Sounds like my ex, but a woman who behaves this way, has no real self control, and throws herself around does not need to be in any kind of relationship, she's looking for something, a feeling to connect with that someone special to her, but, and this is how she's behaving ready to get it on so easily, is hard to trust someone like that, not really knowing what the hell she's doing when your apart from each other, or even when you are together, I have seen women move so smothe right in front of their guy, some one like her will have to move across the country where no one knows her to find a dude to take her serious, for how long who knows, bad habit is hard to get rid of, unless you like to be calling you girl every 5 minutes always worrying who's she with, I say pass I would not even engage in any sexual matter with her for obvious reasons, when I was a kid I spent a lot of time in libraries no not reading comic books, never read one in my life, but libraries are shouldn't say but their line a museum for rare old texts not put with rest of books, anyway I read this book was really old, but it was of all things about hooker's , women of the night , more respectable term, and the author I can't remember if it was man or woman, had this theory as to why women take to doing this, and money of course some say but most didn't know really why they did, and that hooked me to continue reading but his conclusion was those who don't understand why they do this is because their heart is leading them , that their heart is searching for that first love when both hearts were beating at same vibe in sync with one another, why when 2 strangers walking past each other would stop and look at each other as though they' have known each other for ever, or love at first sight, rare but it does happen , say your in a crowded room or mall and you turn and noticed someone is staring at you, these are the examples given and now I'm older I can understand that, but the point being made was the heart leads these women into this life in search of that first true connection and it's supposed to be eternal interesting í thought but anyway I'm way too long here something to think about, maybe, and why your girl who's the topic is the way she is
I would have to observe her for quite a while. I mean lots of chicks want to sleep with me right away, and yeah, some of them are just sluts, but some of them are very decent women.
The first and foremost thing I'd consider is her last lay before me... how long ago was that? Is she a serial dater or am I the only date she's had in a long time? Her hopping in the sack right away if she's a serial dater is a major red flag. We have to remember that we are not special and the rule of thumb is: If she did that with me, she has probably done it with every other guy too.
Other than that... watch her actions, listen to her. 9 times out of 10, a woman will tell on herself... that's why listening is vital. If she starts talking about this guy and that guy she was with and you're not really asking about it... red flag. Especially if every guy was nothing but trash (in her words)... that's a red flag.
Commitment isn't going to come easy out of me. Some women will push for that sort of thing and have no real intention of being faithful herself... she just wants you to eliminate your "other" options.
I'd also note and ask myself if I'm just her partner in crime, meaning is there a man I don't know about yet and I'm just the side guy. I've had chicks fool me like that quite a bit... and I just find out eventually they're cheating on some other guy with me.
Easy men may as well stick with easy women.
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The answer is not no but HELL NO! I wouldn’t sleep with her either. You can’t make a whore a housewife. You can’t. She will cheat on you. I don’t care how nice she may seem at first. The chances are HIGH. Especially if she can’t control herslef.
u Am I #17 or #117? How about this year? One or two, or ten to twelve?
I married her... for 20 good years and 3 kids... before an amicable divorce
To judge a woman based on this is foolish.
The majority of women today will have sex quickly with a guy they’re really attracted to. Casual sex, one night stands, hook-ups etc. are completely normal today.
However, just because a woman jumps into bed quickly with one guy doesn’t mean that she does it with every guy. A woman might have quick sex with one guy and then make another guy wait a while.
They know that a lot of men get scared off by a woman being too “easy” or her sexual past so they often hide it and pretend to be innocent.
Which also means that just because a woman makes you wait and takes it slowly with you doesn’t mean she makes other guys wait either.
Thinking that this is a good indicator of whether or not she’s good for you only means that you’ll be easily fooled by these types of women.
Plus, her level of attraction toward a guy has a lot to do with it. She’ll have quick sex with a guy she’s hot for because her horniness for him over-rides her common sense rules. She’s more likely to make a guy who’s just “alright” but who she’s not as hot for wait because she’s just not as horny for him.
I’d rather have the girl who wants to rip my clothes off.
Well when I was trying to lose my virginity at age 22 I slept with a few guys just to get the experience out of the way. They didn’t have to be my boyfriend, but I did have to know them for a while.
Its not like I’m unhinged and insane enough to do 4 guys at once, like I’ve heard some women have done in HighSchool.
In my opinion, you must be attractive enough for her to have wanted you at all.
I highly doubt she’s doing just ANY guy.
If she is, she has psychological problems. Like someone has touched her as a kid. Or something affected her , for her to make it so easy.
HONESTLY, Here are the options:
1) You are actually that attractive , muscular, sexually attractive. For her to give it away that fast to you.
2) She did it because she felt forced, out of pity for you. Pity sex. She just did it to get you out of her face, will probably never talk to you again.
3) Her sex drive is so high. She probably has hormonal issues that are making her sex drive go through the roof. And she doesn’t care who you are or anything. She literally is out of control.
4) She has psychological issues like I said. Someone did something to her as a child. And that trauma causes the bad behavior.
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On a man it is different, men and women are not the same. A very promiscuous man who sleeps with a woman on the first night is not the same. Men have testosterone. They’re literal dogs, animals, pigs. So a man cheating or having a past is not as serious as it is on a woman.
I would definitely stay with a man with a past, as long as he’s super hot and masculine.
For me it's more of a trust issue than a promiscuity issue. If I expect to be in a monogamous relationship, if she is with me and only me, then I could care less about how easy she was or how many guys she slept with in the past. For me it's simple, either I trust her or I don't. I won't share my be for my life with anybody I don't trust implicitly. I would totally love and commit to her. Besides, being promiscuous when not in a committed relationship is fun and it means she likes sex as much as I do.
On a side note, I wonder how the responses would be if you flipped the question the other way around.
under the conditions you described, no. with her being like you described, there is a very high cgance of her cheating with any/every guy who "she gets along with" which translates to "any guy with an opinion or 2 that she agrees with". also that shows her lacking in mental areas as it shiws her as being easily manipulated (a guy saying enough of the correct lies) , not knowing she is worth more than basic attention and a body for sexual usage, possibly lacling selfawareness as to howdamgerous, medically, being "easy" is. then again, contemplating something long tetm with a woman like that could also show a guy lacking that same selfawareness and can indicate a deep seated lack of selfesteem to try latching onto a wo. an just because she is "easy". not to mention the negatives that often show up from such a pairing such as controlling behavours
I wouldn't be able to take it seriously. If a woman is easy to sleep with, it shows she has no le el of restraint or self respect. So if she is very quick to hop into bed with ANY guy she gets along with, it will be very easy for her to cheat. She would be more of a practice and hook up girl than a woman built for a committed and loyal relationship.
Of course I do, if the sex was fantastic, she fulfilled all my requests without refusing anything, I don't let a woman like that get away.
Rarely do you find women who are willing to indulge the desires of guys, so if I ever find a partner who will indulge me in everything in sex, I'll happily go for it, even if it's someone I sleep with the same night.
Obviously he must remain loyal to me.
Of course. I want a partner with a high sex drive to match mine.
It takes two. You'd also be sleeping with someone rather easily, no barrier. Do you consider yourself trustworthy for it?
I'm a strong believer in going with the flow. If things feel right, I would sleep with her if she was also feeling it. Just because a girl has sex on the first date does not necessarily mean that she is a slut that spreads her legs for everyone.
Firstly I would need to have lots of options. Meaning I would need to be around a lot of women that wanted me, so I could choose someone. But since I'm not around anyone. I can only make due with whoever floats into my life. So a question like this doesn't even apply to me.
When I was single: If I thought she was easy with everybody I would never take her serious. No relationship. if I thought she really thought I was "the one" type of deal then sure. I'm not talking about sex on the first meeting.. for me to believe she was into me she'd have to not be trying to suck me off on the first meeting. Ha.
Depends what you mean with "long term relationship" as what you're describing is basically the average Tinder "All hookup, no commitment" chick.
The "long term" basically means she will fuck you for rent and food whenever she's in town.
You can hardly call it a relationship.
She is Miss Right Now. But if she will give sex to any guy then you can't think it is going to exclusive.
I wouldn't. I would like to be certain that her baby is my baby without a dna test.
Other guys might feel differently.
Last woman I dated, we slept together on the 3rd date. The sexual chemistry was amazing however after that our interactions became strictly sex so really we transitioned into becoming FWBs over a 6 month period which we both didn't mind. She let me bareback her straight away.
Depends on what time of my life we are talking. When I was young and looking for a wife, no way in hell. Now that I am older and positively will not get married again, an easy chick would be fun to have around.
It depends on her personality and at what point was it clear that she was game to sleep with me on the first date.
If she was throwing it out there immediately then no... if it was going really really good on our date and it just so happens that we built sexual tension then sure.
nope, my already low trust vanished completely oh but i trust her for one thing, i trust she will cheat or even be disgusting enough to suggest an open bullshit, in short i trust she is a slut and i trust that i don't do future with sluts.
