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So um... physical appearance first I guess. I got medium brown hair. Chin length. Medium brown eyes. Pale skin. I'm Brazilian, but look like a white American. I'm 5'9, weigh 153 pounds. I'm pretty slim, and kind of toned. Though I do have some meat on me too, especially on my legs/thighs. And my thighs kind of jiggle a lot, but they're not "FAT." I shave off all of my body hair, though I'm not hairy to begin with. I got zero facial hair, so no need to even shave. I like to wear short shorts...3-5 inch inseam. About mid-thigh, or covering half my thigh, or slightly less. Rise up half an inch when I sit. I paint my nails all sorts of pretty colors, too. Physically, I clearly look masculine, and can't pass for a girl. I look like a regular guy who just happens to paint his nails, shave his legs, and wear short shorts.

Then personality... I am very sweet, caring, kind, affectionate. I always ask people how their day is, in a very soft voice, and am willing to listen to someone's problems, always. I love affection, hugs, cuddles, and kisses... though I always ask if the person is okay with it first, obviously. I also am sensitive. I cry at beautiful movies or beautiful songs. I also am good with animals and children. "Motherly" even. Though I don't desire to have my own pets or kids, too much work. But I like playing with like my friend's younger brothers and sisters, and their pets.

Then gender identity and sexuality... bisexual for sure. Then uh... femboy, agender, trans girl, and gender-fluid all apply. I don't necessarily WANT to be a woman, but I wouldn't mind if I was.

I do not plan to ever do hormone replacement therapy or sex reassignment surgery though. Too much work, money, risk, and papers. I'd rather keep things how they are. I'm happy this way.

Hanging out with couples when you're single can be very weird. Couples on the one hand are very happy and overly affectionate but on the other hand are very nosy and pushy. They are just so Happy not to be alone anymore that they want to show off their happiness and at the same time rub it in our single faces. The weird part comes after they calm down their sexual high. Suddenly you become this stray animal to them. They start looking at you with these weird eyes while trying to figure out why someone abandoned you. Then they proceed in a mission to find you a "home" that makes sense for them. When we really just need time to adjust to our new surroundings. We need stability not dependence.

A Single person to a Couple, who's just come down from the 3 to 6 month sex high, is a symbol of lost freedom and independence. A single person can come and go as they please. They don't have to compare schedules or check in all the time with someone who up until a few months ago were a complete stranger. Maybe best of all is the time to enjoy some peace and quiet to yourself without hurting someone's feelings by asking to be alone for a bit. I mean you love your partner but everyone needs a few hours to themselves to do nothing, to worry about nothing. Single people are a constant reminder of the cost of companionship, but only you can decide it's worth it.

So with all that in mind, Should Couples be allowed to hang out with Single People?