Do guys like bigger girls?

[Anonymous]

This has been making me wonder for a while. I have been best friends with with this girl since we were in 9th grade. She is very overweight and I mean like 280 lbs. I have never understood why but she always dates really attractive guys. She is not ugly per say but I just don't understand. I mean I stay in shape and am very healthy and she has more dates than I do. I am not mean to people and I don't dress sloppy or anything and as far as I know I don't smell weird or anything. I also get compliments from guys saying I look nice and stuff. So I am not understanding why this is. Can anyone give me some insight?

[Anonymous]

280 f***ing pounds? Really? Wow. I just found out I'm 220 and I can't even imagine pulling an OK looking guy and I'm pretty tall. I think this girl must have some type of dirt on these guys and is blackmailing them, or they have heard rumors that she does nasty sh*t in bed and they want to be her boyfriend to experience it. I'm sorry I just don't believe a guy can truly want to date someone that big for genuine reasons. Not attractive guys anyway. Well she probably is giving them money and she's their sugar mama because I know that's how a lot of these big chicks are getting hot guys.

[whattothink]

As far as I know (as a bigger girl) the guys I dated were very attractive. Like we would get stares from girls walking down the street as they followed them with their mouths open. And they always told me my personality and confidence was crazy sexy. Its not always about looks. They fade but a great personality is forever.

[Asker]

Yeah she is very confident but so am I. I try though not to come off as too confident though because I don't want to seem like one of those people who thinks too highly of myself. I now that can be a big turn off to guys.

[Love2Ball]

Some guys enjoy girls that big but I like average girls or maybe a little bit overweight(pleasantly plump)

[DocClassic]

shes prob approaching more guys than you which really increases her chances. per se

[Bella5698]

Im a bigger girl and I always have been but when I was younger I nervre got dates because I always thoguht less of myself. When I hit a certain age I became very confident and got more dates. Especially older guys cause they said confidence and a good personality is one of the beest things a girl could EVER have. So be happy for the girl.

[AltTech]

Sometimes, it literally is about the personality. I'd rather be with a bigger girl with a heart of gold and a stunning blond heartless bitch.

[Amorina]

I'm a bigger girl and I never get guys. Be happy for her.

[SnackG]

Not that big. That's really really big for a girl.

[moviedude714]

too big for me