Polls: Girl's Behavior

I know women don't have to but most women who have babies do. It seems like a very weird process.

I recently met what is my perfect match in a girl, but feel like I've not put out quite the right signals and I wonder... will she just move on? or would she wait to see.

I guess age will be a factor, so call that out please.

I know this may stir some debate, and my disclaimer is that this is a generalization and not applied to each individual person.

This is my assumption... female and male personalities develop different. A boy is can be rebellious and a "handful" at a young age, may become a mess in his adolescence, but mellows out more as he ages and matures. A female, on the other hand, wants to please and mostly in good spirits as a young girl. This lasts maybe up until somewhere in adolescence, then they become moody, roll their eyes, and go "uggghhhhhhhh!" and easily annoyed. By the time they reach adulthood, they are likely broken in some way, maybe potentially from trauma of some kind (1 in 3 females face sexual abuse/trauma in their youth). They become critical and difficult to please, and/or they learn not to give their heart so easily.

What do women think on guys who don't drive a car but they themselves may do or not.

I seem to do this well, although not always with feelings. depends if I put my mind into experiencing their viewpoint.

Is this something you do well. I wonder if it's personality attribute.

I know having children is a choice but it's something many women want. Does it bother you that you have to do this to have a child?

So self centred and fundamentally broken.

Good girls are only found in a place of worship. Only god can get through to these to these

‘people’

What i should do?

Lifting weights it good. But so many girls get a bit muscly, it’s kinda 🤮, they even do male flexing poses.

Why can’t you just be soft and feminine.

So I would really appreciate some insight from the girls out there about whether or not this girl at work likes me. I certainly don't want to make it awkward between us. We pass each other at work and our conversations have always been light hearted and work related. I take the opportunity when I can to show my appreciation for the work that she does as she is in HR and that as we all know can be a really difficult job. Well after a big presentation she did i made the point of congratulating her on what an awesome job she did and she seemed appreciative. I asked her if she would love to get coffee the next time we are in the office together (which would be a week later) and she said "Wonderful! Yes I should be in". That day came and i felt nervous so i just left it and neither of us spoke about grabbing a coffee together. Well fast forward to last week - it was a rough week as there was a huge round of layoffs across the company and i am sure she was heavily involved in all of that and i can only imagine how awful it was for her and others in HR.

I let the dust settle and then reached out to her yesterday and said "Hi [insert her name here] - no idea what sort of week you had last week but my heart went out to you and others in HR. I hope you are okay." To which she responded a short time later to say "thank you [insert my name here]! I'm on vacation now recovering!" To which the conversation went thusly:

Me: "Good for you! Did you go anywhere warm and sunny for vacation?"

Her: "Opposite! I'm skiing in Japan!"

Me: "WOW!!! FUN!!! I'm jealous - I hope you have a truly awesome time!!!
I would love to catch up with you for lunch/dinner when you are back so I can hear all about your trip!"

Her: "Thank you! I appreciate you reaching out
Yes of course! Sounds like a plan"

So she is back from vacation next week and i am sat here wondering what to make of this.

Is she interested in me the way i am interested in her? Am I overthinking this? What should I do?

I salute to this mom. *salutes*