Polls: Dating

***I realize we ALL say Things in the Heat of the Night and Fight. lol!!! xxoo

27F, you always hear things like no men are good etc. I’m sure men say similar things about women. But anytime something doesn’t work out (usually doesn’t) when I meet with a guy from a dating app, I usually assume that they’re already onto the next one & forgot about me very quickly. I always feel like most men already have their ducks lined up, maybe are quick to just fulfill their sexual urges. It’s as if I’m not ever gonna cross their mind again, when or should I say if they follow up with me again, it usually doesn’t go well. Men, what are you thoughts on a woman’s mindset with dating and/or casual sex? Feel super disposable?

I’ve spoken to him on and off, we spoke initially through a dating app and then moved over to IG years ago. It’s fuzzy to me, we didn’t talk that much he’d reply to my stories but we spoke on the phone for the first time fall 2021. We really don’t speak that often, I posted story about playing UNO through app and he said he’d play with me. He’s 3 hrs behind, we began msging about it Friday while he said he was at work, he didn’t reply until midnight Saturday. I couldn’t find him so I gave him my username Saturday morning to add me, he saw the message a few hours after and hasn’t replied back to me.

TL;DR: should I jump the gun & assume I was ghosted?

Let's say you meet someone. You guys get along well, you have things in common, and he/she is just a dope ass person. BUT, they have some fucked up teeth. I mean, like busted AF. Could you look past that?

I personally love pretty smiles and nice teeth. It's a big thing for me. I wanna say that I would be able to look past it, but idkkkk lol.

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St dwynwen's day is exactly the same as St Valentine's day but with a female saint. Like Valentine's day it's pretty commercialized but you won't struggle so much to get a restaurant table.
In other words you get two chances a year to impress your lady. So how are you going to win my heart tomorrow (25th)

27F I will say I’m unlucky, I don’t think dating is this hard for the average person. In fact, most people have it easy as long as they’re attractive. Since I’ve been on dating apps on and off for years, that’s the only way I’ve met people but I just never catch a break. The one time I saw someone short term, it felt like settling because no one else gave me attention & he wasn’t physically attractive to me but treated me okay. I always get pursued by the ones I don’t want, if they’re attractive they’re dicks or there’s no connection OR if they’re good looking but decent personality they’re too short for me.

Sometimes the guys on dating apps message and we speak for a little while, but things fizzle out. Out of no where in some cases, they reach out again and come across as unstable or a total asshole wanting to rub something in my face. Look at last post, is this standard of dating apps or am I unlucky?

TL; DR: Typical with dating apps or just bad luck in love?

27F Back in Dec, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We were in contact via Instagram messages. Later in wk we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie. Eventually I asked he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. I was not as bubbly at movies compared to when we first met up, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. When we first met, we ended with a hug. When we spoke on phone, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but at movies it was odd, he sent a message after saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him. Flash fwd to yesterday, he sends a message on IG with a reference to Xbox exclusives, we used to be back & forth about console wars. He continued to follow me on IG but I removed him when he called it quits, why is he reaching out again?

TL;DR: Am I reading into it too much? Just friendly banter?

I'm seeing a gentleman who is perfect in nearly every way. He makes me laugh, smile, and holds me when I cry. The biggest issue is I'm not sure if I'm sexually attracted to him. He's got a mild dad bod, and as a former gym rat, I prefer a fit man. The sex is great, but there's more flesh than I'm used to holding onto. I'm a fairly small woman (5'6, 105lbs) and sometimes feel overwhelmed at the size difference (he's 6'2, 200-something lbs). Thoughts?

This question is not referring to people you were already really attracted to.
This also isn't referring to exercise, makeup or surgery. I'm really asking about if a great personality has significantly and positively affected how you viewed someone romantically in an instan.

Ex. You thought someone was a 7/10 in attractiveness and then in an instant became an 8.5/10 or higher.

Movie example:
In the Notebook, Ally didn't initially see Noah as a romantic prospect at all, but once she saw his personality, she knew she wanted him.