My online dating profile makes it clear that I have dating boundaries. Do some men push me when I mention them?

[TheSimFans]

The boundaries I've set on my dating profile make it very clear to men not push me when I'm not sure about a sexual relationship. I don't like when someone asks me a sex question and I haven't met up yet. I just assume that they're just looking for a fuck and dump before moving on to the next person. I can get men to meet up with me on some online dating sites. i been on a few dates but didn't leave anything. However, it seems to have come to an end and I'm back once again at the beginning of finding another man. I get tons of likes and matched that has be no prombled. Messaging men is no problem but I get somewhat shy when i go outside in a public places when to meet people of making friends or maybe a relationship but take me longtime. The only man I saw was looking at men and said he knew me from a different location. What can I do to increase my chances of getting what I want with a long-term relationship?

[Gent207-2]

Wow honest advice

1.) Remove the boundaries portion - even for a "nice guy" with similar beliefs and boundaries it throws them off from the start. But if you must have fuckboy-repellant generally mentioning your religious beliefs will do the trick.

2.) Stop assuming all guys are just in it for sex. The pool of good men may be few and far between but this assumption will only drive your defenses up and prevent you from gaining a long-term relationship.

3.) Avoid Tender, Plenty of Fish and Omegele.

Personally I recommend Whisper - it's not a daring app but it's how I met the wife. Good luck

[TheSimFans]

I'm not looking for a fake nice guys. honest advice is not just a opinion. there been more then dating sites then common apps and still going to be fuckboi there still. I can only date men with a learning disabilities because i got a stupid learning disabilities and so far i met a player and one that wanted both relationship and sexual relationship .

[Gent207-2]

And not taking advice
Got it👌

[LiamJHayden]

1. They are testing your resolve.
2. They do not like being excluded.
3. They think you might make an exception in their cases.

[provokeesmokee]

Don't try to find it using a dating site, or keep strict on your boundaries. If a man crossed a boundary, immediately drop him.

There's not much else to do, honestly.

[spartan55]

Yeah? We don't like the 'what are your intentions', and the 'what are we' discussions before we are ready either.

[Alex8736]

Ask them specific questions that the answer is already on your profile just to test them to make sure they actually read your profile. Most but not all see a pretty face and immediate message

[TheSimFans]

that what i been trying to test them so far most of them has fail part two but turn out to be a player and another only wanted both relationship and sexual relationship. I'm looking for long term relationship.

[Alex8736]

Just keep moving forward