Polls: Dating

What kind of date is your favorite to go on with your girlfriend/SO? Which is most likely to turn you on?

He apparently mentioned it to my boyfriend, he’s also cool and all but it’s still suspicious.

nerd here means a person who has hobby of playing video games and watching anime or kdrama, or it can mean girls who are still into Disney, weebs reading webtoon all days and jamming with k-pop songs... it's got nothing to do with being topper of the class or introversion, i am just asking this as i fall in ALL of the above and i wanna see how many people judge their partners based on hobbies alone

I'm interested in this guy buy his taking so long to reply, organise something with me. But then we get along well.

Is he just not into me, we met on an app.

Saw this in a [pretty stupid] conversation between two male friends. They're in their 30s but act like they're in their 20s. One was about to text the girl he has been seeing, ask her out again. His friend stopped him to give him advice on what to say, not say. It inspired this question.

The scenario is between a guy and a girl (but you can do same sex couple if you want. But this is about gender roles and preferences.) They are not strangers. They know each other, but not that well. They have just started casually dating. They both like each other.

But... the guy is reluctant [will not] commit. He's anticipating her wanting this. He's trying to play it cool. But he wants to keep dating her, having sex with her, have her in his life. "She's cool, and she's chill, and she's level-headed. But I don't want to fast-track anything." So his friend says to him, "Just tell her, 'Look, maybe I'll get there one day, but I don't want to hold you back from living your life.'" Typical commitmentphobe player b. s. But anyway, thought I'd make a question out of it.

What I'm getting at here is if there's a majority preference toward: politeness, or assertiveness, or something else. And do guys and girls have a different, or the same, idea about this. And, girls, does the assertiveness turn you on/do you like it, or does it turn you off?

It'd be for some snacks/appetizers as well, not just drinks, but for simplicity sake I didn't write that in each multiple choice because it would be too many words. This isn't a formal or fancy dinner date, but there will be food, so don't focus on that. And for those who don't drink alcohol, you can sub in any other beverage. It's not important. But it is a date, and there is sexual tension between them.

Feel free to be honest. This is just for research.