Polls: Guy's Behavior

So 1,5 year ago I rejected a guy because of the situation and started dating someone else who fit my life that time. This year we talked then we went on a date again because my situation changed, but he was really upset when I told him about the other guy, that I hurt his pride and he rejected me, he didn’t even want to understand the circumstances.
Was it about him or about me? If you were really really attracted to a girl, would you still reject him because of this? Or would he give a chance if I were a 10/10 girl? Is it a ‘he is not that into you’ situation or a pride situation?

If a guy in his early 30s met a woman who is 40 and had immense compatibility and match, would he be ok with the age difference for long term relationship/marriage?

I went to an ice cream shop & ordered this cup with 4 toppings. I had to repeat it to the guy twice, he was at the register when I drove up & he goes “we usually pile on the toppings but yeah this cup had a lot of toppings”. I just look at him & take the cup, he says bye have a good day & I drive off. It’s like do you want my business or not 🤷🏻‍♀️

I met a decent guy and felt he liked me (locked eyes, asked me personal questions within limit, was caring). I liked whatever I got to know about him. He acted sincere and respectful at all times. Over dinner with common friends, I noticed him very subtly looking at my boobs. It was a very sincere glance, not creepy at all.

I have big boobs and now wondering if guys look at boobs of a girl they are probably just lusting over,

Or do they also do that for a girl they may sincerely like.

This feels like cap?

Like why?

I mean i thought all avoided touching other dudes junk with every fiber of your body

All right so I heard of a story of a dude who lost his "little timmy" due to it had to be amputated. He claimed nothing was the same, and I bet. A doc was checking him out and it went like

Doc: Oh, i'm sorry, ma'am! I thought yo-
Dude: I am. I'm a man.
Doc: Oh, so you're transitioning?
Dude: No, I identify as a dude. I just... it's a long story man, can we just get this over with?

And like that it popped in my head, he identifies as a man. Sooo for such a person, would you respect his wishes or think of said person as trans?

If you met a girl on an online game and ended up talking to her on other platforms for almost 2 years. Talked about everything. Shared photos and voice messages. Sorta caught feelings. But you messed up and she just left would you miss her or think about her? Or no just forget about her entirely because you haven't met her irl?

I’m talking to two guys one is attractive while the other one is not.( I think the one that is unattractive is actually attractive to me but according to others he’s not that cute. )

the attractive one: he is the most attractive and successful guy I’ve ever been involved with. He brags about his looks too. He has his own place and car. He loves to bring up he is the most attractive guy I’ve ever been with and I would take such an L if I was to fuck that up for myself. We never really gone to any dates. He lets me stay at his house sometimes but won’t let me live there. Doesn’t spend much on me. I wouldn’t lose anything really because he hasn’t done anything for me besides look attractive. He knows that I’m seeing the unattractive guy and is confused because he thinks why am I talking to a guy like that when I have a guy as attractive.

Unattractive: Has his own job, own car, spends tons of money on me, takes me out.

I feel like because men aren't allowed to cry they channel this energy into "manly" aggression instead, whether physically, verbally, passively etc. I feel men are hurting more than they let on but no one would know because all they know to do is push you away, which I imagine only hurts themselves more as well as the people they care about most. I feel the world would be a much peaceful place if men were allowed to cry. So back to my question, do you wish u were allowed to cry & express ur feelings as and when they arise?

Like your hobbies/interest and not just your looks?

I watching this movie Anchorman with Will Ferrel. So funny. This line stuck out to me:

im going to take your mother to a nice seafood dinner and never call her back!

It showed me that men generally know what they are doing and what effect their even minor actions have on women they deal with.

I thought of this because I always see questions by ladies in here about why did he do this and then ignore me. Or some variation.

the interesting part of the quote is that it’s not even referring to sex. The man premeditated just simply impressing his enemy’s mum with a nice seafood dinner. Then simply disappearing off the face of the earth.

it reminds me that men generally know we are easily impressed! Heck… we fall for ROSES.

Need taken a class. But I’m half black. So I blame that lol for my natural dance skills. I just love dancing tbh but I think I can move easily and really well. I don't know. Hopefully I’m not delusional.