Would you date a girl who is overweight?

[HannaKatrine]

I'm overweight, and I experience a lot of difficulties when it comes to dating

[jennifer_bloom]

During my vacations to tourist areas, I often seen very overweight woman with good looking guys and the guys are rich cause they dine at expensive restaurants and order expensive dishes. My aunt is obese and is married to one of the best guys in the province, he won a top employee competition which had ten million competitors fighting for the title.

[Anonymous]

I used to be sad being fat then I went to get lip and transferred it to my butt. I'm not so sad that my buttcheeks are not the same. if it's not one thing its another.
try to find an activity you like and change your diet. I'm sad about my situation if I could go back and just eat healthy and be active exercise and find my happy in natural way not be depressed for trying to cheat and now not know how to fix this. ugh. '
having said all that I see a lot of overweight girls in relationships, it's either you're not going out enough to meet people or your personality is not too out there for someone to notice you. Sometimes normally attractive people are single forever too because they are too shy so the go unnoticed, so it's not always about weight.

[Jay3344]

I heard recently that girls are healthy with 30% body fat…. so don’t sweat feeling how you feel. You’re probably just trying to be healthy. Plus for girls, hitting a stair master for 45 minutes and doing some band exersices to round out the booty is all you need to get a body men drool over. Basic skin care and a nice smile and most men will come asking for your number. Who you are and what you’re about is what keeps the guys after the date. But truly don’t get yourself down. You’ll lose before you even try that way. Just be happy and talk guys up that you like.

[shades777]

Not a preference but I'ved dated about 3-4 overweight women. I always try to get some physical activity out of them like walking.


From my experience nearly all overweight I've dated don't want to do better as far as being healthier in that regard especially since they got me as the prize, a fit muscular man, from their perspective why you gotta work out sonce they got what they want?


So now I just focus on women on that path, I've learned that I no longer interested in changing anyone, you have to be on the path or already fit and petite.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have dated women who were overweight by 10-15 pounds. I am not attracted to women who are porculent.

[Avicenna]

Overweight, yes, but not obese.

[ZackBan]

Overweight is a broad spectrum.

I think everyone has a threshold when it comes how much fat (or skinny) they can put up with.

But generally I would advise anyone who struggles with weight, like i do, to actively fight it. For personal reasons.
Just because someone would date you doesn't mean it's ok to let yourself go and become at risk of health problems.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I've dated a few bbw's. It was fun. They appreciated me more and I've noticed they all had a really high sex drive which is awesome.

As long as you keep yourself clean and take care of yourself well enough, you can be pretty attractive as a bbw.

[ShadezMcgee]

Dated a girl who was overweight before. Loved her body and personality. To be fair though, a lot of her weight came in the form of her boobs. Almost 40lbs of boobs combined, but otherwise the stretch marks and slight muffin top wasn't a big deal.

[AaronKrieger]

Sure, I've dated a girl who was overweight before and her weight was never a problem for me. I'm completely fine with stretch marks, cellulite, belly fat, and all of that. I found her very attractive and it made cuddling more comfortable. However, the heavier you are the more your fat distibrution is going to impact that for me.

[Sour-rose]

Nah. Shallow but it's not because she's overweight, it's because she be slowing me down. I walk faster than a tall person so I can only imagine she can't keep up with me when we're going to the mall

[Quackthulu2]

No, I put a lot of work into my own health and fitness, and won’t date anybody who doesn’t at least take it reasonably seriously.

[Apple1996]

It seems like men don't even notice when a woman is overweight. It's not till a woman gets obese that she's considered fat/unattractive to men

[LiamJHayden]

If she is working on getting fit, I might. Otherwise probably not. I put a lot of time and energy into being fit.

[HighValue]

No. I put in effort lifting weights and am very strong, so she at least needs to be slim for me to date her.

[Berethor]

I might, but how much overweight? anyway I tend to care more about if a girl is not a ho.

[slatyb]

That depends on how overweight she is. Both shorter and heavier than me is not appealing.

[warsevf]

I was fat and would have said yes, but now i am average, so looking in the same league

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't. Not once not ever lol. But a lot of other guys would. My own brother married a fatter girl.

[Nightmoon83]

You are beautiful don’t let anyone tell you differently

[boggboss]

Depends how big bur for the most part no

[FunkyMonkee]

So far, that's all I've ever had!

[Masumgunahkar]

1 gr meet cowers the defect they says😉

[Anonymous]

Not really 😞