Would you ever date someone just for their money or status?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

So I have dated people I was on the fence about, so/so in the looks department, and what not. But I dated them because they were cool to hang out with and have fun, or they would fuck without all the drama. So I would not date someone for their money if they were like butt ass ugly, or a total jerk, or asshole, or complete bitch.

But if they were at least average looking and wealthy as hell and interested in me I would totally do it. But like I said they have to be at least average looking and have some type of personality.

Who the hell do I think I am anyway? Some millionaire wants to get with this, who am I to deny them. I mean they would have to wine and dine me a little, but it would not take a lot and who knows maybe over time if I gave them a good enough opportunity I might actually fall in love with them.

So honestly, would I date them just because, or for their money no matter what? Answer is NO WAY!

But would I give some one a chance just for their money and see how it goes? Answer is HELL YES!

And if she wined and dined me and treated me well I would bang the hell out of her, because I am not one of those types that doesn't pony up to the bar at the end of the night either... if I wasn't going to do my man thing no matter what... then I would of ditched out on her after the first drink.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

Probably not, but i don't rule it out completely.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

That would be a hell no, people don't get it, money and status are superficial and can be lost...

The innocence of children (till society started fucking up what childhood it's supposed to be)

A beautiful soul, a great mind, a great character, someone that makes you laugh just from their contagious laughter (my neighbor)...

Those are the things that matter..

Well, to me anyway... People can keep chasing money, social status, socially market value people and keep asking where are all the good guys/girls at...

While I might not be "Einstein" at least I knew what matters and maybe why my relationship (good and BAD) lasted 20 years (just saying🤷🏼‍♀️)

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

Never! My parents show me guys I don't find attractive and they're filthy rich. They talk about their money and status but it doesn't impress me. I would rather be with a guy I'm crazy about even if his income is lower.
My friends tell me that a man's wealth is more crucial than his appearance and character. I don't believe in any of that.
I must admit I care about passion in a relationship.
I want my man to look and act so sexy that I become obsessed with him. All I want is a handsome man with a stable average income. That would be more than enough.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

No - I would not be happy if I did not like him and I can't pretend to like somebody I don't.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I haven’t. Who wouldn’t want a full package giving the opportunity.
I also wonder how many women answered honestly 😂
I have only dated/married with similar ambition/education level. So we work together to make better lives = money and stability.

EllaNella · Answer

nope, there's multiple reasons for it but the most important one is that i want a partner i can have interesting conversations with and that ist way more important to me than money

lilyanony1 · Answer

If there's a benefit to the situation for me once it's over yes...
Otherwise no.
I'm not shallow or superficial.
But I am trying to be realistic.
Relationships should leave me better than when I came in.
I'm fed up of having to rebuild so much of my life after things end.

dustybiker · Answer

Money and endless friction? Pass. Money is worthless if you aren’t happy.

RomanticRealist · Answer

Depends on what you mean. Casual fun dating? Maybe

Serious, looking for partner dating? Definitely not. And that doesn't mean "money doesn't matter" either - it just means I couldn't be dating someone "just for" money. The emotional, intellectual connection is too important to me. He doesn't have to be perfect, but I need more than just money for sure.

DermalPunch · Answer

No, I absolutely couldn't. I have gine out with wealthy men and most of them were dull because they expected their material things to be enough. Dull as dishwater.

Now, a guy who grinded and came from. nithing and is enjoying the fruits of his peserverance is absolutely an interesting guy. The money is just extra.

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

I dated someone when I was in high school cause he was well known. I got abused for months but at least I became popular 😐😐😐😐😐😐😐

musicbrain5 · Answer

No. I don’t give a crap about money and status.

KelleyNice · Answer

That is not a situation likely to occur. However, if their was some event that I wanted to go to and the best or really good seats were too expensive for me then I don't see any reason that I wouldn't.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

I would, there's nothing wrong with dating someone you're not actually attracted to. personally, I find the actual probability of that happening to be unlikely though.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

If they were okay with that specific agreement (like I'd make that specific agreement with them), then yeah, but I do have some T&Cs and I wouldn't be willing to do just anything.

Curiosity2006 · Answer

Isn't that Gold-digging?

Ssarah016 · Answer

No! Money sure makes things easier. But I personally need chemistry, a spark! That’s what it’s all about! Moneys great but money doesn’t buy happiness. True genuine love and happiness. (: good luck.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Nah, I don’t find those things to be important. Besides it’s more fulfilling to earn your own money as opposed to attempting to get it through manipulating someone else and getting away with it because you have tits and a vagina

ChiTown33 · Answer

Status means nothing to me. And money means nothing if you have no values. So no.

Haha456 · Answer

yes but the chances of that progressing to marriage is slim. There are certain things that money or status cannot buy. You can't buy love.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Not unless I was planning on just using them. Which I really hope I never end up in a situation where that's my best/only move.

legalboxers · Answer

Why? I dont want the fame or fortune. Now if I can end up on 90 day fiancee. :)

msc545 · Answer

No way. Women do that a lot. Men really don't very much.

Cecinene · Answer

I can't date someone just because of their status and money. Actually I have my own taste about the kind of guys that I will date.

Part2603 · Answer

Considering that women's social status is their looks, yeah. Pretty sure the ONLY reason I date women is for their looks.

LovingJo · Answer

No, they'd have to be good looking and good in bed, as well 😂😉

MikeInHawaii · Answer

11 of 12 women said “no.” I don’t believe it for a second! Donald Trump hasn’t been banging supermodels for 50 years because of his looks or personality!

misfittoy · Answer

no. i work have a career, my own home, car. i dont need anyones money or status in life.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Just here to read from all the lying beeches! Ell oh ell!

SnowedIn · Answer

It's not an instant yes or no. I'd definitely think about it.

delta50 · Answer

I would, it could be an interesting life experience.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope. Their money is theirs, their status is theirs.

LazerBean · Answer

No, that would be a waste of time.

YourNightOwl · Answer

Never! Money is a personal achievement. It doesn’t define an individual. It tends to magnify a person’s attitudes and arrogance. It can Make an a-hole a-super a-hole.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I would not date someone just for their money or status

Headstrongcrazylover · Answer

I want a hot girl, she can be rich or poor, if a girl is Richa and hot it is good but if she is not someone who I find attractive sorry, keep your money, I want hot rich or poor doesn't matter.

coverboyoutlawbrady · Answer

Of course I would, if she were a hot young heiress.

zagor · Answer

No, I have money and status doesn't mean shit to me. For sex, yes.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

No. I ain’t no gold digger. You might find it quite funny, but I don’t believe in money.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No. I would never lower myself to that level. I have too much self-respect.

LavLavLuv · Answer

That shit is wack af. Ofc i wouldn't

2Wheels · Answer

Nope. Definitely not. I don't care who you are.

dragoblack · Answer

No, because it's not mine and I'm not entitled to it.

Avatar74 · Answer

I personally wouldn't, I have to find a woman attractive if I'm going to date them

jaadu_14 · Answer

Those girls who are saying are lying 😴😴✌🏻

NathanDavis · Answer

no... I respect myself

Anonymous · Answer

Most girls are going to say no but we all know the reality.

Anonymous · Answer

No. I'm a straight dude. I'm dating a girl for sex and companionship--not status or money.

Calenderagressive · Answer

Fuck yes, half y'all mfers don't know how important money is lol.

Idk1122367 · Answer

No, money can’t compete with love. Nothing brings happiness like love.

Trina5811 · Answer

Yes obviously. Money makes me cum

purplepoppy · Answer

You don't marry for money, you divorce for it 😉

MJ239 · Answer

No and I expect the same

Monalisa77 · Answer

Lol no, i don't care about those things

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

That's settling for less in my opinion, no.

sheenagwapa · Answer

no i have to gave romantic feelings for him

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Absolutely not!!

Anonymous · Answer

No, I'm not an escort

es20490446e · Answer

That would be just a bonus 💰🤑

AsaKyo · Answer

Nope, they gotta offer more than that

Jennz6 · Answer

I am not sure 🤔 really

Anonymous · Answer

No. In fact, it just might intimidate me

AimeeKyle · Answer

No…more to a relationship than money

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