a long term contract.
Never forget that so many men have this mentality nowadays, making it very easy for women to appear desirable just for making such a statement. don't be one of these men!
7. I’m not a sex object!
This is basically #3 in reverse. you see sex is always a black and white thing for women. unlike us it is never enjoying or satisfying to them unless they are getting more than just an orgasm out of it.
Just remember that action speaks louder than words. They always say they aren't sex objects but love to wear provocative attires and represent themselves as actual sex objects on the streets and in social media by wearing provocatives attires and showing lots of skin hoping to get the attention and status they are desperately lacking in their lives.
So whenever a woman complains about not being a sex object despite dressing and acting like one what she is really complaining about is you not paying her the actual price she thinks she’s worth in the sexual market. I bet she would not be complaining about you treating her like a sex object if you looked like Brad Pitt or had a mass income.
8. "You don't know what I have been through!"
Everyone in life is fighting a battle, some more intense than others because life is a bitch after all.
This, however, does not mean that those who have it more intense (male or female) are automatically entitled to receive special treatment from those around them. Especially if those around them are not responsible for their misfortunes. It is However their own responsibility to seek treatment on their own time and learn how to accept life for what it is.
Till then you yourself are not responsible for the misfortune of anyone, especially if their misfortune was caused by the poor choices they made in life.
Women who hit you with such a statement are obviously trying to gaslight you. They believe they are special little snowflakes and deserve to be treated like one as well. But again you’re not their counselor, social worker and most of all their personal punching bag. Therefore you’re not entitled to put up with their shit. You’re not responsible for what they have been through in life, especially before meeting you.
9. "He’s just a friend"
No, you’re not a jealous and possessive jerk if you have such concern unless you can't control yourself and decide to take it to the extreme and harm her or anyone around you.
It doesn't matter if she and that so-called friend of hers aren't doing anything on the down-low, this is still a red flag. This means that despite being in the relationship you’re still not a priority but just a temporary option to her. Once you screw up or no longer seem beneficial to her to be in a relationship with then guess what? She already has a replacement!
10. “No Woman Is Ever Capable Of Harming Her Own Children”
I sure wish this one was true! If this bullshit was true then abortions would not exist and the recent outrage that the Heartbeat Bill and the defunding of Planned Parenthood has caused speaks for itself.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not a religious person but I think it's very logical that every animal in the animal kingdom would do whatever it takes to protect their own offspring until he/she is fully grown and capable of taking care of themselves. I see it happening all the time both in real life and on true tv footage. However, it seems like not only do so many FEMALE HUMANS fail miserably at this but they also don't mind inflicting harms on their own offsprings themselves. Even worse they also exploit their own offsprings, so many women nowadays will impulsively get pregnant by any loser out there just…
To use their children as their personal puppets.
To use them to extract free government aids such as child support and welfare.
To have some sort of ultimatum
bottom line is that these maternal instincts that women are supposed to have are a total delusion.
11. “I wish men were more honest and straightforward!”
As a person who always sucked at lying I gotta say that this one is bullshit beyond the extreme!
I have turned off a lot of women in the past because of my honesty and as a resulted became a total loser the dating world, opposed to my male peers and relatives who were total players and always succeeded at having multiple sex partners thanks to their ability to lie at a professional level at telling women sugarcoated poetic pickup lines. Making them instantly fall head over heels for them and letting them in between their legs afterwards as a reward.
I also have female peers and relatives on the other hand who have made an example of themselves as well. They’ve gotten so head over heels when they get hit on by random thugs who judging by their swagger and style of clothing they clearly do not have a clue what respect and commitments are. Yet they still get so mesmerized by their sweet talk, so much till the point that they let them in between their legs hoping they’re gonna live happily ever after. Only to have them ghost them the next day and then they complain about how...
All men are the same!
All men are pigs, they only want sex!
Where did all the good men go!
The bottom line is women are repulsed by truth and honesty and would rather live in a false Disney life. It’s when they realize how temporary and deceiving the Disney life they were offered is that they then wish men were more “honest.”
Conclusion
these are the 11 things I can think of at the moment that I sure wish we can stop believing. I'm pretty sure there are more so if you can come up with others feel free to drop an opinion. if you disagree with anything in this mytake feel free to drop an opinion as well, I don't mind having my views challenge every now and then.
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