Do guys like bigger girls?

[Anonymous]

It seems so rare these days, I'm talking like about from 160-215 lbs., somewhere along the lines of that. I am overweight, I'm really curvy (shapely), and I have a nice attitude, but because of the whole weight thing I am afraid of being single forever! I am trying my hardest to lose weight, I really am, but you think that guys would like my body?

I'm 16 and I know teen guys are a nightmare at this age, but I still fear no one will love me!

[Anonymous]

It depends. If you have a pretty face, take care of yourself and dress in a way that flatters you you can still attract some guys. America is in the middle of an obesity epidemic. 60% of us are overweight (guys included, it's not just women that are fat) and 160-215 lbs. is not superfat unless you're 4'8. Now if you were 300 lbs. and super plus size yeah you would most likely attract little to no guys.

But the thing is if you lose weight you can broaden your options and attract more guys.

But whether you lose the weight or not 160-215 lbs. is not big enough to worry about nobody ever being attracted to you. You're in high school so a lot of guys want trophy girlfriends to impress their friends, or may like bigger girls but are too afraid to admit it so you're up against some resistance.

[lulu1423]

hunny one of my best friends is going through the same thing. and guys at this age are scum and mean. and they want skinny big boobed b!tches. and it is really rare to find an honest guy who still holds the door open for you or compliments u, but I say its their loss. be stronge and be thankful for everything you do have. ;)

[lilcam]

i'm 16 in 2 weeks and I love big girls. you won't be single forever. I promise. one day you will find a someone who loves you for who you are. just make a promise to me and you never to change because to people like me you are perfect.

[rdxhai]

No most guys will not enjoy a really overweight or obese body, some will sure, but not most. Just keep working at losing it and you will be good.