Polls: Dating

I know that everyone has different opinions but I want to know your preference. do include the reason of your choice. thank you 💕

Would you ever find interest in a girl dressed in boy clothes and a girl with short hair? Think of it as if this person had a pretty attractive body and a cute face. To give you an idea of what I mean;

This question is really about whether you value beauty (thinness) or health (absence of illness). They are not necessarily the same. Someone who refuses to eat vegetables may eat an unbalanced diet, but because of a restrictive diet, that someone may be very thin.

"I thought dating was going to be the fun part, the easiest part... I was in for a mountain of rejections, but to be a guy I had to get out there...

"No, thanks"...

Simple enough, right? A brush-off. No biggie. But as I turned away and slumped back across the room toward our table, I felt like the outcast kid in the lunchroom who trips and dumps his tray on the linoleum in front of the whole school.

"Rejection is a staple for guys," said Curtis, laughing as I crumpled into my seat with a humiliated sigh. "Get used to it."...

[There is a] monumental power of female sexuality [that gives us an] immense advantage... over men. Dating women as a man was a lesson in female power... I saw... their superiority, their accusatory smiles, their entitlement to choose or dash me with a fingertip, an execution so... effortless, it made the defeats and even the successes unbearably humiliating. Typical male power feels by comparison like a blunt instrument, its salvos and field strategies laughably remedial next to the damage a woman can do with a single cutting word: no.

Dating women was the hardest thing I had to do as Ned... I have never felt more vulnerable to total strangers, never more socially defenceless than in my clanking suit of borrowed armour.

But then, I guess maybe that's one of the secrets of manhood that no man tells if he can help it. Every man's armour is borrowed and 10 sizes too big, and beneath it he's naked and insecure and hoping you won't see.

That, maybe, was the last twist of my adventure. I passed in a man's world not because my mask was so real, but because the world of men was a masked ball. Eventually I realised that my disguise was the one thing I had in common with every guy in the room."

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2006/mar/18/gender.bookextracts

Accurate for you?

I was at a tournament on my bf's birthday but I found out he got together with 5 of his guy friends and 3 girls because of a school project and apparently he barely knew the girls he invited to his house. Like they've talked before but aren't close at all.

One of his friends told me at the end everyone left but this one girl named Alyssa and I asked my boyfriend if it was true and he said she passed out and slept on his bed and I asked him where he slept and he was like "on my bed but we didn't do anything". I trust him but this feels like it could count as cheating? I think? Since he basically got in bed with another girl.

And I should mention that before this thing my girlfriends told me that he often looks at this Alyssa girl when it's just him and her. I never noticed him looking at another girl when he's with me but my friends say that when I'm not around he would look at her.

I was just wondering. Since I'm a tall girl! I'm technically 5 foot 8 but I'm closer to 5 foot 9. I know some guys don't like my height but I don't care about them! Some guys like tall girls. I also think that some short guys are super cute! I mean I like to say "Chubby chubby choooo" while squishing their cheeks (not the bottom cheeks lol) I don't really care about height but I was wondering who has it worse? Tall girls or short guys? (I wouldn't mind dating a shorter guy... just my parents would...)