Would you date a pretty but overweight girl?

[Anonymous]

just wondering if guys would still be attracted to me, a girl with a big belly. I’ve been told I’m very attractive and I could get into modelling if I wasn’t as chunky which is kind of sad lol.

I’d like to think I’m funny and nice, and would be a good girlfriend. The only thing is, I’m pretty chubby. I don’t have a large frame, I’m not that tall (5’2), my arms and legs aren’t too chunky, I just have a big belly.

is that a huge turn off in a girl if she ticks most other boxes? Do you think guys immediately would not be interested in me because of this?

Here are some photos that look exactly like what my body type looks like. (Not me in the photos by the way just some random ones from the internet that look like me).

[ohsheeT]

I don't know why I have to be so difficult on such a simple question
But for me I'm feeling the words as I read them.

When I read this question I read it three different ways

Would I date a pretty. But an overweight girl.

And then I read the question again and I see the pictures. But that girl's not you

And then I read the question again
And I read would you date me I'm pretty but I'm overweight

And this is why it's difficult for me because in life we know things before we know them if we listen to ourselves

Down deep in your subconscious you're asking this question for a reason

You're asking because you know the answers you're asking because there's something inside of you telling you you need to change
You're asking because this is a moment in time

That you need to listen to yourself you're just doing it without your ears you're doing it with a question if that makes sense

So if you were to be completely honest with yourself would you date yourself if you were a guy

I kind of pride myself I'm looking deeper than most people
You say you're pretty you're just overweight.
And pretty to you is on the outside.

I do like pretty
But I like beautiful better and beautiful comes from the inside so you could be a very beautiful girl that's pretty and a little overweight

So the question would be
the pictures were you
Would be would you date me I'm pretty just a little bit overweight
In order for me to answer that I would have to look into your eyes to see if you're beautiful because that comes from the inside

So since I've made it so difficult now just let me be honest
I can't answer this question LMAO
I would have to look at your eyes first

But I can't say this and I will say this if I knew who you were and you were my friend
Would you go on a walk with me 30 minutes a day for 30 days had a very fast pace.

Starting today
And I see starting today because you're asking this question for a reason you know something that we all don't know and there's going to become a time where you can't walk 30 minutes a day for 30 days because your body is going to be in so much pain and it's going to be very difficult and if it becomes difficult you're not going to want to do it because it's going to hurt you

So if you start today and walk 30 minutes at a very fast pace the first thing you're going to do is get oxygen to your brain to your body to your organs and you're going to start thinking a little bit clearer and then you can ask yourself what's bothering you

You might not have an answer today but if you do it again tomorrow you might.

And if not then then the next day you might but somewhere in that 30 days you're going to get that answer because you're going to watch your body tone up you're going to watch your body lose weight you're going to watch your smile because on your face it's real because you're doing something for yourself.

So for yourself become that healthy model that people say you are there's a reason why you ask this question and I think it's deeper than what you realize

So just because of your words just because of what I felt reading your words on who you are on the inside
I do really want to say yes I would date you
I would say yes to the girl on the inside no to the girl on the outside until she became who she wanted to become

Sorry I need this simple question so difficult.
It's a very simple question
But I hear when I read it more than one question.
And you're asking it for a reason and you need to really think about down deep with that reason really really is because it's very important right now
I cannot tell you what to do only you can
I know this makes no sense to you but it is to me I hope it does to you too

[Miristheiss]

No.

If she wants a love life than she should put in the work. Discipline. Eat right, get regular exercise. Cut out sugars and snacks and junk foods. Do some strength training. Get fit.

Guys want fit girls who look like they could carry babies and be good moms... not women who look like they'll be in a wheelchair in 5 years.

Harsh? Yes. Is it facts? Yes. People won't change unless they know the hard truths.

Same for a guy. If he is way out of shape. If he wants to attract women then go get a man bod and not a blob bod. Equal advice for both sexes.

[Miristheiss]

ps - you will feel SOOOOOO much better when you are in shape. So much energy, so much mobility and stamina and strength. You'll feel great!

[AviatorTom]

I have dated some overweight women, but none that were obese.

[Avicenna]

Lots of men would date you as long as you have at least a decent personality.

[RyanK9b]

Yes guys she doesn't want. Lel

[Leapfrog00]

I would, as long as a kindhearted, caring personality is there. It's not about how you look, but what comes from your heart. Those kinds of qualities lack in so many girls. I'm probably one of the very few guys that look for personality before looks.

I was talking to this one girl one day was thin, and she was talking about how this guy rejected her, and she said, "I don't know why he rejected me. I'm hot. There has to be something wrong with him."

Superficial girls like that turn me off. I mean they nauseate me! But yeah, kindheartedness is what's important to me.

[Luke03]

i’m going to be totally honest.

I’ll start with a question: do you feel comfortable with your body? Do you feel like the best version of yourself?

If your answer is no, why wouldn’t you change your appearance? You’d definitely be able to lose fat if you wanted to, and maybe have more chances with guys.

If your answer is yes, then i’ll tell you i’d find a girl like that attractive. A confident girl, who likes her body and feels great with it, is great. If said girl has a beautiful smile, is often cheerful and optimistic, and is generally a good person, i honestly wouldn’t mind to date her.

[Billlewis]

I wouldn't date a 'pretty but overweight' girl -- I'd date a pretty girl who was even more attractive because she was plump, chubby and super sexy!

[Asker]

Aw that’s nice ☺️

[Billlewis]

Although it has taken much longer than I would have preferred, many plus sized women are beginning to realize that guys don't want them to be shy about their weight, or wear clothes that obscure their shapely, voluptuous bodies -- we want you to flaunt your corpulent figures, let your chubby tummies protrude shamelessly over your waistbands and shake your fat asses in our faces when you walk by!

[Asker]

It is nice that people are becoming more comfortable in their bodies nowadays. I’m not someone who feels good wearing revealing clothing however, or letting my belly hang out lol. I think even if I was skinny I still wouldn’t like it!

[Inbox]

@Asker I wouldn’t date a plus sized girl because I myself stay in shape, but apart from realizing your options will skyrocket once you lose weight, I’d be worried about the health impacts long term - just eat a little less each week and you’ll start to lose weight quickly (unless you have a health condition).

[exitseven]

You sound really sincere. I might date you but I have a pretty active lifestyle and it is important to me to have a girlfriend that likes to be active. I dated somebody once and on one of our first dates we went to a concert and I had to park a Half mile away and she complained the whole time we walked. I was not pleased.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I wouldn't want to date a girl who puts zero effort into changing herself for the better, unless I was the same way.

Being fat is indicative of many life choices you've made and will continue to make. No thanks

[Seanx30]

I would date her even if she plus finder attractive or pretty enough for me to ask her sound like a great person to whith how you talk about your self 😍😍 i don't care about the belly I find it beautiful

[TheUniqueOne96]

Yep, but not one that's obese.

In the case you mentioned, body fat distribution varies, like some people just tend to store most of theirs in certain areas and it's not something that they have control over.

[Ohhi12345]

A lot of attraction does depend on the face for me, but I absolutely have been attracted to sweet, caring women who had bodies similar to yours:)

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm going to go with pass on that one. I lead an active life. I want a partner that can be there beside me to share in it. I'm sure you'll do fine though.

[DextroShade]

A woman CANNOT be pretty if she is overweight. Period. Full stop. The only guys who will take you seriously are losers who can't do better. The body positivity movement is a stupid lie.

[Nikki1989]

Most decent men would and the rest, well they don't really matter.

[HannesK]

Genuine interested why he would be decent if he would? Like what has it to do with beeing decent?

[nolookingbackx]

@HannesK Having preferences is nothing wrong in my opinion. People always had them but it also means that each person can find somebody whom they like because we differ.

[Exterminatore]

Yeah. So all you guys who won’t date obese girls are awful people. So there. Big meanies.

[nolookingbackx]

@Exterminatore It's crazy. Sounds as stupid as opinions like men who don't want to date transgender people are homophobic.

[Exterminatore]

@nolooking

Right? No one is allowed to have personal preferences different from that of the Woke folk or they will be labeled a hatemongor, xenophobe, homophobe or whatever and be bullied into compliance.

Bunch of tyrants.

[nolookingbackx]

@Exterminatore True. I am so sick of it.

[HannesK]

@nolookingbackx and @Exterminatore That is sadly so true, good points from both of you

[RyanK9b]

Typical wamen answer. Decent men.. yes we can't have preferences but god forbid we criticize women about their

[nolookingbackx]

@HannesK thanks 😊

[madhatters4]

yes i would and have. beauty for me at least tends to go beyond simple factor of weight, althought weight is a factor

[Blueeyes81]

I couldn't. She could tick every one of the boxes in what I'm looking for personality wise but the attraction would never be there. Thus we could be friends just not a relationship.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I would date an overweight girl. All my ex-girlfriends were overweight, makes no difference to me.

[Nerdvana]

I would. But It would have a lot to do with your personality. Even if you are the most beautiful woman in the world. If you are a crappy person. I wouldn't be interested. Are you single?

[Drumlin2001]

Broadly yes. A pretty face and good personality cover up a lot.

[BlackJeep]

No. I live an active lifestyle and an overweight girl couldn't keep up.

[RyanK9b]

Charisma is not that important like appearance for guy.
I would never date someone like that. Even slightly bellys are a turn off for me.

[warren_zevon]

Some guys won't be interested but that is okay.

Other guys, like myself, would love that kinda body.

Just be yourself and the right guy will come along

[Exterminatore]

Pretty and overweight are never 2 words that can be put together to describe one girl.

[clampfan101]

I’d at least consider it if she promised she was trying hard to get healthy again.

[msc545]

No, it's really unhealthy. There are really effective medical weight loss treatments available now. Maybe chat with your doctor about these?

[007kingifrit]

pretty but overweight is kinda an oxymoron , so no

[Anonymous]

No I would not. I work very hard to keep my self healthy and fit, I'm not interested in someone who doesn't do the same.

[EaterPeter]

Big belly is a deal breaker for me. Any thing that hides ladybits

[Manuel2]

Yes. Not too fat but i like plump girls pussy and tits

[Anonymous]

Not with a navel piercing. I have safety concerns.😆

[Anonymous]

I would, but not the girl in that pic. That's more than overweight, that 's borderline obese.

[Naydyonov]

No, that's too much for me

[spartan55]

Yeah, I don't think so.

[RavVid]

Sorry but I have to say it is a no for me.

[FunkyMonkee]

That's all I've ever had!

[Provingdatruth]

Fat girls are yummy 🤤

[Anonymous]

No. Hard pass.

[dudeinohio]

I'd have no problem with it.

[zebronics]

Date No, Marry Yes.🌱

[barn_stormer]

no such thing. overweight girls are all ugly

[barn_stormer]

@CleatChaser are you a fatty?

[BLP11520]

When I was single I did

[Abdulwahh]

Slightly overweight is ok

[Anonymous]

There is no such things as a pretty fat girl.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope

[Pohjolan]

Pass.

[JCT666]

Yes.

[boobliker]

yes why not

[Pterodon]

Yes I would

[Anonymous]

Yes ❤️

[Anonymous]

O no no no

[Anonymous]

Hell no.