Polls: Dating

I love the smell of cigarettes

******Your Partner or Even an EX Partner, Files a Harassment Report to FB Administrators because YOU "TAGGED Him Incessantly" with "Not TERRIBLY AWFUL" things on Your Posts. Things you BOTH had Shared back then. Any Thoughts? Backstabber? I ended up Getting banned from Posting Important Posts I was Effortlessly Going Through, For the WHOLE 24 Hour Day!!! I was Angry at Him but He apologized. Still, What a Thing to DO!!! Any thoughts? xx

There’s a guy I met online 6 years ago that lives in England. We dated long distance for a few months before he wanted to end things due to mental health. Throughout the next few years, we don’t talk much besides here and there like when he wishes me a happy birthday. We reconnected more last year and things were going great. We texted and called more often to sharing a British show to watch together. We disconnected again since he got busy with school a little but reconnected earlier this year (mid-June). We texted still, and he disclosed that he wanted a future with me by promising each other that we would see one another within the next couple of years. I was fine with it since I had nothing to lose, and he seemed to be ready for a beginning with me finally.

however, over time, his texts seemed to get a little more rude and disinterested. I didn’t talk about it since last I asked about him being sure about us, he got turned off. Last night, he disclosed that he wanted to put the relationship on “pause” since he’s starting a job that’ll require more effort but also didn’t even see the point of being with me due to not liking me anymore romantically. Also, not having the “funds” anymore for us meeting up. I was confused since the promise was made somewhat recently, and makes me believe he wanted to just not be alone rather than enjoy being alone. I’m not sure..

either way, I told him if he ends the relationship now that he won’t have a chance with me in the future since I’m not some revolving door that’s at his disposal for his convenience to which he understood. I’m not sure what to do about this ordeal or how to feel about it besides hating that he’s basically wasted at least a couple of years of my time knowing he was unsure anyway. What do you think?

About me:

1. I've had sex with one man about 2 years ago from a serious relationship that ended. Since then I haven't had sex and if I ever do its to build a future with the person. (So my number is 1)

2. I'm not religious but more spiritual.

3. I want to have kids in the future and stay at home with them till they turn around 4 years old. Then they can start kindergarden.

4. I have diploma in taking care of children from courses to be used in Kindergarden.

5. I do not drink alcohol, smoke or take drugs and I never party.

Pleace be honest. Ask questions if you want.

Do you usually kiss your date the first time

Let’s say she’s pretty, sexy, fun and adventurous. Cooks, cleans and is amazing in bed but has mostly boy hobbies. Like she’s a black belt in judo, a brown belt in BJJ, a competitive shooter, former D1 athlete, better at video games than you, can fix her own car, build her own furniture and has a masters degree in mechanical engineering.

Would you date a woman who is a PhD student yes or nah?

He ate all of what I made. Then we cuddled, laughed and watched the office and and gave him head scratches.

I chatted this this guy 2 months ago for 2 weeks, my schedule was really busy so i couldnt really date him. I didn't really ghost him i just wasn't as interested at the time because i was busy with a new job and moving places, also i didn't have the time to date. Then we drifted apart. I was the last message where I could have responded but just left it. So we didn't end on bad terms. I'm sort of in a place now where I have time, and I did have a connection with them, again just no time to take the whole thing seriously.

Is it weird if I reach out again?