Polls: Dating

I'm not saying that it is desperate just that some people may feel or view it as such. Regardless is that a thing people here have done?

There is this guy on insta who is popular 6’6, muscly and handsome and you look at the comments and it’s flooding with women just in heaven. Like this 😍😍😍

No other guy can do that. Like if you’re a normal guy or under what I mentioned then you are cursed. You are not ultra mega rare so no women is going to go crazy over you. Do you think that’s true?

Like I never see a dude with a beautiful girl just so infatuated with him unless heos personality is rare, but I think the real spectrum of things he can’t compete. Hard not to get depressed when you understand the truth of the world.

I’ve always been one to wear black boots on a first date, such as my Rocky 1950’s, or black smooth Timberlands, but was wondering if something more casual would be less intimidating. Girls, are black boots like the following on a guy a turn off or do you find them sexy?

Attached are some more casual options which I have tried, but usually wear them less due to the brown and blue being harder to match.

It seems like a lot of women assume men especially white men only date or marry Asian women for creepy or loserish reasons

I have seen a lot of women in their early to late 20s that work on and love cars. I have never seen or met a woman my age that is like that in person. Is it even real?

Speaking of heterosexual relationships

How many women would put their man as the biggest thing they value? Over their career and other things. Do you think many or very few?

Like men are judged on are we rich, are we funny/confident, are we tall, are we in shape, are we good looking, are we well known and respected, are we ambitious, are we experienced with women, do we have a big package.

Social media changed the game. But we are judged 100X more harsher than women.

How can any guy be confident? In a world where there’s always more and more. No man can be good enough unless you’re drake.

All those attribute I mentioned I do well for myself and it’s just not enough.

With Instagram now as it is. If you’re a really hot girl you’ve got 5-100k followers, you’re now competing with celebrities, because a famous guy will want to use her for a fun time and now that girl will think that is her new minimum acceptance.

Look at how many women worship male celebrities like drake, Chris brown and put them all on their stories. Women only truly desire the best men on the planet.
The best guy is no longer just tall, handsome and rich.

I think so.

Like I get people shocked all the time that I’m single. It is partly through choice but also a lot of the time I will match with loads of girls and they won’t respond, ghost….. they still looking for more when I already check every box. Like I can’t believe my fortunes in life. Yet still, not enough.

But also I never get to meet new girls in person. I am not complaining at all - I am just highlighting.

It’s easy if you have nil standards as a guy and undersell yourself.