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My unpopular opinion is that fate dictates our lives. Since birth, we're wired to react to certain scenarios in our unique way. The way we learn, process information and form our views... it's all predetermined. Think of life as one big explosion. Ever since the big bang, atoms and molecules had their paths set and all of the ways they react with each other could also be calculated. Even when life is formed, the reaction of all of the biology in every organism and their electromagnetic waves could also be predetermined. Of course the math is too complicated for humans to calculate, but it's still very logical.

I know some people may hate me for saying that none of their choices are their own. But I genuinely believe that free will is an illusion.

Throughout my life I have had great difficulty connecting with people. Platonically or otherwise. I have only ever had a small number of friends and never really had any friends of the opposite sex. My family is great and I love them, but I even have trouble connecting with them and am not in touch consistently. I barely made a social media this year and it's private followed only by family and a couple random people from work. Being alone is depressing sometimes, but overall I tend to prefer solitude and cannot imagine ever sharing my personal space closely with another human being. Especially since my mother passed a couple years ago. I believe most of the reason for this difficulty is due to being physically unattractive, maybe even genuinely ugly as well as being extremely socially awkward which is another form of ugliness that people tend to loath. I'm extremely skinny too and cannot gain weight, it's impossible for my acutely ectomorphic body type. Especially after getting a very late in life (age 30) type 1 diabetes diagnosis. I have tried many times and many ways throughout my life and wether I eat 1500 calories or 5k, my body barely changes at all. Only my energy level. Feels like being alone is my destiny and was always meant to be. I am positive most people could not handle the life I live. Not mentally or emotionally so it feels like I was born for this existence only.