Sounds like my ex, but a woman who behaves this way, has no real self control, and throws herself around does not need to be in any kind of relationship, she's looking for something, a feeling to connect with that someone special to her, but, and this is how she's behaving ready to get it on so easily, is hard to trust someone like that, not really knowing what the hell she's doing when your apart from each other, or even when you are together, I have seen women move so smothe right in front of their guy, some one like her will have to move across the country where no one knows her to find a dude to take her serious, for how long who knows, bad habit is hard to get rid of, unless you like to be calling you girl every 5 minutes always worrying who's she with, I say pass I would not even engage in any sexual matter with her for obvious reasons, when I was a kid I spent a lot of time in libraries no not reading comic books, never read one in my life, but libraries are shouldn't say but their line a museum for rare old texts not put with rest of books, anyway I read this book was really old, but it was of all things about hooker's , women of the night , more respectable term, and the author I can't remember if it was man or woman, had this theory as to why women take to doing this, and money of course some say but most didn't know really why they did, and that hooked me to continue reading but his conclusion was those who don't understand why they do this is because their heart is leading them , that their heart is searching for that first love when both hearts were beating at same vibe in sync with one another, why when 2 strangers walking past each other would stop and look at each other as though they' have known each other for ever, or love at first sight, rare but it does happen , say your in a crowded room or mall and you turn and noticed someone is staring at you, these are the examples given and now I'm older I can understand that, but the point being made was the heart leads these women into this life in search of that first true connection and it's supposed to be eternal interesting í thought but anyway I'm way too long here something to think about, maybe, and why your girl who's the topic is the way she is
I wish you said what book you read. I’m interested.
Was a long time ago I have a bad habit as to not pay attention to the name of the writer, if it's of interest I just dive in it's got that in disrespecting the writer highest I don't know why I never put much into it same with musici hear a song I live and again couldn't tell you who produced it thinking more in it I Guess that is an odd way to be, but the book was way ahead of it's time it had to have been over 500 years or older very neat have writing but I must say it's something to think on as we find it more about us and why we do what we do without knowing
Your comment is hilarious.
I would have to observe her for quite a while. I mean lots of chicks want to sleep with me right away, and yeah, some of them are just sluts, but some of them are very decent women.
The first and foremost thing I'd consider is her last lay before me... how long ago was that? Is she a serial dater or am I the only date she's had in a long time? Her hopping in the sack right away if she's a serial dater is a major red flag. We have to remember that we are not special and the rule of thumb is: If she did that with me, she has probably done it with every other guy too.
Other than that... watch her actions, listen to her. 9 times out of 10, a woman will tell on herself... that's why listening is vital. If she starts talking about this guy and that guy she was with and you're not really asking about it... red flag. Especially if every guy was nothing but trash (in her words)... that's a red flag.
Commitment isn't going to come easy out of me. Some women will push for that sort of thing and have no real intention of being faithful herself... she just wants you to eliminate your "other" options.
I'd also note and ask myself if I'm just her partner in crime, meaning is there a man I don't know about yet and I'm just the side guy. I've had chicks fool me like that quite a bit... and I just find out eventually they're cheating on some other guy with me.
@d_bone_steak Are you actually complaining about being able to get sex? Lots of guys would love to walk in your shoes - or be barefoot in bed with a girl. There could be a lot of girls that would look down on you too for your amount of sexual activity. 🤔
@DubiousIntentions You no doubt have a point... but... with that point made, let us look on those fuckers that get all pissed off that I have all the sex when they can't even get a date. I think we're two different animals now that I'm reflecting on it. I mean damn... think about it... I'm laughing but please for the love of god take me seriously... those guys suck! They just suck!
Like hear me out here... she doesn't want to fuck him... and I wouldn't even want to hang out with him. Are not those guys like rejects because of what they do all by themselves? They make themselves untouchable. I can take straight retards and turn them into pussy magnets in about 3 months. With that said... I really think it's lack of effort.
Let us not forget that most of the girls that look down on this shit... hops right in bed when you smile at them.
Well then you would think that a lot of guys here would love to hear your take on that. Retards into Studs. That I would like to hear about myself.
@DubiousIntentions Just make them hit the weights... It changes everything. The whole game changes.
@DubiousIntentions Also want to add that if you take this same question and flip the genders... I'd bet a lot of females would sound just like me. A lot of men can't be like that from nothing... they have to earn it first with the weights or through sports... and I just feel sorry for the dudes that do it with money. I would never tell a guy to get his money game up in order to attract a woman. I mean yeah, it will work, but think about the kind of women money bags is going to attract. She doesn't love him, just loves what she can get from him. Attracting women with your physical body is a bit different in my opinion. I mean that's what most women do, they just don't have to work as hard in order to get there. Just a shower, brush her teeth, and not get fat... most women are good to go and desired by many with not much work needed.
@DubiousIntentions My opinion is also based on only considering a long-term relationship. The main thing I don't want is her cheating. If she's bouncing from dick to dick... she's probably not going to stop trying to do that just because of me. It could be for sooooo many reasons... attention seeking, validation seeking, et cetera. One of the best ways to identify if she suffers from one of those afflictions... how much is she just sleeping around? It's really hard to take a total slut, sex worker, attention whore (for men's attention), or just a general history of doing stuff like cheating seriously. I mean we can tell what's probably going to happen by using basic reasoning. So you as a dude could commit to her and try to make her happy in every way... but your sister will probably know she's going to cheat on you.
I doubt that would work with older men - say 55 and above.
@DubiousIntentions You'd be surprised... shit I'm 41 and people think I'm in my 20's with pictures. Older women that don't know me give me tons of shit when I'm just trying to buy some alcohol and get drunk. I think it has everything to do with staying active physically. Someone that's 55 and they haven't done shit for years is probably going to be complaining about their back or their knees and stuff. My great grandmother was still running in her 90's and my great Grandfather just kept working... like heavy work. They both hit the 100's before time eventually took them out. They didn't just sit around getting weaker like I see a lot of people do is what I'm saying.
@d_bone_steak You've no right to demand what you can't deliver yourself.
@love_conquers_lust What am I demanding, that I am not delivering?
I think you're talking about not being a slut... am I right? We men operate differently is what I would say to that, or at least men like me. We can turn it off and just stop talking to ex's. Our drive for sex is usually based more around just having sex than it is for attention, validation, Mother issues, and so on... Take a look at how all that sleeping around for no reason affects women though. I'm not trying to slut shame, because every boy needs what we call "A Practice Girl" or at least a handful of them, so that we can learn how to lay the pipe like a champ. That way when we do meet a special someone, we turn all that sluttery off and we know how to make that good woman happy.
Women on the other hand... I've never seen a hoe become a good housewife. It doesn't get just flipped off like a switch. It comes with her... whatever she's been doing on social media or on the streets isn't going to really stop just because of one of us committing to her. That's my position on that.
They'll cheat out of boredom faster than just for lust (Like us). They usually catch feelings way before physical cheating (emotional cheating). I'm just saying they're different, so different rules apply.
Plus... and think about this tidbit because women will say they don't like this, but still only fuck around with fuckboys and nothing else as they say it... women like guys that CAN get pussy anywhere he goes. They'd rather share a man slut than get a man of their own. Just saying.
Easy men may as well stick with easy women.
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The answer is not no but HELL NO! I wouldn’t sleep with her either. You can’t make a whore a housewife. You can’t. She will cheat on you. I don’t care how nice she may seem at first. The chances are HIGH. Especially if she can’t control herslef.
If she can control herself around you it means she is not that attracted to you and never love you. Women are different than men. A man cannot control herself if the woman is sexy. However, woman can never control herself around the man that she LOVES him. But of course she can control herself around handsome men that she doesn’t love !
@Reemaa what the hell are you going on about? I can control myself. I don’t have sex with random whores whether they’re good looking or not.
I don’t want a whore. The man whores can keep them
@Reemaa if a girls easy to sleep with. She will probably chest. She will probably eventually get bored or begin to lust after someone else.
Some girls even sex bomb men as a way to use them for things. No thank you
@Reemaa you mean the women I've had arrested for sexual harassment and assault? There is also something called romantic love. But a dipshit like you wouldn’t understand thst
u Am I #17 or #117? How about this year? One or two, or ten to twelve?
I married her... for 20 good years and 3 kids... before an amicable divorce
To judge a woman based on this is foolish.
The majority of women today will have sex quickly with a guy they’re really attracted to. Casual sex, one night stands, hook-ups etc. are completely normal today.
However, just because a woman jumps into bed quickly with one guy doesn’t mean that she does it with every guy. A woman might have quick sex with one guy and then make another guy wait a while.
They know that a lot of men get scared off by a woman being too “easy” or her sexual past so they often hide it and pretend to be innocent.
Which also means that just because a woman makes you wait and takes it slowly with you doesn’t mean she makes other guys wait either.
Thinking that this is a good indicator of whether or not she’s good for you only means that you’ll be easily fooled by these types of women.
Plus, her level of attraction toward a guy has a lot to do with it. She’ll have quick sex with a guy she’s hot for because her horniness for him over-rides her common sense rules. She’s more likely to make a guy who’s just “alright” but who she’s not as hot for wait because she’s just not as horny for him.
I’d rather have the girl who wants to rip my clothes off.
Well when I was trying to lose my virginity at age 22 I slept with a few guys just to get the experience out of the way. They didn’t have to be my boyfriend, but I did have to know them for a while.
Its not like I’m unhinged and insane enough to do 4 guys at once, like I’ve heard some women have done in HighSchool.
In my opinion, you must be attractive enough for her to have wanted you at all.
I highly doubt she’s doing just ANY guy.
If she is, she has psychological problems. Like someone has touched her as a kid. Or something affected her , for her to make it so easy.
HONESTLY, Here are the options:
1) You are actually that attractive , muscular, sexually attractive. For her to give it away that fast to you.
2) She did it because she felt forced, out of pity for you. Pity sex. She just did it to get you out of her face, will probably never talk to you again.
3) Her sex drive is so high. She probably has hormonal issues that are making her sex drive go through the roof. And she doesn’t care who you are or anything. She literally is out of control.
4) She has psychological issues like I said. Someone did something to her as a child. And that trauma causes the bad behavior.
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On a man it is different, men and women are not the same. A very promiscuous man who sleeps with a woman on the first night is not the same. Men have testosterone. They’re literal dogs, animals, pigs. So a man cheating or having a past is not as serious as it is on a woman.
I would definitely stay with a man with a past, as long as he’s super hot and masculine.
Haha that’s crazy. We do have self control. A guy cheating is just as responsible as a woman cheating. It just depends how much he cares about you and what has his heart. Lust will ruin commitment in men. Really, if he values the game over the prize your in trouble no matter who it is.
Biologically men are weird to spread their seed, and higher testosterone makes them insatiable.
They can definitely control their lust
But this will make him miserable.
And if he feels restricted, he’s gonna resent the woman he cares about.
But to answer your question, absolutely not I wouldn’t be with a woman who spread it open within 24 hours of meeting her.
That’s literally insanity
Whenever I hooked up with me or had friends with benefits…. I knew these men in my community for over 1 or 2 years before letting them smash. You need rapport with someone.
That woman is 100% lost
Not exactly. Biologically we are wired visually. But that doesn’t mean women are ment to run around half naked or that we are supposed to put our seed in everyone. Both men and women are designed to have children together. We are equal players in reproduction, if a guy is designed to spread his seed around to different women then its like saying women are designed to be whores. Its just not the case. It’s just that our biology is used against us. Porn makes so much money because it exploits male biology and the common women does the same thing just to get male attention. It doesn’t mean all men are pigs. We are literally just bombarded in a world that tries to exploit us and Men know this. Company’s know this. It’s a malicious thing to do.
Women are supposed to have sex with only the best of the best. Men are mad to stick it into anything it’s why most pedophiles are male. It’s why most rapist are men
Most porn consumers are men.
Most zoophiliacs AKA stick it into animals, are men.
Not how it works but good luck with your celebrity crush
For me it's more of a trust issue than a promiscuity issue. If I expect to be in a monogamous relationship, if she is with me and only me, then I could care less about how easy she was or how many guys she slept with in the past. For me it's simple, either I trust her or I don't. I won't share my be for my life with anybody I don't trust implicitly. I would totally love and commit to her. Besides, being promiscuous when not in a committed relationship is fun and it means she likes sex as much as I do.
On a side note, I wonder how the responses would be if you flipped the question the other way around.
Correction: I won't share my life with anybody I don't trust implicitly.
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under the conditions you described, no. with her being like you described, there is a very high cgance of her cheating with any/every guy who "she gets along with" which translates to "any guy with an opinion or 2 that she agrees with". also that shows her lacking in mental areas as it shiws her as being easily manipulated (a guy saying enough of the correct lies) , not knowing she is worth more than basic attention and a body for sexual usage, possibly lacling selfawareness as to howdamgerous, medically, being "easy" is. then again, contemplating something long tetm with a woman like that could also show a guy lacking that same selfawareness and can indicate a deep seated lack of selfesteem to try latching onto a wo. an just because she is "easy". not to mention the negatives that often show up from such a pairing such as controlling behavours
Of course I do, if the sex was fantastic, she fulfilled all my requests without refusing anything, I don't let a woman like that get away.
Rarely do you find women who are willing to indulge the desires of guys, so if I ever find a partner who will indulge me in everything in sex, I'll happily go for it, even if it's someone I sleep with the same night.
Obviously he must remain loyal to me.
I'm a strong believer in going with the flow. If things feel right, I would sleep with her if she was also feeling it. Just because a girl has sex on the first date does not necessarily mean that she is a slut that spreads her legs for everyone.
Mature and wise comment. I salute your maturity sir. 🫡
True, just because she’s willing to sleep with you easily, doesn’t necessarily mean she’d do the same with every guy. You’d have to really learn about her history in order to truly know. There are girls that hold out for the right guy, and are only ‘easy’ with guys that meet their standards. Which, doesn’t make them easy if they have very high standards for who they’re willing to sleep with.
I wouldn't be able to take it seriously. If a woman is easy to sleep with, it shows she has no le el of restraint or self respect. So if she is very quick to hop into bed with ANY guy she gets along with, it will be very easy for her to cheat. She would be more of a practice and hook up girl than a woman built for a committed and loyal relationship.
It takes two. You'd also be sleeping with someone rather easily, no barrier. Do you consider yourself trustworthy for it?
Yes exactly my intention. They both do the same thing but how it is viewed by each gender may be different in terms of what they accept for the future. Both people want to have fun and give into their desires but it seems that from the men is that it isn’t what they truly want. Some won’t even sleep with her while others will take the cookie and run lol 🍪
Of course. I want a partner with a high sex drive to match mine.
Firstly I would need to have lots of options. Meaning I would need to be around a lot of women that wanted me, so I could choose someone. But since I'm not around anyone. I can only make due with whoever floats into my life. So a question like this doesn't even apply to me.
When I was single: If I thought she was easy with everybody I would never take her serious. No relationship. if I thought she really thought I was "the one" type of deal then sure. I'm not talking about sex on the first meeting.. for me to believe she was into me she'd have to not be trying to suck me off on the first meeting. Ha.
Depends what you mean with "long term relationship" as what you're describing is basically the average Tinder "All hookup, no commitment" chick.
The "long term" basically means she will fuck you for rent and food whenever she's in town.
You can hardly call it a relationship.
She is Miss Right Now. But if she will give sex to any guy then you can't think it is going to exclusive.
I wouldn't. I would like to be certain that her baby is my baby without a dna test.
Other guys might feel differently.
Last woman I dated, we slept together on the 3rd date. The sexual chemistry was amazing however after that our interactions became strictly sex so really we transitioned into becoming FWBs over a 6 month period which we both didn't mind. She let me bareback her straight away.
It depends on her personality and at what point was it clear that she was game to sleep with me on the first date.
If she was throwing it out there immediately then no... if it was going really really good on our date and it just so happens that we built sexual tension then sure.
Depends on what time of my life we are talking. When I was young and looking for a wife, no way in hell. Now that I am older and positively will not get married again, an easy chick would be fun to have around.
@Katebfun It's not just one man's broken heart, it is the epidemic of men watching their fathers, older brothers, and uncles getting ruined by women for no reason other than she "got bored".
How many times should a person touch a hot stove before he learns?
nope, my already low trust vanished completely oh but i trust her for one thing, i trust she will cheat or even be disgusting enough to suggest an open bullshit, in short i trust she is a slut and i trust that i don't do future with sluts.
most guys won't date a woman who is not easy to sleep with. Truth is... a woman needs to put out by a certain date if she wants to keep a man interested. Lotta guys on here will say in theory they want a woman who doesn't sleep around. But they would never last with such a woman in real life. guys expect sex by the 3rd date
Sex on first date? No, she definitely had sex that easily with trash men, thus making herself trash.
No, I wouldn't. Women like that either have low self-esteem or character issues (likely both), neither of which are acceptable to me. I am not a slut myself and I hold women to the same standard.
You just keep her around for recreational use. This isn't that difficult
I don't think so. If I can't get her to sleep with me that easily, then any guy could. A worthwhile girl is not going to be easy, and a girl that easy isn't worthwhile.
If she wants sex on a first date, I will decline and there won't be a second date.
Fun people are the best people.
Yes I would if I liked her
F*** no! How am I supposed to respect her when she doesn't even respect herself?
For me yes. A girl liking sex is not going to determine is he relationship is going to last or not
She should be easy for you and hard for any other dude.
Wouldn't see a future with her especially with her being flirty and easy to get along with.
No, I tried to date such women in the past but realized that we wouldn't be compatible.
I'd keep her around for sex, but no long-term plans.
I have a long term and great relationship with a hooker and i am very happy.
Man I’m stuck in that at the moment with a girl I genuinely ❤️. We just friends but yeah.
i wouldn't even sleep with her
As long as she's a virgin.
@Nikki1989 LOL!!! Yeah, WOW, what a sicko! Old as dirt TOO! It's, like, 4PM. Just got done with supper and my caretaker is telling me it's time for bed. I was hoping I could stay up for Matlock.
@Nikki1989 Wait a sec, you're 34 FFS! Talk about one foot in the grave!!! How does it feel to be soooo old and looking back at your life?
I don’t think LTR’s that start that way last.
No. I hold the same standard for myself.
No I won't
Why would he? Lol
O yes!
Possibly.
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