Fat, no. The women in my family have a history of that, and that's a negative association that I can't stand.
Muscular: great as long as she doesn't seem like she could really beat me up (but that shouldn't be possible without Performance enhancing drugs) and doesn't go bragging about her physique.
Tall: I'd really prefer a girl who was shorter than me, but being my height is okay too. Taller than me is a no go because I'm a perfectionist, and I'm already bothered that a lot of guys are taller than me (despite me being a little more than average height at 5'10") and I can't do anything to improve my height!
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I don't mind it IF their lifestyle isn't seriously affected by it. I LOVE being active, going cycling, walks, swimming and whatever. If they're not into that sort of thing then I wouldn't pursue a relationship. If they're just a little inactive and overweight but don't mind trying out a few sports occasionally then hell yeah, you do you, I can be down with that.
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Some do, some don't. I am in the "some don't" camp.
It's not as black and white as you present it, I don't mind a big girl, but I also do have my limits. Like a morbidly obese girl could be considered "big" but that's not attractive in any way. A slightly chubby girl could also be considered "big" by some. And that can actually be somewhat attractive.
What do you mean by big? If you mean tall, yes, unless the guy is insecure about his own height. Height has no effect on attractiveness or anything really. However if you mean noticeably overweight, no. Most people don't want to date someone who doesn't care about their body or health. If you are that way because of a medical condition, that's different and unfortunate. The reality is that the vast majority of people don't find obesity attractive.
The taller the better. I once dated a girl that was 6 feet tall. Talk about amazing. No bending over for kissing. No can you get that down for me. The best part we were the same size we could wear each others pants and shit
So yeah big girls rockYep!
No, nothing personal and I'm a larger build but for me... it's just not attractive. Maybe a bit of a hypocrite but heck!
I like big girls of certain kinds - I like 'em to have a recognizable waist, even if they're thickset and have big knockers and arses (and hips and thighs). I'm not so keen on belly flab.
When a girl says "big girl" that means fat.
Nope. I can work with them, but there is no way I would date them.height or weight both fine by me. so long as she is healthy and happy with how she looks / feels about herself.
I'm going to say no because because what usually hides behind "big" is actually "morbidly obese". I love thick girls and some BBW to an extent (only some, it depends on their body shape) but I don't like obesity.
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