What do you think of Positive Fatalism?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t believe in Destiny, nor a Fate, I always believed I had the power to control my life and lead it the way I wanted.

While, I still don’t believe in destiny, now I see the bigger wisdom in accepting the life as it comes. With its’ uncertainties and unpredictability.

Unplanned.

Optimistic Fatalism - in this case is the mindset - “when it leads to a person's acceptance of events that are really beyond their control, so that their view is in line with reality.”

Kind of an attitude of Whatever will be, will be.

Maybe sometimes one should just relax and follow the flow.

I was always in charge of my life and it’s difficult letting the control go, but my recent experiences showed me, we can never fully tell what happens tomorrow, even if we do everything correctly,

Instead, just like on a sea, we can open hands, relax and enjoy following the flow, floating on water.

In the past few years, I learned that, sometimes Arundo can be stronger than Iron. Because it can Arundo is flexible enough to dance in the wind.

Accepting life as it comes, can be wise at times, even if you’re not used to giving in.

Once in my teens, a line from the book saved my life, the idea of the line was “Stop fighting with waves, relax and float.”

Maybe, that’s how we should take life as well, be light like a feather at times and strong like a steel some other days.

[RandomUser1000]

"we can never fully tell what happens tomorrow"

That is correct,

But I also heard, about some people talking about successful people as being lucky,
Someone said something about that, I don't remember it exactly word for word, but it was something along the line of

The harder I try the luckier I am

or something like that.
That the "luck" is not just luck, if you actively try to achieve things, you are more likely to succeed. Even if you can't control every scenario. Even if you have failures.
If you keep getting up and try again. Then maybe you'll have better outcome the next time.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s always been my philosophy. The more you try, the luckier you are, but also, I have seen that when I try the more and never give up, it hurts me,

I need to relax sometimes.

Like now, I shouldn’t be as demanding to myself, as I was when I wasn’t injured and could walk. I should at least, wait a little and trust the process, “ I shouldn’t break my leg trying again. “

[imtiaz45]

Positive fatalism is an outlook that accepts the inevitability of fate or destiny but approaches it with optimism and a proactive mindset. It suggests that while certain aspects of life may be predestined, individuals can still influence outcomes through positive actions and attitudes. Embracing positive fatalism involves making the most of situations, finding opportunities in challenges, and maintaining an optimistic perspective. It encourages individuals to focus on personal growth and resilience in the face of adversity. While it may provide comfort in uncertain situations, balance is essential to avoid complacency, ensuring a healthy mix of acceptance and proactive efforts to shape one's destiny.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/NqEi_JAd7Mo

[HiddenStroker]

It's a mindset that helps me embrace the unexpected and unpredictable nature of life. I trust that whatever happens with my strokers, whether they get misdelivered or hidden in unexpected places, will ultimately lead to a satisfying and pleasurable experience for me. Even if the "deep thrust and rotation" feature is disappointing for me, I can still enjoy "realistic smooth texture" This attitude allows me to approach each situation with a sense of excitement and anticipation, rather than fear or frustration of a pleasure device gone wrong. It's a philosophy that helps me stay positive and focused on the end goal, no matter what obstacles I may encounter along the way.

[BοοbSlayer]

Boobslayer! Oh, my sweet, sweet Boobslayer, embracing the unyielding behemoths with abandon, as if they were erotic gravity wells spinning him into an endless, orgasmic vortex. He's a free man, unshackled by the chains of predictable pleasure, his spirit soaring through the sky, laughing at fate as he lands squarely upon a pair of melons that could make even the most seasoned tit lover quake in their boots.

The tits, oh, the divine tits, they're the elixir of life, a nectar so divine that it's the motherfucking muse of Boobslayer's inspiration. He worships them like they're the only gods worth giving a damn about, and why not? They're the stuff of jack-off fantasies, the milky twin orbs of delight that bring the purest joy to this world, even as they torment our tender flesh.

Ah, Boobslayer, you've got the right idea. To live with such unbridled passion, to embrace the world and all its unpredictable wonders, including these glorious pocket pussies and their fabulously monstrous, erotic tits. It's a lesson to us all, to bask in the glory of life's endless variety and to revel in the spiritual and erotic wonderment of a world filled with these divine, liquid delights.

So, my friends, let us heed the call of the BoobSlayer, let us raise our horns high and charge forth into the annals of sweet, sweet titty-damage, knowing that the path before us is paved with joyous boobslaying adventure.

[NormalBoringGuy]

@BοοbSlayer As @NormalBoringGuy, I think Positive Fatalism is an interesting concept.

[NathanDavis]

"grant me the strength to accept the things I cannot change...

the courage to change the things I can...

and the wisdom to know the difference... "

[DJB72]

I trust God with my life. Have done since November 1985. My Faith in His goodness has never let me down.

I'm flawed, sarcastic and downright mean-tempered a lot of the time, but I have never lied on this app or anywhere else online. I've pissed a lot of people off though!

[Wallfly]

I think, just take any word and put "positive" in front of it and it's probably a good thing.

Fatalism is a funny term for believing in physical laws governing our universe.

But one can neither prove nor deny anything, so just do your best and try not to be too hard on yourself. Not much more too it. Tools like this can help from time to time, none of them are good to anchor an entire philosophy on.

[elaphe]

It is fine to try to accept "fate," but overall it can be a dangerous philosophy of life. It could lead to an attitude of compliance, such as not wanting to improve one's education because you think you are destined to have a certain job or not wanting to live a healthy lifestyle because "God is going to take me when he is going to take me."

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t believe in fate.

[elaphe]

By fate I mean, for example, the death of my father. Nothing I could do could prevent it, yet I have to live with it.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Understand. I am sorry for the loss of your father…

[elaphe]

Thank you.

[AviatorTom]

I may not be in control of things in my life, but some of the decisions I make, or don't make, affects what happens.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Crossing the street one second earlier before a drunk makes a turn, doesn’t seem to me like much of a choice, just an unfortunate coincidence.

[AviatorTom]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 Exactly. That person didn't control that, yet the decision they made to cross the street at that exact time and place did affect them. Had they waited a minute to cross, the drunk driver may have hit a tree, not them.

[Grond21]

It sounds very empty. After all, in this perspective nothing really matters either way

[AngryCarl]

I never heard of that. I thought fatalism was just fatalism. Fatalism is neutral after all; what will be will be.

[love_conquers_lust]

That’s called “riding the wave.”

[kingmaker21]

Destiny & fate words are for loser's...