Have you ever decided to go on a date but backed out because a better option came up?

[Jammaa]

Yes I shamelessly ghosted

Yes but I always let em know

No never

[D_Bone_Steak]

I haven't. How it feels being on the receiving end though... someone that cancels stuff strikes me as a flake and it communicates to me that they don't give a shit. Now when I've been ghosted, I shit you not, EVERY EFFING TIME, I came to find out she's cheating on some guy.

So with that said and at this point in my life, some chick ghosting me automatically makes me assume she's cheating on some guy that I don't know about yet. I won't take it personally and I sure af won't start asking "What did I do wrong?" Nope, cheaters have to back out here and there last minute because they're trying to not get caught.

As for flakes... flakes are going to flake. Some people can't keep track of their own feet underneath them and they'll never be on time or very dependable... doesn't give me a good impression.

[AviatorTom]

I had a couple situations where I found that a family activity conflicted with a planned date, and canceled (or rescheduled) the date, but I never had a situation where I had a date planned with one girl, and a more attractive girl caused me to cancel the first date. That would be very rude, and possibly stupid... I could have the original date and also date the "option" at a later time.

[kylee2437]

No but I have backed out before because the man was making me uncomfortable communication wise prior to the date we were going to go on. He seemed like an alcoholic and wanted to take me to a bar as a first date. Told him I was uncomfortable and preferred not meeting yet. While he said he understands, I also learned he wasn’t that committed in getting to know me more so communication ended quickly.

[Anonymous]

Going on one single date with someone is not an automatic beginning to a relationship. You can schedule two dates with two different people on two different days. No one's obligated into some exclusive relationship immediately when agreeing to a single date.

[Anonymous]

no. usually when i talk to someone, they are the only one i talk to so i can focus and see where that goes before i move on.

thankfully i'm not in the dating game anymore. it's a bunch of nonsense. i wish you all luck...

[Thatpearl26]

No because that’s just rude. Have manners and don’t ghost them.

[exitseven]

No, never. I have never been in that situation but if I was I would not bail on her.

[DizzyDesii]

If I agree to go on a date, I’m going. Now if i like someone, they like me too, but we have not agreed to go on a date then yea I might let another interest sway me

[Rangers]

No, I've never been on a date, always either rejected or stood up

[motownplayer2000]

Nah, because I usually keep my word. Also, a better option doesn’t always mean a better date.

[Redstang88]

Nope. If I make plans I commit to them