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Anonymous
(36-45)
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You're going to hear most guys on here say no, or they look at personality first, but it really comes down to their preference.
I used to be overweight and guys had no interest in me at all. I was just their good friend or sister figure. Yet I know other women that are chubby or a little overweight and they get plenty of attention from men!
I think most women are capable of finding a guy if they're confident, carries herself well, and dresses nicely.
some guys will. No two guys like the same girl and no two girls like the same guy. Quoting Pleasure P from his song 'I Love Girls': "Love any race, I don't discriminate I like a thick girl with a big booty Small waist and the face she a cutie I like skinny girls with them A cups Long legs with them little bitty butts Yeah, I like a big girl that can cook like my mama' She know the way to a man's heart's through his stomach"
This is a tough question. Seriously. It all depends what you define as overweight. The girl in your picture isn't overweight to me. She is "thick". The girl in the image probably weights 200, but works out, so she is toned in the stomach.
-I have met girls who are 215 or so pounds... but they workout, have a flat stomach and have a nice hourglass figure.
-I have met girls who are 215 or so pounds... but they don't work out, have a beer belly and look severely out of shape.
I don't mind having an "overweight" girl. It just depends. Now... if they were over 300... no thanks. However... if they were between 200-220 and had a nice figure and kept their body in check, I am not against it.
I would as long as it is just overweight and not lazily obese. Also, I don't care if it is just hampering looks but if it affects health, I'd either make her shed weight or look elsewhere. Because in the end, if the boyfriend doesn't even bother to be honest about his girl's physique, I don't think there's actual affection involved. If the weight is due to medical conditions, I wouldn't be bothered much though I'd try to keep her healthy and well. But if it is due to laziness, better to show love, care and chide if necessary than to just feed someone's lethargy.
I mean you can't help affection, attraction, being interested in someone, even if it goes against your preference. So If I met a girl that was cool, had the personality I gelled with, and was a kind and awesome human being, but also happened to be physically overweight... I think I would be down to give things a try to see what could be you know lol.
she is kind sweet listens doesn't push things on others doesn't force her agenda doesn't act mean towards other women doesn't act mean towards other guys has little jealousy has high self-esteem but not so high that she thinks she is gorgeous when she is overweight she knows that she needs to eat better but doesn't then okay
I’d say so. I think I’d just naturally find myself attracted to her if I really like her personality and she seems pretty. He weight wouldn’t come in the way. If I think she is pretty and love her personality I’d probably still want her. And I’d be willing to help her as well if she was really struggling with her weight
Here's the deal with "overweight" girls for me: you can always weight, but you can't gain a personality." If a girl is pretty and has a great personality she'll attract me. But, if she's significantly overweight and has no interest in getting into better shape, that will "un-attract" me just as quickly. Call me shallow, but I like to be able to lift my partner up and carry her around the room if I want to, when we make love ! I'd have to be a really big dude to life the girl in the photo, but I do admit, she's really pretty !!
I go to the gym and take walks at the beach so I'll try to convince her to do the same with imposing, maybe have junk food once a week and a few things to help her lose or at least not gain more weight it would probably be hard to confront her if she's with the "I'm just big boned" or "I'm perfect the way I am" bunch that ignore the health warning and the sheer amount of ways to die from obesity and how living with diabetes is terrible and extremely inconvenient, that if you don't take your dose of insulin you'll probably die, insulin isn't expensive here like the US and some 3rd world countries but still.
@Smiley_face101 well, your right but if she was exercising it wasn't very useful if she remained fat after all the work, that's where the diet part comes in, but your still right
Yaaasss! For starters, people judge too harshly on what's "overweight." If your body fat percentage is in a pretty good spot to where your fat's not killing you, that's great and no one should condemn you for your weight. I think large women are incredibly attractive though there's certainly a cutoff point eventually.
Hi there, stranger this is my opinion and my opinion alone; I do not mind when a girl is overweight, personally I'm a sucker for personality; however if a girl is unnaturally overweight I have to admit I would be less attracted to that person, I know a girl who is over average in terms of weight, I consider her a friend but I would never, I repeat NEVER show sexual attraction to her, the reason being she is quite childish, and I think everyone can agree they do not want to date a 200 pound 7 year old.
CONCLUSION!; your weight shouldn't matter and doesn't as long as you're a respectable human being ( Sorry E. T not today)
I like big girls. Thick, plushy, plus size, bbw, chunky, marshmallow girl, fluffy, soft. Any of those descriptions that are representative of a girl who is a little bigger than "average" I'm likely to be attracted to. It's really sexy in my opinion.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
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she absolutely MUST have a good heart. if i got the chance to go on a date with dua lipa and she had an ugly persoanlity. i wouldn't stay with her very long. id leave. a woman who is kind and compassionate to others. generous, forgiving, encourages others.
That is a very good question. Personally it would depend on how overweight, if it's like dangerously overweight I don't think I would. Not because I'm shallow or think it's gross, but because of the health concerns.
There are of course other factors, like if she's smart, like the same things, funny etc. The basics for dating matter before the weight.
I have, its nice, there is more to grab on to. It feels really good to cuddle and to have sex. I would say this however, there is a limit to where its not healthy and its hard to encourage them to change diet or exercise habits. They take it too personally. So I am open to a girl who is a bit overweight but only if she weighs less than me. I am 175lbs right now.
Dating: Not. I am slim myself - because I control what I eat and how much I eat; it has something to do with self control and anti-consumerism - it is one of my basic values. Granted: for some overweight people it's not their 'fault'. Bad luck, then.
Hell yes, I would. A girl with an amazing personality will always get the most brownie points😂. And has a pretty face. That'll mean she'll have a pretty smile. She's beautiful!😍
no. because a healthy mind is in a healthy body. being overweight isn't healthy. i could see myself investing my time if i see chances of her getting within a healthy weight range but if not, then no.
i'm not saying you can't be an overall "good" person if you're overweight. i'm just saying you can't attract me if you are.
Honestly it really depends on whether they give them a chance I mean I was in love someone who wasn't necessarily thin but she was like my best friend and my love. So yes it's possible it just depends on the guy
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