Have you ever gone on a date, and actually ditched them right before/during the date? Why did you ditch them?

[Anonymous]

[AviatorTom]

Only once. I met a woman online and we agreed to meet at a Chinese restaurant.

She arrived 30 minutes late, was grossly obese (unlike her online photo) and the first words out of her mouth were "my pussy is so wet." I immediately got up and left.

[getwiththepg]

Lmfao

[Beckybooboo]

Oh my God! I’m sorry I’m laughing but wow! Just WOW!

[sage2021]

@AviatorTom
She doesn't sound any different than some of the women in the sexuality topic. Man! The first time I visited that topic I was shocked at how filthy the mouths of the women are. My then boyfriend started me on GaG. And when I looked at who he was following they were all those nasty women. It figures. He probably wanted me to know to make me mad or jealous. I remember what one woman wrote "I love the taste of my pussy juice" and when I looked they were following each other. Thanks GaG!

[exitseven]

hahahahaha

[HawkPerception]

Bro... I'm dying 😂😂😂😂

[JamesRandiDebates]

You could have at least done the fatty a favor and fingered her while she gave you the after date BJ.

[AviatorTom]

@JamesRandiDebates I realize your sarcasm, but believe me, that was the farthest thing from my mind.

[Wallythewalrus2]

Dear Lord, please tell me you still have her contact information?

[Asker]

Ditch? No, I would have physically run out of the place. People who grossly lie to begin with, don't tend to be people you can trust, let alone her intentions thereafter.

[Fireguy17]

no, I have been polite and have gone through with the date, but afterwards have sent them a message stating that I just don't see a future with that person, wish them well and go on to the next one.
It's how I was raised, be polite and treat people how you would like to be treated.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Once. This one guy took me out to club for a date. Not my ideal choice since clubs are loud and it's hard to conversate. Date was over the moment I saw my drink have a small stream of bubbles on top. It was a vodka cranberry... those don't fizz

[Asker]

NOPE. Red Flag. Run.

[Carly2005]

Yes she was on her phone whole I left she didn’t notice. I didn’t even pay.

[Tim2nice]

That’s so rude of her

[exitseven]

@Carly2005 I was thinking that I would never do that to somebody but maybe if she was screwing with her phone the whole time I just might.

[Asker]

Why is anyone like that even on a date. If you want to talk on your phone, go do that. Beyond rude.

[ManOnFire]

I haven't but I imagine a lot of chicks have.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have had a few first dates for which that would have been justified but I’ve never done it.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Yes. First was one that walked in with freddy kruegar nails, more make up than a vegas show girl and had an entitled attitude from hell and talked to everyone around like she was the queen and demanded servants.

Stood up and walked out with not one word.

Second was someone who did nothing but surf her phone. I simple told her "I am sorry, I wasn't aware you were in a relationship already. i hope you and your phone are happy together" and left.

There have been others mostly based around poor personalities or not presenting who they really were when we met.

[Jared91]

Only once. This woman was incredibly rude and obnoxious to everyone who worked there. I said I needed the toilet and walked out, leaving her with the bill.

I am not in the slightest sorry for doing so

[Asker]

Ugh, I was on a date once where the guy snapped his fingers at the waiters like they were his dogs. When I called him on it after the third time he did this, he said, "what, they are working for us." RED F'in FLAG for me. Never saw him again and made sure to add an extra tip for the waiters.

[Billlewis]

I went on a blind date with a woman who took nearly an hour to come downstairs. I could tell by looking at her hands that she was into intravenous drugs big time. I pretended to get a phone call and told her I had to go.

[Asker]

Yes, uh, I suddenly remembered I need to sod my entire backyard, so bye! That's crazy. I don't mess with druggies. Nothing good can come of it.

[Sharkstealth]

Never did that to anybody ever. I met a gal online once who was a very cute sweet young women who clearly was not brought up in the best of circumstances. Her teeth were very brown and looked to be rotten from drugs. I have know people in my life who have said that this is also caused by an enamel disease. I don't know exactly how it was caused and it is quite repulsive but I stayed with her. I never saw her again after that though.

[Anonymous]

No. Is this really a thing? Do people really do this? Because the last woman I met for a date said this to me. She said, "It's OK if you decide to not meet me. But please call me and tell me. Please don't just not show up". And I was like, "why would I not not"? I said I was going to meet you". Why would anyone do that?

[Asker]

Yes! Take a look at the comments: someone was nearly drugged, extremely rude dates, someone met up with a freaky liar, one caught a date doing drugs...I mean you are meeting up with a total stranger most times, that you know nothing about. Agreeing to a date doesn't mean you have to stay especially if you are in danger or someone is just being extremely obnoxious. Clearly your date probably experienced being stood up and didn't want to go through that again.

[HawkPerception]

I have never, but if they came late or lied about their appearance before we met up, I would have no issue getting up and leaving like in @AviatorTom 's story

[Asker]

His story was nuts. 100% back this!

[Nikki1989]

I walked out of a date once out of sheer boredom. He just wouldn't talk.

[rachel776b]

if they were being obnoxious i would. otherwise i would stay until it's over

[Paul09]

I'd never. But was done to me. When I was 18-20ish She showed up with a friend, as I did too. Came in , then had other friends drive by , and took off. I will never forget that moment, what a tw@t.

[Paul09]

Well unless she lied or cat fished ne or something.

[Asker]

That's just weird.

[KittygosMeoWW]

No but I’ve left a date (after we were done) and went on another date

[Saarr]

I've never stood someone up, but I've definitely cut the date short when the guy couldn't hold his hands back🤔

[Bricealan]

Yep, got up..."going to the man's room" never came back

[Bricealan]

The moron go on her cell phone and did a long conversation, and then made a smart ass comment to me about something that happened between us several years prior

[LiamJHayden]

Never. I have gone on first meetups / coffee shops and made the meeting as brief as possible because we were not clicking.

[Nice222]

Bout I take a girl out I make sure I get her home safe. No matter what. And I have been in some horrible situations but I stuck with the girl until home safe.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I have during it. This was back in 2000. She was blowing cigarette smoke in my ex friend's face while we were eating. Needless to say I stiffed her with the check. She comes up to me a few days later and she was pissed

[Anonymous]

During the date. My lesbian friend was in the bathroom and she basically seduced me

[exitseven]

No, I don't think I could do that.

[dudeinohio]

I got called into. work

[Asker]

Did they understand or were they mad that you left?

[dudeinohio]

I don't know. Never heard from them again.

[LavLavLuv]

The humble-bragging… Ugh🤮😵😵‍💫🥱

[robhazelnut]

No I haven't.