Young women 18-24 age, if a young guy is bald, completely shaven so from hair loss, does that kill any potential attractiveness physically he has?

[beaves11]

I shave my head from hair loss and I'm only 19, it's never bugged me much I pull it off well but I see guys on here asking questions about baldness a lot. But in their favor it does seem a lot of girls act like baldness is a deal breaker. That surprised me as someone who otherwise is considered attractive facially and have a runners build etc that I can't be considered attractive just because I happen to not have hair, I'm not saying you prefer bald I'm just asking if you think a young bald guy can still be physically desirable enough to date him this young or if you think bald generally is seen as bad enough that it completely makes a guy unattractive.

Girls over 24 vote here, your opinion is still welcome below

Bald isn't a deal breaker a guy can be physically attractive due to other traits enough that I would date him

I do think that a bald head is bad enough it takes away any potential attractiveness

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That's a personal pic

[chrissykerdock]

if you have to take it on a person to person basis a guy who is bald might really be a nice guy and when i say nice might be loving and very kind that's what a lot of girls are looking for someone who is gentle loving and kind along with tender but that's the same as gentle but you get the idea don't write yourself off just because your bald it's not that simple to classify every guy in the world

[beaves11]

Look I get your point but looks matter they do to me, I fact even bald I have very high standards on girls looks that I'd never lower even if it meant dying alone. So I want to look good for my good looking girl etc. judge solely on looks can he be good looking or typically no?

[chrissykerdock]

what can i say to that? good luck to you i hope you find what your looking for

[beaves11]

So you're saying I don't look good or bald is something attractive girls avoid I don't understand what you mean.

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That's me, I do my best to stay in shape etc I'm a very aesthetic person and looks matter a lot to me, true character does too but looks are step one, are you saying I'll have trouble getting a good looking girl? Don't worry you won't change my standards but opinion are welcome.

[chrissykerdock]

i don't know why you say that we said we wouldn't reject just because your bald you made it out like women don't like you and never bother with you we didn't say that

[beaves11]

In my experience thus far yes it has been that way, the only girls who've shows interests are those overweight or who I find very plain, I'm not rude about it to them but I'm not interested either. So please give your take as I asked in the previous comment.

[chrissykerdock]

well go for a beauty if you don't like plain or fat girls... i'm sure you can get a beauty

[beaves11]

That's what I have been going for and as of yet they've all showed no interest. Not that I'll ever accept less but it is disheartening when every girl has said no so far. You really think I look good enough to get a skinny beauty? Or are you being sarcastic, honestly I can't tell?

[chrissykerdock]

sure i think you can get a skinny your definitely goodlooking and hot enough for that to happen sweetheart

[beaves11]

I mean do you think I can get a skinny beauty type girl who's very cute facially and in shape etc? You really think I look that good?

[chrissykerdock]

sure why not i thought you were very cute infact suprised because we were chatting about this before you posted your picture so i was very suprised how cute you look

[DizzyDesii]

Sadly i made this judgment yesterday. Monday i met this really cute mixed guy. He had glasses and looked 21. Today he came without his hat. He was bald in the center and looked 41. I was thought to myself "yeaaaa im gonna pass"... sorry :(

[beaves11]

Mine is shaved though, completely so it's not old man style if I grew mine out its be patchy thin so yeah I lost it but shaved I still look 20 ish

[DizzyDesii]

Well that doesn't sound too bad

[beaves11]

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That's me you can't tell me I look old so would pass as attractive or date able to you or still not?

[DizzyDesii]

Oh i remember seeing you before. Its not bad, more young Lex Luther-ish haha

[beaves11]

Not bad? But that connotates not good either I take it haha not someone you'd go for physically?

[DizzyDesii]

I mean you have a cute face and you can't help what happens to your hair, but i do prefer hair

[beaves11]

I know but could you date a guy like me though? You said grown out thin hair was a deal breaker but what about shaved, again honesty is key.

[DizzyDesii]

Well yea shaved isn't bad. I guess i could deal :)

[ontherise2393]

It depends on the personality. But if I'm standing in front of two good looking guys one bald and one with a full head of hair and they didn't talk, just stood there, I'd definitely go for the one with hair. BUT it all depends on personality.

[Cats_kitty]

if you really like the person it shouldn't be a big deal

[beaves11]

I mean a guy you don't know approaches you, he's kind etc and respectfully asks you out or for your phone number. Basically shows interest. Just seeing a bald guy on the street can he be good looking or not, solely on looks here please they matter to me, even bald I have high standards.

[beaves11]

Also which did you vote (if you did)

[beaves11]

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That's me, do you think I look good bald or would I not be physically attractive to you in terms of dating, be honest here I'm from a military family we are always brutally honest.

[Cats_kitty]

yes he could be good looking even if he's bald

[beaves11]

Do you think I look good bald again brutal honesty is respected here. Could you date a guy who looked exactly like me or find me attractive etc. not pulling a creeper move here don't worry just want to know how I rate.

[Cats_kitty]

I don't know. I don't know what you look like so it's kinda hard to say man

[beaves11]

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I posted this earlier in the thread but you just not have seen it, that's my face.

[beaves11]

So do you think I look good bald or no ^
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[Cats_kitty]

I've seen better bald guys

[beaves11]

So basically you're saying I don't look good haha, never thought I'd say this; but rate me? Be honest here I want to know where I stand, give detail what's good bad etc.

[Cats_kitty]

your eyebrows and eye shape just don't go honestly but this is just a picture it'd hard to say because most of the time pictures don't portray a person as they really are

[beaves11]

I look better in this picture than most 😑 but actually I think your opinion is kind of weird here. Honestly most people even girls who complement me say my eyes and eyeshape are super stunning etc and part of the reason I pull it off. So your opinion is your own but many say the opposite haha you aren't hurting my feelings.

[Cats_kitty]

Alright then

[beaves11]

Although you never did give a rate, go ahead don't be afraid I'll say right now my lowest I'd date as far as a girl's beauty was a 7 looks wise, very slim and fit with a cute face etc. I don't like numbers etc but it gives context although I'm not ashamed looks matter.

[Cats_kitty]

I don't believe in rating

[Cats_kitty]

I've had a real shity day and I don't want to start rating people tonight

[beaves11]

I've had a real shitty couple years, I don't believe in judging someone by follicles it's not like weight or health or looks etc, our beliefs don't match you could give a damn number.

[Cats_kitty]

well I'm not rating I'm otta here

[datgirl]

Not really... but I'd REALLY prefer hair over no hair.

[beaves11]

So you would date a bald guy this age however? He can still be good looking enough?

[beaves11]

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Like that's me for example I get hair may be preferred but I feel I look good enough I should still be able to get a very attractive looking girl as I'm holding my high standards.

[beaves11]

Could you date a bald guy who looked like me this young or not? Be honest here I like brutal honesty over false compliments.

[datgirl]

Like I said before, I'd be more attracted to a guy with hair and would more inclined to date him rather than a bald guy. But of course I wouldn't completely ignore a bald men just cause he's bald. I've been interested in men with receding hair lines or ones that were completely bald. So, yeah it all depends on how they treat me and what their over all personality is.

[beaves11]

So you're saying despite my otherwise attractive features from my picture, despite my working out etc that an average Joe with hair is considered more attractive? Just because of hair he looks physically better to you?

[beaves11]

Yes or no?

[datgirl]

Tbh I dont find you attractive. And it's not cause you don't have hair. But, just purely choosing based off of looks then, yes, I would choose the guy with hair over the guy with none. Personality wise would be a whole different story. Overall, I want a guy with hair and good looks/physique and good personality. The end.

[beaves11]

I have a good physique, I work out and run etc, I take care of myself and can do nothing about no hair, I lost it to shock when my father died and health issues struck that I recovered from, so why should I settle either? You think just because I don't have hair means I can't get a very good looking young girl to be mine? The lowest I'd date looks wise is a 7-8 range, very slim in shape with a cute face, so I have high standards too I'm not bashing yours per de but you act like baldness and my looks means I can't afford high standards, which I will hold high until I succeed or die it's no in between for me, I shouldn't be expected to accept less than you just because I have no hair.

[beaves11]

Also plenty have said my face looks great etc for bald so I don't get that but okay.

[datgirl]

OK cool! Good luck

[beaves11]

Are you implying it will be hard for me with that? Given my standards etc? I'm not accepting less I'm just cynical about your response as it may be sarcasm.

[datgirl]

No.. I'm not implyingoing anything. I just have you my opinion and I only speak for myself.