Guys, has a girl ever made you change your mind about not wanting to date?

[Anonymous]

I've been talking to this guy for about a month now and we've established that while I don't want to do the casual thing, he's not looking for a relationship because be just got out a long term one a few months ago.

We've agreed to be friends but the last time we hung out (last week) it felt very date-like. He didn't kiss me or anything like that, but he did give two very long hugs and said he great it was to see me and he also kept mentioning the "next time" we'd get together.

So my question is what I've written in the title. Is that really possible? If so, what are the signs he's changed his mind?

[Guy13]

Yes both in a negative and positive sense. It pretty much takes me 2 months to figure that out anyway. I also decided to date a girl I knew for 9 months. I figured I knew everything BUT I did not. It’s different once sex gets into the picture….

[Summeroflove]

Once someone doesn’t want me. I move on. The same as if I reject someone. I want them to move on. I don’t play hard to get. That’s stupid and a dumb game to play.

[Asker]

He hasn't rejected me and there is a mutual physical attraction that we've both verbally acknowledged. I was only wondering if it were possible for a guy to change his mind about wanting a relationship.

[Summeroflove]

Then ask him out

[Avicenna]

It's quite possible when you enjoy being around each other and actually do spend time with each other.

[Chris_675]

Of course, that's where sayings like "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free come from."

If more women out there were like you and understood that their bodies are very valuable, they would know not to just fuck every guy and have friends with benefits if they want a commitment.

[The_Koala]

That sort of thing can happen. He may think he doesn’t want to date but then sees what he might be missing out on. I would say see how things go. Very possible he changes his mind if he really enjoys being with you. Happens all the time in real life.