What can I do to increase my chances of getting into a long-term relationship with dating and online dating?

[SeaStorm1]

So far hasn't gotten more success yet but been more failure over and over. I always seem to start right back and start again when it comes to dating. I can get men to meetup with me just fine is after nothing comes after and yep, I'm single. I been online dating and did have bad experience and also had bad experience with men in real life that I met at social events. Some men that I met at social events, I'm not attracted to some of them. I was attracted to one man that I did meet at a social event but did fade since he did stop texting. I had guys that i met online and some of them did say similar they were interested in serious relationship but after i metup with some men they were now not interested in having a serious relationship or long-term relationship. These guys were in there 30+. I have been ghosted more than once. I been rejected by some guys since one was looking for both a relationship and a sexual relationship and didn't send an ultimatum. I'm have not that interested in a sexual relationship but prefer to get into a long term relationship. I'm virgin to. I also put an age range limit on my online dating to 18-30 . I get tons of likes and some matches through our online dating apps/dating sites. Real life just dating sucks to How can I increase my chances of getting into a long-term relationship to be more successful?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Always do a background check on who you want to meet in person or online, just google their name and that will give you enough information on who they are also you can trace usernames of someone as well.

[SeaStorm1]

that also inclued social media to. is there way to put image to search from google to?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah there should be a way

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[DarkLegacy]

But what is the main reason you think you are unsuccesful in dating.

[SeaStorm1]

Just men being Very picky and stubborn when comes to men in there age 30+ . most of them are not interested in long-term relationships. I reject two since one was a player and the second one wasn't no good want to both long term relationship and sexual relationship. My mum is the main problem. I also been rejected by one men i try both ways to meet men in real life and throughout online dating.

[Phoenix98]

That's why you date to find someone you click with not everyone you go out with is going to be for you but that's why you do it that's why dating is sometimes referred to as fishing.

you ain't always going to reel in the big one, sometimes you may get a catfish, a sunfish or a bass. Or maybe you might get lucky and snag a big salmon.

Dating is no different then fishing in that regard you gotta throw your line out there and see what you catch and if you don't like that one you caught them em back in the water and try again.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Sadly, yes it is

[Emanon25]

Be realistic and be who you’re.

[SeaStorm1]

yep did this and nothing happen

[Emanon25]

It will work just be patient

[SeaStorm1]

yep i done this to and hasn't work at all.

[Emanon25]

Follow me please

[Joshuabenitez]

Just be nice.

[SeaStorm1]

done this to and hasn't work at all. zero