Polls: Dating

I went on a date late August with a guy from a different country.
We really liked each other and I could tell he was into me, but distance put a strain on that.
I got a little too serious about everything once I returned home, and dismissed his suggestion to send anything exposing.
We haven't really called quits, but I can tell he has pulled back and isn't going to reach out anytime soon.
I, on the other hand, still want to have a little fun and since I like teasing a little, I want to send him something suggestive (with his consent obviously).
Is that something you/men would still be open to, even if they are closing the door on serious contact?
How would you react if someone you dated, and had sex with, would suggest sending nudes after a few weeks of barely having contact and you pulling back?

Disclaimer- don't judge, don't tell me to choose the one i love coz i don't fall in love.

1st guy-

•loves me from past 8 years and can not move on •i am his first love and has never dated anyone else coz he is waiting for me •doesn't know how to express well or care although he loves me but isn't able to make me feel much loved (this bothers me a bit). •his love language is roasting •better looking than the second guy and has better education and career. •mostly shares memes and always in a fun mood

2nd guy-

•loves me from past 2 years. •i am his first love •he knows how to express love and makes me feel so much loved and valued •his love language is taking care •has very bad academics (this bothers me a bit) •mostly talks about my problems and gives suggestions.

I know if you like a guy you can get over this sometimes! Which one turns you off from the get go?

Met a guy and he told me in the past he used to be in a life of crime. It’s extremely unsettling. But he seems nice. But I don’t want to talk to him ever again.

I still think when you’re in that kind of lifestyle, you never walk away from it, and you will still have enemies and by being with him, I’d have a target on my back. I’ve been trying to ghost him and he keeps messaging me and I feel bad but I feel like he’s a liability at this point.

2 months ago, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs on first meet up. We were in contact via Instagram messages. Then we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see a movie. The day before movie I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. On day of movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on first meet up , I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on (there’s nothing wrong with that but he was obnoxious in my opinion). He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. When I spoke with him on the phone the day before movie, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but right after movie he sent a message saying that he “wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him”. Tbh I was planning on letting him know I wasn’t interested whenever he would’ve reached out to me again. Flash fwd to a month ago, he sends me a dm with an inside joke, I just left him on read again. He continued to follow me on social media but unmatched with me from the dating app we met through, I unfollowed him from IG. And then after a while he finally unfollows on IG