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Search Results: turned off by shyness
Is shyness a sign of emotional weakness?
I’ve been told that women are attracted to emotional strength a man such as confidence, charm, charisma, ambition etc and women are turned off by emotional weakness such as insecurity, neediness, laziness, bad manners etc...
JamieRobinson1994
Xper 6 Age: 31 What is it that gay men see in shy awkward men that women don't?
I'm eternally shy and awkward. However I have had a lot of attention from women. The problem is about 90% of women are put off and visibly turned off by my shyness. The other 10% don't seem to care. But every gay guy...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you think that a shy and delicate girl is turned off by my shyness? Why am I still shy if I know people consider me charming when I am relaxed?
I am not shy around all the girls I am into, but with this one, it is more complicated, since we haven't spoken since we were kids and I was amazed by how beautiful and cute she has become. She knows I've had a couple of...
Anonymous
(25-29) If someone is really nervous and tense around you, is it that big a deal? Do you find it off-putting at all?
Some people are really worried about coming across as nervous or insecure, so they avoid someone they're attracted to. Maybe they're scared of displaying a lack of emotional control and coming across as needy and...
Billyscotter
Explorer Age: 30 What awkward reactions have you had when a crush showed up somewhere near you?
I've come a long way from shyness but before I got here, I had some very awkward moments- #1 I ran into a crush at a clothing store. I saw him and ran to the nearest clothes rack and hid inside of it 🤣 Of course he...
Is it unattractive for someone to be low confident even in a friendship or social level?
Even on a social or friendship level, I find it unattractive for someone to have low confidence, and I find it a turn off as well. When someone wants to get to know me by talking to me with awkward smile or awkward laugh,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is There a Single Biggest Predictor of a Person's Success? A: Yes
What is it that determines personality? Our future health, wealth, and happiness? Why do some people endure such hardships physically, emotionally, and economically, while others lead a relatively well-adjusted, healthy,...
Is it true girls are attracted to confidence & turned off by shyness/social anxiety & touch stops u getting friend zone as suggested by this article?
https://shynesssocialanxiety.com/girlfriend-shy/
Anonymous
(30-35) Reasons Why I Don't Dislike Shy Girls
I've been seeing questions regarding whether or not do guys dislike shy girls. Do guys dislike shy girls? Do guys "dislike" shy girls? My answer is: no I don't hate them. Why? 1. They're adorable. I dunno why but I...
Eryxx
Guru Age: 25 Yet another 15 of my favorite love songs
If you like this list check out my others! And both have some more modern picks than these. 15 of My Favorite Love Songs Another 15 of my favorite love songs THIS IS NOT A TOP 15 SONG LIST (but it will be numbered by...
Jjpayne
Editor Age: 42 14 Unconventional Things I Find Attractive
This is a list of things that may be unconventional I find attractive but others dont. Just my personal opinions and preferences! 1. Short men Yes, I honestly find short men attractive. Shocker? Not really to me. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why We Can't Get People Who Are Bad For Us Out of Our Minds...
I've cracked it. So a guy flirted with and pursued me for the best part of a year consistently, only to turn me down when I made a move. He was then extremely rude about it and used me as a tool to bolster his self-image...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it true shyness can be a turn off?
Okay. I've low self esteem instead of my friends saying i'm beautiful, cute and blah3. My current problem is, I don't have a boyfriend at all since all my crush (es) (2 for now) in my high schools end up liking my own...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do ladies get boyfriends?
I’m 22 years old lady, senior in college. I’ve still never had a boyfriend and I don’t know where my dating life is heading. Everyone around my age has at least somehow dated so I’m just feeling lost. I tried online...
nella965
Explorer Age: 31 How do I get a bf?
I’m 22 years old lady, senior in college. I’ve still never had a boyfriend and I don’t know where my dating life is heading. Everyone around my age has at least somehow dated so I’m just feeling lost. I tried online...
nell10026
Xper 3 Age: 30 Girls, Are all girls turned off by shyness, or do some like it?
I'm a pretty shy guy, and I want to ask a girl out, but am afraid of choking up (don't say "it doesn't matter, the right girl will understand," that doesn't help my anxiety).
Melkorshallreturn
Xper 4 Age: 27 10 Common Cognitive Distortions that Contribute to Negative (or Positive) Thinking
Hello everyone, it's Toad-1 with a new mytake. I should admit right now that I, probably like many people on GAG, suffer from either depression, social anxiety, or some other mental illness. The list I am presenting here...
Toad-1
Guru Age: 42 Is She Still Interested or Has She Lost Interest?
I worked in another area of the store, and I would occasionally glance at this girl, and sometimes she would smile at me. I started to ignore her and not look at her. My shyness got in the way and I did not want to...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) When a guy hides his shyness and tries to act more confident?
I met a guy at college about a year and a half ago. I’ve seen how he is like around his friends. He definitely is different around them than around me. He’s more talkative and outgoing around them. Around me he’s more shy...
Anonymous
(30-35) The Real Reason Why Men Are Single
For the record, I am no longer single; however, I know what it is like to be a single man. For that reason, I decided to write a Take on some reasons why men stay single for a long time. Before I continue this Take, let...
Anonymous
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