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Now it's been 2 years
Now whenever we had an argument she is the who want to avoid this argument, not resolving any problems plus avoiding it, we don't have any sex life because she don't like it and I can't even discussion about sex life she thinks that it's cheap to talk about.
She anly wants to talk about it after marriage. That's insane
Nowadays she don't even bother to Call me, whenever I call she don't pick up, not even response on it, and if I discuss it she says I'm talking to u right now what's the problem. Now y you wanna fight?
Like she always blame me for every thing. Even it's not my fault. She don't appreciate me at all she always decided what I wear. And of I ask to to wear my favourite dress she say it my dressing sense is not that good so I should remain silent.
Whenever I ask where is she she says y I wanna now?
And says that if im not asking y should U ask that where she is?
Some time I feel she is selfish.
And I'm trapped
She also says she don't want any child. Because she is the one who is child.

I'm fed up, and confused.

Please 🙏 help...

In business we write a MOU to communicate expectations clearly. So much of the problems in these often perplexing and confoudning times of relationships evolves around expectations, trust, and breaking assumed contract. If there is a stated position and even better... consequences, it would seem to resolve a lot of matters. Here's an example for which you can improve I'm sure. It doesn't have to be legal.

There are so many flavors of relationship now, it's baffling.

Intention of Relationship: Committed 2 people __ swingers __ Open MFM ___, FMF ___ Poly ___
Hookup only _____ friends with benefits _______ # of parties intended 1, 2, 3, X
[im sure there are more options here]

Termination of relationship: Provided in writing may be accompanied by phone call.

Ghosting Permitted: Y / N
Blocking Permitted: Y / N for periods of time

Therapy: Therapy has been discussed as a potential method of resolving conflicts: Y / N

Bond: Each will float a $100 bond to be held in escrow. Violation of contract prior to disbanding relationship results in forfeiture of bond. In event one party has mis represented their position, they forfeit their bond.

Signed: Him: ____________ Date: _________ Her: _______________ Date: _______

I am not saying have a lawyer draw this up, that it can't be changed or someone change their mind, nor is it legally binding. I'm saying... communicate and be honest. Other topics like... sex before marriage, living together and such seem appropriate.