I have dated some and most of them have good personalities. (They can be shy and sometimes have low self esteem). However, if you have an outgoing personality they will respond warmly. Some of my best lady friends are overweight.
I dated an overweight guy and he was great, he’s a smart man, gentleman, goofy, great in the bedroom. I was skinnier at that time but now I’m hubbier, I’m not as comfortable as when I was skinnier but I don’t hate it completely
Have dated a couple of them, they aren't really that much different... except when they cowgirl you. Trust me, after trying to walk, it felt like my legs couldn't handle the weight of my body after that.
Weight is such a transient thing. Girls who look skinny at 21 may get to be large at 41 and vice versa. I have gained and lost weight many times in my life, so I see it as a non issue withthe girls i like.
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What is on pic that is as fat as it gets anything over NO!
When she has double or more chins, hanging belly and you get the pic just makes me sick to think how she looks naked...
Girl on pic is good looking, I would date her.
I'm gym goer have six pack good cardio and all that, just to let you know.
That picture reminds me of my crush. Really, I never talked to her though. I am an Introvert. She was red hair, beautiful smile, and HOT. She was a PETA lady. At the corner each day asking people to save the whales thing.
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Love this type of question. It's a Yes or No question. But then people get set off when people say it depends or No. Everyone can voice their own opinion. I say No on all counts. I'm 5'10" 160 lbs. I'm not dating someone over my weight. My current girlfriend is 135ish.
I'd argue that no, physical shouldn't be fully the deciding factor. But it plays a part in it, and definitely should. In the social aspect of our lives, we wanna be seen a certain way and with certain people, we cannot. Everyone has someone out there that thinks they're the bee's knees. It's better to know someone wants to be seen with you rather than finding out they don't spend time with you in public because of that reason. So the physical aspect of dating is important. Also, it determines what your child looks like. Nobody wants a face only a mother could love. 🤷🏻♂️
No, I would not be interested in a female who was significantly overweight. I am turned off by fat. There is also a list of health problems for fat people and it says something about her psychology.
Being overweight myself usually men take the first step online sometimes I feel like they’re just ashamed to be attracted to bigger women so they just don’t approach in person
If you're fat and you don't want to be then eat less, or better, and move more. You'll lose the excess weight. If you're not then quit worrying about it and just rock whatcha got.
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I have dated some and most of them have good personalities. (They can be shy and sometimes have low self esteem). However, if you have an outgoing personality they will respond warmly. Some of my best lady friends are overweight.
I dated an overweight guy and he was great, he’s a smart man, gentleman, goofy, great in the bedroom. I was skinnier at that time but now I’m hubbier, I’m not as comfortable as when I was skinnier but I don’t hate it completely
Have dated a couple of them, they aren't really that much different... except when they cowgirl you. Trust me, after trying to walk, it felt like my legs couldn't handle the weight of my body after that.
Weight is such a transient thing. Girls who look skinny at 21 may get to be large at 41 and vice versa. I have gained and lost weight many times in my life, so I see it as a non issue withthe girls i like.
What is on pic that is as fat as it gets anything over NO!
When she has double or more chins, hanging belly and you get the pic just makes me sick to think how she looks naked...
Girl on pic is good looking, I would date her.
I'm gym goer have six pack good cardio and all that, just to let you know.
Not unless she planned on getting back to a healthy weight. Plus, I'm just more physically attracted to skinnier bodies. 👌
Thick thighs save lives. But tbh its personality for me.
Yes I would, if by "overweight" you mean a plus size girl like the attractive girl in your pic.
That picture reminds me of my crush. Really, I never talked to her though. I am an Introvert. She was red hair, beautiful smile, and HOT. She was a PETA lady. At the corner each day asking people to save the whales thing.
Love this type of question.
It's a Yes or No question.
But then people get set off when people say it depends or No. Everyone can voice their own opinion.
I say No on all counts.
I'm 5'10" 160 lbs. I'm not dating someone over my weight.
My current girlfriend is 135ish.
I genuinely feel one should not decide to date according to physical appeal alone. I would say, it's all a matter of being compatible.
I'd argue that no, physical shouldn't be fully the deciding factor. But it plays a part in it, and definitely should. In the social aspect of our lives, we wanna be seen a certain way and with certain people, we cannot. Everyone has someone out there that thinks they're the bee's knees. It's better to know someone wants to be seen with you rather than finding out they don't spend time with you in public because of that reason. So the physical aspect of dating is important. Also, it determines what your child looks like. Nobody wants a face only a mother could love. 🤷🏻♂️
Yes, and what I care more is what she have in her head.
If she would work on herself to get skinny/normal then yes. But if she sees nothing wrong with being overweight then no
No, I would not be interested in a female who was significantly overweight.
I am turned off by fat.
There is also a list of health problems for fat people and it says something about her psychology.
Yeah that's my preference I wish I had a girlfriend who looked like that on the pic I'm not ashamed about it.
Obese would be a no tbh. But girls who are chubby can still be super hot! Some of my favorite girls in bed were a bit chubby... More to grab on to🔥🔥🔥😂
She gotta have a great personality and a gorgeous face however sometimes I overthink and just get a little off put if they are badly over weight
Being overweight myself usually men take the first step online sometimes I feel like they’re just ashamed to be attracted to bigger women so they just don’t approach in person
I don't mind overweight all you need is a good behavior open mindedness
Thank you!
You do know he's just saying that for quick sex
I'm not overweight and I've dated bigger girls and I found them hot. Definitely not ashamed. Morbid obesity however is a no.
I would, but it depends on how she holds her weight, how overweight she is, and whether it's just all muscle or just fat.
If you're fat and you don't want to be then eat less, or better, and move more. You'll lose the excess weight.
If you're not then quit worrying about it and just rock whatcha got.
Nobody is really into FAT. Period.
@Browneye57. "Nobody is really into FAT. Period. 🤦🏽♂️ Are you speaking for yourself or on behalf of the male population?
@burlen - I don't deal with the fringe. Evidently that's where you go. Whateve's. TTFN