Why do girls and guys keep comparing their experiences to each other?

[xJeremyx]

can't we all just have some empathy for the struggles and problems that the other gender experiences?

Why must we fight among ourselves about who has it worse?

Why can we not recognise we all have our own issues that need highlighting and resolving?

Why is it so hard for people to accept that being men and women are both difficult?

[Anonymous]

This is a feminism thing. Feminism relies on victimology that requires division of the sexes. They have to divide us to maintain the perception that women are oppressed by men, and the adversarial relationship between the sexes in order to continue receiving the special treatment and political power western women have enjoyed in recent decades. But the gender war they have waged against men and boys is backfiring now that the hatred men have toward women as a result has taken on a life of its own in the form of the manosphere, MGTOW and incels. It's a problem of feminism's own making and it's biting them in the ass now.

[jshm2]

That is how community and collaboration support groups work, dumbass.

You think they just pump you full of pills for depression, and leave you with a "cultural music" CD?

[xJeremyx]

I meant, comparing and complaining, not comparing and trying to support each other.

[Guy13]

Instinctual fallen nature accompanied with a drive to win and conquer... "getting along" is a farce and dream of the Enlightenment crowd.

[Anonymous]

Probably because women have been indoctrinated to think that they are victims.