Guys, would you date an overweight girl?

[Anonymous]

What if she has a pretty face?
A good personality?

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

You're going to hear most guys on here say no, or they look at personality first, but it really comes down to their preference.

I used to be overweight and guys had no interest in me at all. I was just their good friend or sister figure. Yet I know other women that are chubby or a little overweight and they get plenty of attention from men!

I think most women are capable of finding a guy if they're confident, carries herself well, and dresses nicely.

[bklynbadboy1]

I'd definitely date and overweight girl in fact I prefer it love then chubby

[ThereIsWhat]

some guys will. No two guys like the same girl and no two girls like the same guy. Quoting Pleasure P from his song 'I Love Girls': "Love any race, I don't discriminate
I like a thick girl with a big booty
Small waist and the face she a cutie
I like skinny girls with them A cups
Long legs with them little bitty butts
Yeah, I like a big girl that can cook like my mama'
She know the way to a man's heart's through his stomach"

[holograph]

Depends on how overweight. If she's likely to have a heart attack by 40 then, sorry, no, I wouldn't. But a little bit overweight is fine.

[Logorithim]

With a good personality? You bet I would.

[Logorithim]

Thanks for the MHO

[fashionguy17]

This is a tough question. Seriously. It all depends what you define as overweight. The girl in your picture isn't overweight to me. She is "thick". The girl in the image probably weights 200, but works out, so she is toned in the stomach.

-I have met girls who are 215 or so pounds... but they workout, have a flat stomach and have a nice hourglass figure.

-I have met girls who are 215 or so pounds... but they don't work out, have a beer belly and look severely out of shape.

I don't mind having an "overweight" girl. It just depends. Now... if they were over 300... no thanks. However... if they were between 200-220 and had a nice figure and kept their body in check, I am not against it.

[Maraneva]

I would as long as it is just overweight and not lazily obese. Also, I don't care if it is just hampering looks but if it affects health, I'd either make her shed weight or look elsewhere. Because in the end, if the boyfriend doesn't even bother to be honest about his girl's physique, I don't think there's actual affection involved. If the weight is due to medical conditions, I wouldn't be bothered much though I'd try to keep her healthy and well. But if it is due to laziness, better to show love, care and chide if necessary than to just feed someone's lethargy.

[Kapakani]

See this is one of those questions lol...

I mean you can't help affection, attraction, being interested in someone, even if it goes against your preference. So If I met a girl that was cool, had the personality I gelled with, and was a kind and awesome human being, but also happened to be physically overweight... I think I would be down to give things a try to see what could be you know lol.

[xkildy]

she is kind sweet listens doesn't push things on others doesn't force her agenda doesn't act mean towards other women doesn't act mean towards other guys has little jealousy has high self-esteem but not so high that she thinks she is gorgeous when she is overweight she knows that she needs to eat better but doesn't then okay

[Graydon]

I’d say so. I think I’d just naturally find myself attracted to her if I really like her personality and she seems pretty. He weight wouldn’t come in the way. If I think she is pretty and love her personality I’d probably still want her. And I’d be willing to help her as well if she was really struggling with her weight

[loveslongnails]

Here's the deal with "overweight" girls for me: you can always weight, but you can't gain a personality." If a girl is pretty and has a great personality she'll attract me. But, if she's significantly overweight and has no interest in getting into better shape, that will "un-attract" me just as quickly. Call me shallow, but I like to be able to lift my partner up and carry her around the room if I want to, when we make love ! I'd have to be a really big dude to life the girl in the photo, but I do admit, she's really pretty !!

[Lauren-green]

I've dated an overweight guy before, I still found him attractive and he had an amazing personality.

[jonesjessica812]

Was his tummy hiding his penis?

[Lauren-green]

@jonesjessica812 wtf?

[Asker]

@jonesjessica812 you're a douchebag

[IlyaTheImpaler]

😂😂😂

[The1person]

I go to the gym and take walks at the beach so I'll try to convince her to do the same with imposing, maybe have junk food once a week and a few things to help her lose or at least not gain more weight it would probably be hard to confront her if she's with the "I'm just big boned" or "I'm perfect the way I am" bunch that ignore the health warning and the sheer amount of ways to die from obesity and how living with diabetes is terrible and extremely inconvenient, that if you don't take your dose of insulin you'll probably die, insulin isn't expensive here like the US and some 3rd world countries but still.

[Smiley_face101]

I love how you just assumed she is not working out, I am overweight and workout 4 times a week. Not all overweight people are lazy...

[The1person]

@Smiley_face101 well, your right but if she was exercising it wasn't very useful if she remained fat after all the work, that's where the diet part comes in, but your still right

[Smiley_face101]

But what if she is in *the middle of a process*? I have lost 40lbs, things take time. Rome was not built in a single day.

[EpicDweeb]

Yaaasss! For starters, people judge too harshly on what's "overweight." If your body fat percentage is in a pretty good spot to where your fat's not killing you, that's great and no one should condemn you for your weight. I think large women are incredibly attractive though there's certainly a cutoff point eventually.

[HiThereStranger]

Hi there, stranger this is my opinion and my opinion alone; I do not mind when a girl is overweight, personally I'm a sucker for personality; however if a girl is unnaturally overweight I have to admit I would be less attracted to that person, I know a girl who is over average in terms of weight, I consider her a friend but I would never, I repeat NEVER show sexual attraction to her, the reason being she is quite childish, and I think everyone can agree they do not want to date a 200 pound 7 year old.

CONCLUSION!; your weight shouldn't matter and doesn't as long as you're a respectable human being ( Sorry E. T not today)

[SirRexington]

I like big girls. Thick, plushy, plus size, bbw, chunky, marshmallow girl, fluffy, soft. Any of those descriptions that are representative of a girl who is a little bigger than "average" I'm likely to be attracted to. It's really sexy in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

she absolutely MUST have a good heart. if i got the chance to go on a date with dua lipa and she had an ugly persoanlity. i wouldn't stay with her very long. id leave. a woman who is kind and compassionate to others. generous, forgiving, encourages others.

[Clarke510]

That is a very good question.
Personally it would depend on how overweight, if it's like dangerously overweight I don't think I would. Not because I'm shallow or think it's gross, but because of the health concerns.

There are of course other factors, like if she's smart, like the same things, funny etc. The basics for dating matter before the weight.

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

I have, its nice, there is more to grab on to. It feels really good to cuddle and to have sex. I would say this however, there is a limit to where its not healthy and its hard to encourage them to change diet or exercise habits. They take it too personally.
So I am open to a girl who is a bit overweight but only if she weighs less than me. I am 175lbs right now.

[andreasderjuengere]

Dating:
Not. I am slim myself - because I control what I eat and how much I eat; it has something to do with self control and anti-consumerism - it is one of my basic values.
Granted: for some overweight people it's not their 'fault'. Bad luck, then.

[IroncladCat7599]

Hell yes, I would. A girl with an amazing personality will always get the most brownie points😂. And has a pretty face. That'll mean she'll have a pretty smile. She's beautiful!😍

[Arkale]

Personally, I'm fairly skinny and see obesity as unattractive as well as a health issue.

BUT, it depends on the degree of how overweight you are.

My general rule is that if I think I could give someone a piggyback ride even 10 feet it is not an issue.

[genericname85]

no. because a healthy mind is in a healthy body. being overweight isn't healthy. i could see myself investing my time if i see chances of her getting within a healthy weight range but if not, then no.

i'm not saying you can't be an overall "good" person if you're overweight. i'm just saying you can't attract me if you are.

[TrueAquarius]

I would because people come in all shapes and sizes you never know who you are gonna like

[Asker]

Whos the female hater that keeps downvoting guys that says yes? 😏🤦‍♀️

[TrueAquarius]

I don't find weight to be that big an issue girls can be heavy and real cute.

[brandonk]

Honestly it really depends on whether they give them a chance I mean I was in love someone who wasn't necessarily thin but she was like my best friend and my love. So yes it's possible it just depends on the guy

[Alphonso1948]

I have dated some and most of them have good personalities. (They can be shy and sometimes have low self esteem). However, if you have an outgoing personality they will respond warmly. Some of my best lady friends are overweight.

[sunshine2098]

I dated an overweight guy and he was great, he’s a smart man, gentleman, goofy, great in the bedroom. I was skinnier at that time but now I’m hubbier, I’m not as comfortable as when I was skinnier but I don’t hate it completely

[Nivinxus]

Have dated a couple of them, they aren't really that much different... except when they cowgirl you. Trust me, after trying to walk, it felt like my legs couldn't handle the weight of my body after that.

[viaamtrak]

Weight is such a transient thing. Girls who look skinny at 21 may get to be large at 41 and vice versa. I have gained and lost weight many times in my life, so I see it as a non issue withthe girls i like.

[Anonymous]

What is on pic that is as fat as it gets anything over NO!

When she has double or more chins, hanging belly and you get the pic just makes me sick to think how she looks naked...

Girl on pic is good looking, I would date her.

I'm gym goer have six pack good cardio and all that, just to let you know.

[Sonorous]

Not unless she planned on getting back to a healthy weight. Plus, I'm just more physically attracted to skinnier bodies. 👌

[TsarUrsus]

Thick thighs save lives. But tbh its personality for me.

[TadCurious]

Yes I would, if by "overweight" you mean a plus size girl like the attractive girl in your pic.

[Meditatingsquirrel79]

That picture reminds me of my crush. Really, I never talked to her though. I am an Introvert. She was red hair, beautiful smile, and HOT. She was a PETA lady. At the corner each day asking people to save the whales thing.

[needadvice1245]

Yeah that's my preference I wish I had a girlfriend who looked like that on the pic I'm not ashamed about it.

[Anonymous]

Love this type of question.
It's a Yes or No question.
But then people get set off when people say it depends or No. Everyone can voice their own opinion.
I say No on all counts.
I'm 5'10" 160 lbs. I'm not dating someone over my weight.
My current girlfriend is 135ish.

[staycharm]

I genuinely feel one should not decide to date according to physical appeal alone. I would say, it's all a matter of being compatible.

[AceXxMace]

I'd argue that no, physical shouldn't be fully the deciding factor. But it plays a part in it, and definitely should. In the social aspect of our lives, we wanna be seen a certain way and with certain people, we cannot. Everyone has someone out there that thinks they're the bee's knees. It's better to know someone wants to be seen with you rather than finding out they don't spend time with you in public because of that reason. So the physical aspect of dating is important. Also, it determines what your child looks like. Nobody wants a face only a mother could love. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[OrangeBoy2]

Yes, and what I care more is what she have in her head.

[Bluebot]

If she would work on herself to get skinny/normal then yes. But if she sees nothing wrong with being overweight then no

[Snowycat]

Being overweight myself usually men take the first step online sometimes I feel like they’re just ashamed to be attracted to bigger women so they just don’t approach in person

[Cowboy6666]

I don't mind overweight all you need is a good behavior open mindedness

[Snowycat]

Thank you!

[PrincetonKing]

You do know he's just saying that for quick sex

[Nick568]

I'm not overweight and I've dated bigger girls and I found them hot. Definitely not ashamed. Morbid obesity however is a no.

[cth96190]

No, I would not be interested in a female who was significantly overweight.
I am turned off by fat.
There is also a list of health problems for fat people and it says something about her psychology.

[Nick568]

Obese would be a no tbh. But girls who are chubby can still be super hot! Some of my favorite girls in bed were a bit chubby... More to grab on to🔥🔥🔥😂

[LeeLadDaBadLad]

She gotta have a great personality and a gorgeous face however sometimes I overthink and just get a little off put if they are badly over weight

[AaronKrieger]

I would, but it depends on how she holds her weight, how overweight she is, and whether it's just all muscle or just fat.

[Browneye57]

If you're fat and you don't want to be then eat less, or better, and move more. You'll lose the excess weight.
If you're not then quit worrying about it and just rock whatcha got.

Nobody is really into FAT. Period.

[burlen]

@Browneye57. "Nobody is really into FAT. Period. 🤦🏽‍♂️ Are you speaking for yourself or on behalf of the male population?

[Browneye57]

@burlen - I don't deal with the fringe. Evidently that's where you go. Whateve's. TTFN

[tenukitanuki]

those are the two things I look for in a big woman, cause I already know she has front back and sides.

[GD360]

If she cute in the face and isn't shaped like a basketball

[YHL6965]

If overweight as in thick, yes. If overweight as in fat, it depends how fat. I don't mind BBWs, especially if she has an awesome personality.

[Cobalt24]

It really depends on what "overweight" is. If its land whale status then no, but if it's just chubby then yeah why not.

[TripleAce]

For someone long term I prefer her smaller than me lol and if she’s thick curvy a bit bigger than me is fine

[Cuppo_Mode]

Actually I won't date any one, becouse I don't want to be in a relationship.

[dragoblack]

This is a matter a preference in attaction. Everyones preferences are different, i personally find the feeling of fat a huge turn away and im not going to force myself to hurt her heart and mine, that's just self-abusive

[DanBell]

Absolutely I prefer a girl with some extra around the middle.

[Ripper_E]

Absolutely.
Just because a girl is slim or in shape doesn't make her attractive and the opposite is also true.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Oh hell yeah, the wife is chubby and i love it, every single pound of it :d

[blkgold33]

If she like the size as the girl in pic then that fine with me

[SjE78]

Have done about 3 times and I would do again if her personality was good and we clicked

[clampfan101]

If she was trying to get back to a healthy weight. (She doesn’t have to look hot - just healthy.)
Personality matters most, and what I want most in looks is a pretty face and long pretty hair. :)

[IlyaTheImpaler]

I would, maybe we can go to the gym together. My physique is less than ideal too

[Smiley_face101]

Plot twist: she goes to the gym

[IlyaTheImpaler]

@Smiley_face101 I will, too, some day :)

[MrMilti]

There is a limit, what a pretty face or an awesome personality can compensate.

[SlothySlob]

By US definition of BMI, a girl who is 25, 5'8", if she's +165 lbs, she's overweight. So yes.

[sean1234]

maybe and as long as she truly wants to lose weight and thinks she can, perhaps with my help even.

[SentientBrick]

Ill answer your question with a question : "would you date someone your not sexually attracted to?"

[AdmiralBailey]

Omg, I just drove past this light skinned chick... thicker than a bowl of grits <3
~Mr Bails Extraordinaire

[CassMi]

Overweight yes, obese no. I don't mind a girl having a bit more weight because I think it looks healthier than the ultra slim look, however if she was to be obese then I'd have to draw the line sorry.