Is it wrong to date someone just for their money?

[HawkPerception]

Yes

No

[RageBabe]

Yes, it's wrong. You should date someone because you genuinely like them, not for financial gain.

[RageBabe]

@HawkPerception Thank you for the MHO! 😊

[jazzy34]

Yes. That’s called using them,

[saraupstairs]

Did you notice his smile?

[AviatorTom]

That's called gold digging, and some women have been doing it for centuries. It's accepted by some members of society. So long as the guy knows she's only after his money, and is okay with that, who am I to say it's wrong?

[saraupstairs]

You get it.

[Finchie40]

If the person with the money likes being used , then that’s their choice , but they definitely aren’t being loved from the heart they are only loved by their wallet

[BobbieBoy666]

Yes, it is generally considered wrong to date someone solely for their money, as this is often seen as manipulative and exploitative, and is commonly referred to as "gold digging"; a healthy relationship should be based on genuine connection and shared values, not solely on financial gain.

Why it's considered wrong:
Lack of genuine connection:
Dating someone just for their money means you are not interested in getting to know them as a person, which is essential for a fulfilling relationship.

Unequal power dynamic:
This creates an imbalance in the relationship, where one person is essentially using the other for financial benefit.

Ethical concerns:
Intentionally pursuing someone solely for their wealth can be seen as unethical and manipulative.

Important considerations:
Financial compatibility is important:
While not the sole factor, having a similar financial outlook and being able to discuss money openly is important in a relationship.

Individual circumstances can vary:
Some people may be more comfortable with a larger financial disparity in a relationship than others, but it's crucial to be honest about motivations and expectations.

[HawkPerception]

You should probably not rely on AI for your answers man. It's pretty easy to tell and prevents you from thinking yourself on the matter.

[saraupstairs]

@HawkPerception

AI talks too much.

[saraupstairs]

Stupid people think that Anna was using Howard for his money.

He was 89 and she was 20ish. He was a billionaire, and she was not. They had a symbiotic relationship. She wanted the money, and he wanted the honey. Stupid people didn't like the arrangement. They needed to hate. This didn't affect them, but people love to hate..

[Jersey2]

It’s gross and unacceptable for decent people. Some people are okay with living in a dump with sex on the corner, drugs everywhere and slobs doing whatever they want. The rest of us want a decent place to live which revolves around families.

The geriatric and the gold digger are trash that tears at the fabric of a decent society. They can do it, we allow that, but we don’t have to accept it, respect it or keep quiet about it. They are both dead now and we don’t mourn or miss them.

[HawkPerception]

Guess I'm stupid and will continue to be so 😂

[saraupstairs]

@Jersey2

Whose money was it?

[saraupstairs]

@HawkPerception

They didn't hurt anyone.

[Jersey2]

@saraupstairs It is not about the money. It is about values. Their values are out of sync with society so they get shunned. They are trash.

[saraupstairs]

@Jersey2

Do you cater to the whims of people who don't care about you?

[Dongie]

You rekon he thought she wanted his body? 😅

[saraupstairs]

@Dongie

He knew what she wanted.

[Dongie]

He had to. He was fine with it. His money, his choice!

[saraupstairs]

They both knew the score.

[Jersey2]

@saraupstairs No. That is why I voted Trump since 2016. But there are consequences to it.

[saraupstairs]

Sarcasm should have its own font.

[Jersey2]

lol, :D so true

[saraupstairs]

@Jersey2

It's bad to use people, but look at the smile on Howard's face. He went out with a bang.

[Jersey2]

He could have had the same smile with cheap hookers and blow and spent the rest on a children’s hospital. The stories from the families would have warmed his heart.

[saraupstairs]

@Jersey2

He just didn't want his family to get it.

[Jersey2]

Again, a Children’s Hospital. But he chose a dumb, low class, drug addict, whore who had no problems sucking him off and opening her legs to get money that eventually killed her and perhaps her son if I recall correctly. A deal with the devil it seems.

[Josey29]

Depends on the agreement. Is he looking for a genuine loving connection or is he also after superficial things such as her looks and sex.

I honestly am at the point when I would rather have a transactional relationship because love comes with too much overthinking.

[hahahmm]

Dating was never intended to be forever or on the same level as marriage vows. You can dump someone for any reason or no reason. This means that why you're with them doesn't actually matter unless you are misleading them about why you are there.

[saraupstairs]

I don't know if they married

[alice55]

I'm not sure if we say yes then we should say yes to people dating others people only because they're young or attractive or smart or in a power positon or a celebrities or an athlete or with red / blond hair, for a specific race etc...

I don't think dating someone because of their money or appearance or race is so different in the end. All is a matters of attractiveness and different person find different things attractive.

[saraupstairs]

I just know it's their business.

[KittyKat90210]

Yes, it's wrong. Dating isn't supposed to be for profit.

[Vendetta_]

If both parties are understanding and consenting to that dynamic then no, not at all. It's not really anyone else's business but their own.

[saraupstairs]

Bingo!

[Unit1]

Ew, Yuck, GOLD DIGGERS 😠

[saraupstairs]

What was he digging for?

[slatyb]

Not if you are honest and say "I'll... with you as long as you are paying"

[magiusX26]

doing that actually has a name, prostitution. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[magiusX26]

wtf? the opinion i posted did not have all that "backround" crap in any way.

[yulbsari]

There's a word for that behavior... when you're just doing it for money...

[saraupstairs]

They were using each other.

[Emmytexrex]

Is it a question or do you like someone dating you for your money what do you call them I want to hear you say it

[saraupstairs]

I like to mind my own business.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Yes.

[saraupstairs]

Why was he smiling?

[PBandJ_Nerd]

All hands down yes.

[saraupstairs]

I don't think he cared.

[DrPepper12]

Yes. But I think I'm enough of a scumbag I might do it for the right amount. Sorry

[LiamJHayden]

I would not do it, but what other adults do is not my business.

[saraupstairs]

That's my whole point to the question.

[Chloe1225]

Yes one male person gold digger. And what they are saying that’s all you’re good for. Like a street walker.

[Founding_Daddy]

do you give relationship advice?

[JesseP1nk]

Aslong BOTH know and are honest about their motives i dont have problem with that.

[shades777]

It's not right or wrong it just depends on what the outcome will be when the truth is revealed

[saraupstairs]

It's up to them.

[noohair]

All interaction between a Male and a Female is a transaction.

[saraupstairs]

100%

[Miristheiss]

I would say, yes.

[BetaBucks]

Only if you're dishonest about it.

[Kelly6]

@HawkPerception mot at all

[Crazzyyworld]

I mean if two agrees why not?

[saraupstairs]

Exactly.

[ihateTaylorSwift]

well better to "use"
Than abuse

[ihateTaylorSwift]

though taking advantage of somebody like that could be a form of abuse
because you know it's wrong
you give nothing in return
and that's all you want them for

[ihateTaylorSwift]

like abusing the fact u need to always benefit
get something out of it
which means
it's not a genuine heart to heart mutual liking relationship

[saraupstairs]

It probably was his idea.

[Yannae]

If they don't know, yes.

[Staximus]

Yeah that's bum shit

[Xoirwinkan]

That's almost just long term prostitution

[magiusX26]

not "almost". it in fact actually is that.

[saraupstairs]

Does it matter?

[notCryHONEY]

I want to say no but I can't

[Dongie]

Yes, it's grotesque.

[saraupstairs]

He has a big smile.

[Dongie]

I think that's entirely different. He was what, 90? He knew as well as his girlfriend his time was up. There was no hiding her motive. That's totally different as to the question here. I doubt she thought herself fooling anybody.

[FunkyMonkee]

7 whores said, "no".

[Neallyaa]

Yes ofc

[saraupstairs]

But he knew it.

[Neallyaa]

@saraupstairs yep

[scott04sa22]

It's always money

[saraupstairs]

We all go to work for the money.

[scott04sa22]

Yep yep

[Slim57]

Yeah I would say so

[saraupstairs]

I don't think he minded.