Polls: Dating

I ask because I have a very short temper. What caused me to be this way was all of the abuse that I've went through in my childhood and teenhood years. I was abused by my father(physically, verbally and sexually) while my mother neglected me until I was taken by foster parents. Then as I started getting into middle school and high school, I'd get into a lot of fights and even got expelled from one school district. In fact, I can recall my reasons for getting into one of my fights. One was because I was sexually violated by another guy who would constantly touch my man bits in front of all the boys and girls, scorning me for it. I ended up giving the guy a very badly swollen eye, a few missing teeth, a huge cut on his left cheek and a slightly crooked nose, thus sending him to the hospital afterwards.

I really hate it when any person touches me down there. I'll get angry even if it's a girl who's touching me down there(especially since men are expected to feel flattered when a girl is touching a man down there). When a person even dares to try it, I usually end up wanting to punch a hole through a person's face and crush their abdomens(with my arms or my legs) very hard until I squeeze their intestines out.

I'm sorry if I sound scary to you ladies but just please understand where I come from because I was a child abuse(of all sorts, especially sexual abuse) and bully victim. That doesn't mean I'll be unfriendly to every person. I'm friendly to people who treat me with courtesy and respect and can empathize where I come from. Men, you can answer this too to share your experience if you can relate to me. If any of you one to proceed to scold me or mock for me, go for it. I won't say anything as you are only speaking your true mind.

I had an argument with my mates gf and she kicked me between the legs.....it was the most pain iv ever experienced and i just wanna know WHY do girls do this?! have you or would you do it? im thinking maybe i just got really unlucky.....

Like the question says, is he a 10/10?

Truly, I'm at a loss. I've only had one girlfriend which was a few years ago which ended pretty bad for me.

I'm still young so I doubt I'm meant to have good luck with it all, but when I look at my "somewhat" social self, I don't see anything all that wrong with me. I try my hardest to be kind and approachable, I always look presentable and I'm not what you'd call ugly... at least I hope not.

I must say though, I am a little awkward and shy, I don't mean to be, but when it comes to talking to girls, I'm pretty hopeless. I seem to overthink everything when I don't need to.

just want to know if I actually fit the bill for some nice girl out there. I want a teenage romance too.

Does not that bothers you? What do you think of them?

A wiki definition: "A hookup culture is one that accepts and encourages casual sexual encounters, including one-night stands and other related activity, which focus on physical pleasure without necessarily including emotional bonding or long-term commitment.[1] It is generally associated with Western late adolescent behavior and, in particular, American college culture."

I'm not asking if you think the current generation embraces said culture more; just what you think of it?

I've liked this girl for like 3 years but never found the courage to ask her out. Now that she's moving I suddenly feel like I could ask her out at anytime. She's moving but pretty far away and I might get to see her a couple times a year. My question is should I ask her and try to do long distance, or let her go?

Ok, I don't intend to make a racist forum or anything. Thing is, I was talking with a bunch of girls from work (all white and one latina), and they explained there's some stigma and curiosity to sleeping with a black man, but for long term relationships they preferred a white man. They all seemed to agree pretty much instantly. A couple of them said they liked feminine looking white men but others preferred the typical masculine men like Benedict Crumberbatch or Alex O'whatever from Hawaii Five O tv series. They did agree that very few black men like Will Smith look just as good as a white handsome man. Is this topic weird? Would you agree with them? I'm not black by the way just curious. And you can post annonimous so be honest please, if you are not interest in explaining anything you can also vote. Thanks!

All my life I have been at a major disadvantage because of been short. No one respected me the way I looked even though am nice, funny, confident and good personality as my friends have told me and some women. As well as been a misery in finding a girlfriend I have resulted to escorts for year or so as the only way of intimacy with someone am attracted to and I fail to get the job I want because am short. Sometimes I think suicide is a way to go but don't want to hurt my friends or family or going through painful costly surgery to become tall in order to be appreciated, I can't help the way I was born we live in a world where image is only important and you all know am doomed if I don't meet these expectations unless I become rich and famous like tom cruise, other than that am basically fucked. I go out to nightclubs and bars to meet women very rare I get lucky with a nice girl in there or most of the time they say go away you look like a child your no man to man and blah blah blah. You must understand that people can't help the way they look why am I judged on my appearance, am not exactly bad looking I take care my self a lot to the point of trying to please people so I can feel respected and so women will at least dig me instead of tall goodlooking guys, I knew this tall dark handsome guy who don't have to open his mouth to get a date except say bonjour to them. I know it sounds very sad but it's making me bitter to the point that surgery is the only way so am all asking is it really that worth it? I work really hard in life am trying to get a degree so I can get a good job and at least maybe if I do get a high paid job a women might tolerate my height if I have a big house with a pool in back along with a cocktail bar and even then I won't have time to make a cocktail because I be too busy working my ass off to keep her happy... my life sucks

I mean come on am 22, average looking, 5 foot 6... game over! Lol