I went on a date with a girl and found out she’s working here as an au pair. She’s a great girl, but since her contract is only for a year, and she’ll be gone after a year, I don’t see a long term relationship possible for us. However, she’s quite attractive so I want to continue taking her out to sleep with her, while I keep looking for a long term partner. Is that an asshole move or ok? I believe she is looking for a relationship.
As long as you are upfront about what you are doing and that you will be seeing other girls and she is okay with it then it's fine. It is only if you hide that from her and just use her for sex. That would not be fair to her in so many ways. She has a right to know if you are sleeping around for her own health and safety. So if you discuss everything with her and she is cool with it then go for it. She may not be though and just respect that and don't be deceitful.
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That's an ass of a move. I know a girl that was here under the same circumstances and she became very close to her boyfriend so she did go back at the end of her year but then she straightened out her paperwork and she came back and she's living here with him so just because she's going to be here for a year and doesn't mean there are options to return. You shouldn't lead people on it hurts.
It's only OK if she explicitly agrees it's OK. It doesn't sound like she would, so don't deceive her, which is very much a dick move.
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If you believe she’s looking for a relationship, yes you would be an asshole for leading her on just because you want to sleep with her. That makes you a fuck boy and not relationship Marietta in the slightest
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