Guy I met online briefly and now setting a date, but I feel like he’s distancing?

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We talked for a week on the app, we hit it off with long texts and connecting in different things. We met briefly at spur of the moment. He told me he really liked me, but all I could asked is how can he when he just met me lol. We had two long hugs. He told me he will give me a proper date. The next day, we were talking, I felt like he’s not as attentive with a little shorter replies and I don’t feel that high energy anymore. Why? So I apologize that I wasn’t talking as much when we met because I was really cold and I don’t want to burdened him at the time. He told me he loved how communicative I was and he thought of me well when we met. I told him I was thankful he’s understanding and playfully said he can give me a blanket when it’s cold next time. He started talking about cuddling in a blanket sounds nice. I told him it’s really cute but I reserved for it after some dates. He never comment on it. The day after is today.. we still message in the morning, but he actually didn’t message me for half the day (noon to evening) and when he did reply at evening I felt like his high energy and super attentive sweet msgs isn’t there as much? He was being there for me while I was ranting off work. He asked if I was down for Sunday to go to an art museum. I said I love to. He told me he will see me then with a kissy face. So I’m assuming he won’t talk to me anymore… but I still feel a bit distant? Or am I overthinking? Is it the cuddle comment? Or he’s probably busy getting to know other women?
Guy I met online briefly and now setting a date, but I feel like he’s distancing?
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