Would you date a pretty but overweight girl?

Question

just wondering if guys would still be attracted to me, a girl with a big belly. I’ve been told I’m very attractive and I could get into modelling if I wasn’t as chunky which is kind of sad lol.

I’d like to think I’m funny and nice, and would be a good girlfriend. The only thing is, I’m pretty chubby. I don’t have a large frame, I’m not that tall (5’2), my arms and legs aren’t too chunky, I just have a big belly.

is that a huge turn off in a girl if she ticks most other boxes? Do you think guys immediately would not be interested in me because of this?

Here are some photos that look exactly like what my body type looks like. (Not me in the photos by the way just some random ones from the internet that look like me).

Would you date a pretty but overweight girl?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I don't know why I have to be so difficult on such a simple question
But for me I'm feeling the words as I read them.

When I read this question I read it three different ways

Would I date a pretty. But an overweight girl.

And then I read the question again and I see the pictures. But that girl's not you

And then I read the question again
And I read would you date me I'm pretty but I'm overweight

And this is why it's difficult for me because in life we know things before we know them if we listen to ourselves

Down deep in your subconscious you're asking this question for a reason

You're asking because you know the answers you're asking because there's something inside of you telling you you need to change
You're asking because this is a moment in time

That you need to listen to yourself you're just doing it without your ears you're doing it with a question if that makes sense

So if you were to be completely honest with yourself would you date yourself if you were a guy

I kind of pride myself I'm looking deeper than most people
You say you're pretty you're just overweight.
And pretty to you is on the outside.

I do like pretty
But I like beautiful better and beautiful comes from the inside so you could be a very beautiful girl that's pretty and a little overweight

So the question would be
the pictures were you
Would be would you date me I'm pretty just a little bit overweight
In order for me to answer that I would have to look into your eyes to see if you're beautiful because that comes from the inside

So since I've made it so difficult now just let me be honest
I can't answer this question LMAO
I would have to look at your eyes first

But I can't say this and I will say this if I knew who you were and you were my friend
Would you go on a walk with me 30 minutes a day for 30 days had a very fast pace.

Starting today
And I see starting today because you're asking this question for a reason you know something that we all don't know and there's going to become a time where you can't walk 30 minutes a day for 30 days because your body is going to be in so much pain and it's going to be very difficult and if it becomes difficult you're not going to want to do it because it's going to hurt you

So if you start today and walk 30 minutes at a very fast pace the first thing you're going to do is get oxygen to your brain to your body to your organs and you're going to start thinking a little bit clearer and then you can ask yourself what's bothering you

You might not have an answer today but if you do it again tomorrow you might.

And if not then then the next day you might but somewhere in that 30 days you're going to get that answer because you're going to watch your body tone up you're going to watch your body lose weight you're going to watch your smile because on your face it's real because you're doing something for yourself.

So for yourself become that healthy model that people say you are there's a reason why you ask this question and I think it's deeper than what you realize

So just because of your words just because of what I felt reading your words on who you are on the inside
I do really want to say yes I would date you
I would say yes to the girl on the inside no to the girl on the outside until she became who she wanted to become

Sorry I need this simple question so difficult.
It's a very simple question
But I hear when I read it more than one question.
And you're asking it for a reason and you need to really think about down deep with that reason really really is because it's very important right now
I cannot tell you what to do only you can
I know this makes no sense to you but it is to me I hope it does to you too

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

No.

If she wants a love life than she should put in the work. Discipline. Eat right, get regular exercise. Cut out sugars and snacks and junk foods. Do some strength training. Get fit.

Guys want fit girls who look like they could carry babies and be good moms... not women who look like they'll be in a wheelchair in 5 years.

Harsh? Yes. Is it facts? Yes. People won't change unless they know the hard truths.

Same for a guy. If he is way out of shape. If he wants to attract women then go get a man bod and not a blob bod. Equal advice for both sexes.

AviatorTom · Answer

I have dated some overweight women, but none that were obese.

Avicenna · Answer

Lots of men would date you as long as you have at least a decent personality.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

I would, as long as a kindhearted, caring personality is there. It's not about how you look, but what comes from your heart. Those kinds of qualities lack in so many girls. I'm probably one of the very few guys that look for personality before looks.

I was talking to this one girl one day was thin, and she was talking about how this guy rejected her, and she said, "I don't know why he rejected me. I'm hot. There has to be something wrong with him."

Superficial girls like that turn me off. I mean they nauseate me! But yeah, kindheartedness is what's important to me.

Luke03 · Answer

i’m going to be totally honest.

I’ll start with a question: do you feel comfortable with your body? Do you feel like the best version of yourself?

If your answer is no, why wouldn’t you change your appearance? You’d definitely be able to lose fat if you wanted to, and maybe have more chances with guys.

If your answer is yes, then i’ll tell you i’d find a girl like that attractive. A confident girl, who likes her body and feels great with it, is great. If said girl has a beautiful smile, is often cheerful and optimistic, and is generally a good person, i honestly wouldn’t mind to date her.

Billlewis · Answer

I wouldn't date a 'pretty but overweight' girl -- I'd date a pretty girl who was even more attractive because she was plump, chubby and super sexy!

exitseven · Answer

You sound really sincere. I might date you but I have a pretty active lifestyle and it is important to me to have a girlfriend that likes to be active. I dated somebody once and on one of our first dates we went to a concert and I had to park a Half mile away and she complained the whole time we walked. I was not pleased.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I wouldn't want to date a girl who puts zero effort into changing herself for the better, unless I was the same way.

Being fat is indicative of many life choices you've made and will continue to make. No thanks

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Yep, but not one that's obese.

In the case you mentioned, body fat distribution varies, like some people just tend to store most of theirs in certain areas and it's not something that they have control over.

Ohhi12345 · Answer

A lot of attraction does depend on the face for me, but I absolutely have been attracted to sweet, caring women who had bodies similar to yours:)

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I'm going to go with pass on that one. I lead an active life. I want a partner that can be there beside me to share in it. I'm sure you'll do fine though.

DextroShade · Answer

A woman CANNOT be pretty if she is overweight. Period. Full stop. The only guys who will take you seriously are losers who can't do better. The body positivity movement is a stupid lie.

madhatters4 · Answer

yes i would and have. beauty for me at least tends to go beyond simple factor of weight, althought weight is a factor

Blueeyes81 · Answer

I couldn't. She could tick every one of the boxes in what I'm looking for personality wise but the attraction would never be there. Thus we could be friends just not a relationship.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I would date an overweight girl. All my ex-girlfriends were overweight, makes no difference to me.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Most decent men would and the rest, well they don't really matter.

Nerdvana · Answer

I would. But It would have a lot to do with your personality. Even if you are the most beautiful woman in the world. If you are a crappy person. I wouldn't be interested. Are you single?

Seanx30 · Answer

I would date her even if she plus finder attractive or pretty enough for me to ask her sound like a great person to whith how you talk about your self 😍😍 i don't care about the belly I find it beautiful

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Broadly yes. A pretty face and good personality cover up a lot.

BlackJeep · Answer

No. I live an active lifestyle and an overweight girl couldn't keep up.

RyanK9b · Answer

Charisma is not that important like appearance for guy. I would never date someone like that. Even slightly bellys are a turn off for me.

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