Do you have any suggestions for me if I want to be in a long-term relationship yet I haven't been successful so far?

[TheSimFans]

What do you thoughts about my update profile bio on my online dating profile and men has to read my profile to makes we on the same if we are not. get a unmatched or blocked. last guy said if a people don't read your profile is dipperful people that i don't want and did said bye and i don't like you. is what men do to be more pushy. i don't want to that want both a sexual relationship or long term relationship. since i'm not sure about sexual relationship only when i took off the sexual relationship men started messing me but i put back on my profile. i want a long term relationship. i don't want a pushy men but do want a honest men and a respectful men and not to push my y boundaries for a long term relationship what are you thoughts?

[DarkWinterNights]

A couple of things I’ve picked up on over the years. Most dating apps are full of people looking for casual relationships and hookups. There are some people looking for more, but you’ll have to have patience. Avoid Tinder and similar swiping apps.

Things to consider:

• 1st picture needs to be of your face. Preferably smiling or having a good time. Second one should be a full body, it can be with friends but don’t make a guy try to guess which one is you. Doing an activity or having fun is ideal in the second picture.
• Include a couple of things you enjoy doing and what you want to be able to do with a guy. Include a neat date idea or ask an interesting question to get a conversation started.
• You can include some important preferences, but don’t do it as a list of requirements. That’s a huge turnoff to guys, especially when most of them are immutable characteristics. Pictures are the most important thing when it comes to online dating unfortunately, and most people skim the information, so don’t spend too much time on it.
• Avoid saying things like, “I’m done with games” or anything about settling down, a lot of that translates to guys as “I’ve dated and been used by a lot of jerks” and may come across jaded or sound more problematic than a lot of guys want to deal with. You can say you’re looking for something more serious, but it probably won’t filter a lot of unserious potentials out. You’ll probably just have to be filter them out yourself.
• Proof read your profile before posting it. It may not seem like much, but spelling or grammar errors can be misinterpreted as foreign or scammers.

[TheSimFans]

@DarkWinterNights I did put I'm looking for serious relationship and still got some Casual relationship and some of them guys did one want both serious relationship and Casual relationship. should i put I'm not sure about sexual relationship on my profile. i don't many. i prefer to be a short guy over a tall guy.

[molonski2]

Id begin by working on your writing skills , if you cannot express yourself correctly you will not attract the people you wish to attract , this will be part of working on the complete you , presentation , interests , grammar , fitness , education..

Not everyone can be perfect , but we can all present with our best foot forward , think of yourself as a product , its your job to market that product , association is everything , but you need to be prepared for change , you are old enough now -- improve , don't focus on others , focus on yourself.

[TheSimFans]

@molonski2 Why does my writing skill even matter I'm not even in high school. not going to used anywhere part from social media. I type just fine. like this. already been improving but hasn't seen any result with any relationship just kept getting dates but nothing else happen. just kept ending up back at the started.

[molonski2]

Nope , its not good enough , needs lots of work , you can face upto it , or deny , I dont care , you lay down with dogs you wake up with -- ( association )
Great associations need complete commitment.

[molonski2]

Educate yourself , first and foremost.

[TheSimFans]

I already did go to Education. i said i went to college and high school. i think you need to reread what i'm going to say and yep i did pass all my English's Exam.

[ginger_snap]

There is something to the statement you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince.

But it can take a lot of connections which don't work out to find one that is a good match. And all the interactions helps learn about what you want and, perhaps more importantly, what traits you want to avoid.

[TheSimFans]

@ginger_snapyep this what been happening a lot so far. just lots of bad apples or frogs. if a person has snapchat is bad

[ginger_snap]

Keep at it. Sounds like you are finding the signals to help filter out. The ones you pick to meet will keep getting better and one will click.

Just never settle for the bad. There are plenty of options to pick from

[TheSimFans]

@ginger_snap is has one player and one men that was looking for different things that comes to relationship. both of guys were one was 33 year old and was a player and second one just want both a relationship and sexual relationship. i can only date men with a learning disabilities. i'm don't what is mean finding the signals. i got a learning disabilities to.

[KatherineJ]

Yes. First, just find someone you enjoy spending time with, and see what happens.

[BadApple69]

Yes I have a suggestion. You are young. Give it time. Let things happen naturally. If you are in a situation where there aren’t that many men in your like then change your situation. Go to church, take some night classes in a community collage, join a sports team. Get out and meet people. Then let nature take its course.

[TheSimFans]

@BadApple69 Church is not a good option for me since i can not date men that are normal and have date men with a learning disabilities men only since i got a learning disability.

[BadApple69]

You can date normal men, you can date whomever you choose. Don't let your disability control your dating life. In my life, I have seen people with disabilities do things that “normal” people could only hope to do. Don't let your mind limit you, shoot for the moon! Happy dating!!

[Adam1978]

Bad attitude on a profile will not attract any good men. So don't add any form of complaints on your profile. No lectures in behaviors. It's enough to write what you want and what you bring, the rest you have to deal with as it comes. Don't show any frustration about dealing with men. You will only filter away yourself from people who do read your profile.

[TheSimFans]

@Adam1978
I don't even put it on my profile just one about not sure about sexual relationship and i also I don't put any frustration on any profile and yet can't get men that i want is always the opposite of men. i just want people to read my profile since i sick of getting messing of snapchat is one lots of them and another one is sex question

[Adam1978]

My advice delete dating apps and go out and find men in their natural habitat. That way you don't get spams and bots. Men are easy to find we have hobbies and get around. Most good men has tried and given up on dating apps if they even need to try them in the first place.

[TheSimFans]

@Adam1978. I already has tried real life and so far nobody is interested in me when i did go out and most of men that i met were taken or not interested in a long term relationship. I can only date men with a learning disabilities only. normal men are out. i'm not sure how to know if a guy is single or just hiding it.

[OfMiceandMen]

Slow your pace down. Let someone find you through your everyday life rather than relying on websites.

Below you say you're not even in High School, stop worrying about finding a mate and make some friends... enjoy life!👌

[TheSimFans]

@ofmiceandmenI already pass college I'm not even highs school at all. i also graduation from college if you looked at the age of on here. most of people i met are already in a relationship or more interested in being just friends and got just friends a lot with men when i did metup with in real life.

[OfMiceandMen]

Ya, but you keep meeting people throughout your life, just take your time and enjoy not being in a relationship. Once you are in a long term relationship, you often forget what it's like to be on your own. Enjoy your freedoms now while you are young.

[TheSimFans]

@OfMiceandMen
My mum one is problem and is stricter with me when comes to dating cetin type men that i can only date are men with a learning disabilities that is moderate or severs. can't date men that has mild or no learning disabilities. most younger men seem to be more immature and as well older age men can just be immature. I rarely get attracted to some men but seen more guys rejected me when i do try approached when i did in previous.

[joeND]

I prayed to god for a wife met her in a cab the next week, 30 years now together, I dated 100 women only prayed for a wife once.

[jahaims]

Find someone with similar morals, values and goals.