Guys, Would a guy date a girl that is overweight?

[Anonymous]

How many guys would date a girl that is overweight? If she has a good personality but is overweight and has several rolls of stomach hanging would you date her?

Yes?

No?

[Ditto626]

I'm a fat guy and as long as she doesn't care about my weight then I won't care about hers. But I am working on losing it.

Side note, I think it's a little hypocritical of heavy women not wanting heavy men. Like the way they say it is bad. Like you can have a preference but they act like we're disgusting because we aren't thin with a six pack.

[Asker]

Yes I agree, it is very hypocritical. If they have the same problem they shouldn't be judging others. Thank you for the opinion:)

[Ditto626]

You're welcome hun. 😊

[genericname85]

generally yes. there's a crowd for every show. for me personally, it highly depends on "how much overweight" you mean.

[Asker]

Like overweight to where they can grab like 6 handfuls

[genericname85]

6 hand fulls? you mean 6 hand full of muffin top or what?

[Asker]

Yes like 6 rolls of fat

[genericname85]

yeah that would be too much for me personally. but you know it's not that much to get rid of if you wanna work on yourself. having said that: i don't generally date people on behalf of the "potential" they might have but on behalf of what they are. i don't know if they'll lose weight, so i'm not gonna take the risk of trusting that they will.

[Asker]

I honestly don't know what it's called. I don't know what is considered overweight bc I have never been, but I was asking bc I am trying to prove a point to a friend that there is a person for everyone. And that there are people that don't care much about weight

[genericname85]

when in doubt, just go with the bmi. there's categories attached to bmi. it's not the most accurate, cause it doesn't really account for muscle mass. but it at least gives you a rough estimate. like are you "overweight" according to bmi? or actually above that if you calculate it?

[genericname85]

i personally don't care "much" about weight. i like a girl with a bit of chub to her. but there's a point at which i think it's too much and i feel less attraction. it's hard to define that point. i just decide from case to case. you know i'm interested in my partners long term health. and obesity is surely not a predictor of good health.

[Gray-Wisp]

If a woman is obese and working out and really showing that they want to change... maybe even made some noticeable progress... yes. It shows that they can really commit something, like a relationship.

If a woman is obese and says "I am beautiful and healthy the way I am." absolutely not. It would show that they're lazy and will choose their feelings over the reality being a land whale isn't attractive and is objectively unhealthy.

I specified obese and not fat because you said "several rolls" but it's mostly true for fat too.

[boombastik]

Big girls are like mopeds. They are fun 2 ride but you don't want your friends to catch you.
Seriously I could care less what people think but it's got more about natural selection. I want to find the healthiest mate possible to reproduce with. I want my kids having the healthiest genes possible, especially with big pharma's attack on humanity.

[Asker]

Yes, that makes sense.

[Browneye57]

Nobody likes fat honey. If you are, then do something about it. If you aren't, then quit whining about it.

[Asker]

Yes I agree nobody likes fat. And I'm not fat, but I was just asking out of curiosity and to help someone understand something. I'm sorry if I made it seem I was whining.

[Matthew2222]

Bullshit, some guys do, you don't speak for everyone ass hole.

[Browneye57]

@Matthew2222 - whiny cunt much? Fuck off.

[Browneye57]

@Asker - Which changes nothing I said. Don't worry about everybody else, cuz you can't change them anyway.

[Matthew2222]

I can see you are threatened by someone challenging your beliefs.

[Browneye57]

@Matthew2222 - pfft. You're an image in your own mind. Now bugger off and go bug someone else. Seriously. Or you'll get the boot.

[Matthew2222]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pz0XhzkeDIQ

[Asker]

I'm not wanting to change anybody. I was just curious, ik I can't change anybody

[Browneye57]

The truth is, and the answer to your question, is that guys are FAR more interested in your level of attraction and desire for THEM. Some extra pounds doesn't even register. Besides, women have a higher body-fat content than men just as a matter of build. It's what makes them soft and squeezable. "More cushion for the pushin'." :)

[slatyb]

Overweight? Yes, I have dated a couple. Several rolls of stomach? That sounds like morbid obesity. Probably not.

[scott04sa22]

I would but they get into relationships more quickly

[Ironic_Method]

No. I want to date someone that takes care of themselves.

[xb1345]

If she's overweight that just means there's more of her to xxx

[mike5150]

I would if she was working on it.

[Anonymous]

a little overweight is fine but rolls are gross

[Asker]

Yes, I agree.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely would date her.