Talking about real relationship and not some short turn 1 month to year of dating or even ONS/FWB relationship. As we know sexual attraction is important and fat tends to cause ones sexual attraction to decrease which often eventually leads to low sex life and relationship soon breaking up soon afterwards. Most men today, do not seem to care if a girl has a healthy lifestyle, as long as she looks thin/"healthy" to him RIGHT NOW when he meets her. What soon follows is they get into a relationship and spoil her with food, she ends up getting fat and they either cheat behind her back when they no longer find her as attractive or break up with her wasting years of both parties lives.
Some key points to figure out whether a girl is gong to get fat by her lat 20's for the latest is:
1. Look at her best friends and those in her social circle unless her mom is her best friend. Taken from research paper "Obesity can spread from person to person, much like a virus, according to researchers. When one person gains weight, close friends tend to gain weight too. That increases chance to become obese by 57%"
2. Impulsive and extroverted people tend to be fatter; and conscientious, disciplined, organized people tend to be skinnier. This makes sense because people who are impulsive tend to eat more, as do social butterflies since so many social events are based around eating and drinking. Disciplined people however, will have either the will power or coping mechanisms in place to navigate their daily life without over-indulging in calories or exercising enough.
3. Family history - If said person has skinny family history lineage; look at her grandparents.
4. Are they active and take their health serious or are they one of those people who go to the gym off and on.
57 year old farmer girl who married the man she dated since her teens
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Are you hesitant to get into a relationship with a girl based on her most likely getting fat within a couple years?
no. bc i do not date women. but i DO i worry about it with guys. lots of young guys are thin but bc their metabolism is fast so they can eat whatever they want not necessarily bc they try to be thin. then they just keep eating as always and the pounds pack on. and they dont do anything about it bc they never did before.
it would affect my attraction immensely. i could still love him but I don't know if i could _love_ him.
You know, if her mom is fat and she has one of those nice bodies with curves... yeah I wouldn't recommend it. Like there were these two girls in high school who at age 14 had the most unbelievable bodies! But in college, they just got huge and... yeah, I wouldn't want any part of it because once you're entrenched in a relationship, you almost can't talk about weight anymore so you're basically stuck with it.
My ex was slim when I met her, as were her sisters and mother. She gained a lot through her 20s while they didn't. *shrug*
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Yes. Any man who doesn't look closely at what he is investing himself into is going to have a bad time. Same can be said for women as this can lead to them becoming single mothers.
as you get older you get better at recognizing women who are at risk of getting "tank ass' and you learn to pump and dump these women. Look at the mother for some decent predictions but not always true
When I 1st met my wife she was about average, then got very thin, then got somewhat plump... she's dramatically gained and lost weight through our 25+ years together.
No. I'm hesitant cause she could turn into a lazy I hate everything kinda person... like I'd have to get a diamond ring and all trash stuff... I'm not fake like that.
You do realise that it gets harder to stay in shape as you get older due to decrease metabolism, and frequency of injury. Also not to mention weakened immune system.
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