I'd lay the cards on the figurative table.
Why not just tell him that you are looking for this and that. Perhaps not at this moment, but in the forseeable future. If he is not in a place where that seems like what he wants, give each other a compliment, wish them luck and move on.
People will very rarely hold having standards and self-respect, with healthy boundaries, against you. It also does lot permanently burn a bridge.
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Cautious makes sense for him having been in a failed LTR.
He just got out of a serious relationship. The fact that you have a similar look to his ex means he has a type. The guy is probably just feeling insecure and as he said doesn't want to rush things. Leave him be
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