Polls: Dating

Inspired by this question but with a slight difference So, is me being single for my whole life a red flag? So, what's the draw back of being single for as long as I have?

There are people around my age who have never been in serious relationships in their lives. do you automatically assume something must be wrong with them?

I made an account a little over a week ago. I've had some matches and likes, mainly on the first day. Then they went down a lot, from what I heard that's the norm because of the algorithm. There are days that I have a lot of fun watching and chatting with my matches but there are others where I feel a little disappointed because I don't get likes. Curiously, I have done better with some girls with whom I did not match and put their ig in the description.

In any case, there are two things that I really like. First, I feel that it is useful since I have contacted people with relatively similar tastes to mine. And I don't consider myself a person with typical tastes so I appreciate that. Second, exposing myself has made me more motivated to go back to the gym and look good. I spent a long time neglecting my physique and I barely went out, even my social networks were barely occupied. Now I worry about it again.

Among the negative is the fear that people I know will see me, I already saw some girls from my university and school, also a co-worker of my sister.

What is your experience with that app? is it more positive or negative?

Guys what’s your preferred height for your girlfriend? Take the poll below

just imagine. maybe he would die from a heart attack?

Girl 1: she is racist but is nice. What happened was we got into politics and black people and Mexicans got brought up. She said a lot of bad things. Said the literal n word and said Mexicans almost kidnapped her to rape her but that was a lie. I could tell. Other than that, she is very nice! She says this in private and has a black friend. She has a dream to become an FBI agent. Is working through it and is almost a police officer.

Girl 2: she is easily triggered. She has a very short fuse that is easily broken. She will blow up. She is also very nice but her temper worries me. She is a ticking bomb 💣 ready to explode. She works at the zoo.

These are literally my only options!!! I don’t want to be single anymore.

Is this what I must do? Work so hard God is proud of me and blesses me.

I must hit the gym hard and develop physicality, I must get as rich as possible, I must become as confident, charismatic and charming as possible, I must get cool interests, I must develop high social status. I must develop good style and groom myself so well.

I need to be the BEST competitor to secure a beautiful girl for a long married life.
A girl just needs to be pretty and sweet, a man must have so much more. I need work so hard. It might take 6-12 years but it’s worth it.
Don’t forget:

• Only 40% of men in human history procreated whereas 80% of women did.
• Social media has created an ultra hyper competitive environment where super high up men message 1000s of pretty women each in random villages. She’ll feel like a queen when she’s 20 and not done anything with her life. Women get endless attention, a girl can be rude and still get a guy. This is true.

After studying history

It's starting to look like the two can't Co exist.