Search Results: affair with an attached man

Sleeping with a married man that has chucked me away like I’m nothing?

I’ve known the man since high school, we was always close but nothing ever happened. We both got into serious relationships at the same time, married and had children and lost touch. 8 years ago he got back in contact...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Which number you are?

Almost everyone who gets married marries out of love. But why do so many married people end up cheating? It is because they don't set boundaries. There are nine types of people a married person needs to be aware of and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

My soul mate is married, how do I get him to leave her?

Ok ok. I know I’m a bad person before you even know the situation. The quick version, i met a man (13 years older then myself) almost 2 years ago. We became best friends very fast due to our personality’s meshing so well....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How can I move on from this affair?

So I’ve been involved in an affair with a married man on and off for the past 5 years. Initially, we were together from 2016-2018, and I didn’t see him for 2 years after we broke up. back in June 2020, I went to the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

A married man at work likes me. I grew emotionally attached while not knowing what was up. Nothing happened, but I'm sad. Advice?

In my opinion, he shouldn't be trying to get with me if he's married and makes that clear. Whatever is up in his marriage or not, he clearly showed me that he likes me, finds me beautiful and he behaves in vulnerable,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My bfs ex wants to talk to him?

She reached out to him today asking to chat about some drama that has happened in her life. Back when they used to be a thing, their relationship was intense and he was very attached to her. I don’t think she is the...

victoriaxoxo

Xper 7 Age: 28

Relationships

What would you don in this situation, Your daughter cheated on her fiance and got pregnant, but she tried to hide it and force the fiance care for it?

So basically this man is 58 years old. His wife is 57, and his daughter is 25. The daughter announces gleefully that she is pregnant, but a few days later the fiance aged 27 dropped her off with all of her possessions...

worldscolide

Master Age: 43

So basically this man is 58 years old. His wife is 57, and his daughter is 25. The daughter announces gleefully that she is pregnant, but a few days later the fiance aged 27 dropped

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Guy's Behavior

CALLING ALL MARRIED MEN! would you have an affair?

here is the possible scenario! you are 50 years old and you've been married 20+ years You have 3 children under 10yo your house is hectic and all you do is work while your wife takes care of the children. You never...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

This married woman at work wants to have affair why?

I have a friend at work we get along but she was throwing hints of attraction. We had lunch a few times at work and I didn't notice at first. She sent me a text one day at work said she wants to ask me something. She text...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Guys, Meanwhile, I'm looking for a SF/NSA/FWB affair during the week because my boyfriend supports this. How can other males notice that he's open?

I currently in a relationship for 4 years going strong. My open-minded boyfriend wants me to see other men during the week because of his hectic work schedule and I only see him once a week. However, he insists of having...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

I'm married having an affair with a married man, falling in love with him. What should I do?

We started as friends with benefits, I'm falling in love with him now. I would never tell him that I'm in love with him because in the beginning of our relationship we agreed that it would only be physical. One day he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Marriage & Weddings

A Valentine's Day Wedding: A Symbol Of My Imminent Spinsterhood... And Possibly A Beacon Of Hope?

I hate weddings. I really, really do. They weren’t such miserable affairs when I was younger. Yet as the years have piled up on me (essentially shoving me into the grave), weddings have not just come to represent a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Guy's Behavior

Is the man that has an affair with me, falling in love?

About almost a year I met this man (he is married, has kids and he is my boss) we know each other already, kiss, care, help and even said you know love you and he is now being more attached asking me "am I talking to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why does my friends with benefits act like this?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Okay. So this is my friend of four years. There's always been some sexual tension between us. Three years ago he got a girlfriend and a year ago I got a boyfriend, so between that

Okay. So this is my friend of four years. There's always been some sexual tension between us. Three years ago he got a girlfriend and a year ago I got a boyfriend, so between that period we never crossed the line, but we still flirted intensely. Before those periods though, he use to touch me. During and before, he complimented me all the time. A year ago, we got matched up in the same classes after a year of being apart. He had his girl, I had my guy. I never really crossed the line because I felt that was unfair to my boyfriend, but my friends with benefits told me once that he saw us being in a relationship. We smoked together sometimes, once he told me he was hoping we'd just be shit faced and have an affair with eachother. He brought up motions of us being together. And shit.

I feel like he did that because he had his girl, so he felt safe saying that stuff, you know? But that's just my theory.

So my boyfriend and I split in January. He and his girlfriend in February . Soon after we kissed, and gradually moved up to sleeping with eachother.

Now. He NEVER brings up the thought of us together. He seems so terrified just at the thought of us being together. I can jokingly call him "Babe" and just in an instant he'd be like, "Don't call me that". Like relax man, I was just joking. LOL. But he calls other girls pet names jokingly, and has noooo problem with that.

I mean like. To be honest, the feelings have always been there. But I'm leaving for a four-year university in September. I'm sure it wouldn't work anyway. And he's one of my closest friends, so why do it if I'm gonna' probably end up losing him? I'm not attached to him. Usually when I have feelings it's like an obsession, but it's not like that with him. I just feel comfortable with him and the idea of not dating him doesn't phase me.

I have my theories, share yours. I like to hear other opinions.

I'm going to go see him tomorrow. Now that we graduated and no one's in our busniess, he'll probably be up front with me.

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Girl's Behavior

Wives, how far would you go to control your husband?

Wives, suppose every man had a small device attached to his balls at birth, which through the use of a remote control, would deliver an electric shock that would cause his balls no damage, just pain. The remote is given...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

I've been having an affair with an attached man. I asked him why he cheats and he says it's because he wants to try new flavours? What does he mean?

Also, does it mean I'm just a flavour then?

Babydb

Xper 2 Age: 44

Health & Fitness

Why are men more emotionally weak?

Studies have shown that men are more likely to leave their sick wives. Part of the reasoning is men are unable to cope with the illness. The other part is that the illness often takes a toll on the woman's appearance and...

pickledxtofu

Xper 5 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

Will the guy keep it at just sex or is he forming the beginning of at attatchment?

I am currently having sexual encounters with a man who is married, yes an affair. We have been "Meeting Up" every week for the past two months. Before I get to the biggest details, let it be known before any encounters we...

Adrnlnrsh

Xper 3 Age: 38

Other

What should I do, tell him or just leave it as it is because walking away isn't an option?

Almost a year ago I befriend a married man shortly after it turned into an affair. I know that this was wrong on both of our behalfs but at the time it started I was trying to get over someone and didn't want to fall in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Do affairs ever work?

I am married and the man I am seeing is also married. right now it is only an emotional affair. we have not done anything more physical than a hug. He is quite a bit older than me. I am 31 and he is 50. he is really very...

Anonymous

(36-45)