Polls: Dating

Life can be complicated for some people... you can suffer accidents, have degenerative diseases, be born with a problem... Would you be able to have a date or a relationship with someone like that even knowing that life could be more difficult?

I have an account on a dating app called Upward. It is a dating app for religious singles, and far better than some of these other crappy dating apps I've tried out.

Currently, I have a decent number of likes on there. Not a ton, but enough. I'm curious as to who they are. I could get a subscription (you can choose between a few plans) and figure out who swiped on me, plus a few additional perks that would come with having a subscription on the app. I'm just not sure if it's worth it.

I'd especially appreciate feedback from others who use dating apps like these. Would it be a good idea to do a subscription on the app? Maybe a week long? Maybe a year long? Gimme your thoughts.

Most guys online say that getting approached / asked out by a woman is like a luxury and most guys never experience it... even some of my friends say so... Is that actually true? ... how often does that happen with you as a guy? and please , if you could just not count the fat / unattractive ones that would be great 👍😂...

I don't believe anyone is a loser, and I hate that term. I am just wondering, why so many people judge older virgins. Its no ones fault, dating is just hard. It's not about me, its just like some people judge others, for the dumbest things in my opinion

This is a question specifically for girls, can you be attracted to a guy who is short for a man... and is just your height or maybe (+/- )1 Inch?

Hi!

We had our first date about three weeks ago. First date did go almost fully by the book "chemistry", although we didn't kiss. After the date she gladly wants to go out again, but as friends, BUT she admit she's open for more. So I guess she use "friend" as take things slow, but I'm not quite sure.

But I get mixed signals.

• She never initiates contact, even mostly a week of radiosilence. - Is this uninterested behavior or Hard to get?
• Always replies, and are engaging In her replies. Her replies goes from, in midday some hours later, coz of work. But in evening from 5min to within 1hour.
• She have recently stepped out (5months ago) from a 9 year relationship. - I guess this is why she put me "temporarily" as friends.
• She's vague about making plans. But always reschedule them if something "more important" comes up.

Is she playing mindgames or just not interested?

To me, it seems like that’s how its gonna be. Most women don’t want to date men who are at an older age and have no experience, so I get the feeling that guys in this situation are stuck in a catch-22 of going out on dates, only to be rejected every time once the woman finds out he has no experience. So basically dating really just an endless cycle of rejection for older inexperienced men.