Polls: Guy's Behavior

I am pretty muscular myself, nothing crazy just a ripped 6 pack and fitness level muscles in general and I'm planing to grow more (third girl is my ideal) lol and I want to know your opinion on muscular girls
here are some examples

Just wondering what traits attract a guy to a girl

Why did you pick one over the other

This guy was showing all the signs of interest. My friends were noticing. Then a new girl comes to school and they start hanging out. I confronted him telling him that I'm confused and he goes: "You're a great girl and I really like hanging out with you and I've never thought of it like that. we'll figure it out" I don't take this as him friend zoning me tho? I feel like he was trying to chose between me and her. The we'll figure it out part is strange. He also kept asking me if I did like him and how I feel about the situation? Anyways- he keeps snap chatting me still and I ignored him for a while and he continues to double snap me. BUT he keeps hanging out with this girl... Am I friendzoned or?

For example: Complimenting a girl, being nice to her, being a gentleman for her and helping her even when she didn't ask you to, saying good things about her when she's not around

If a guy just treats you better than he treats friends he has who are also girls, does it necessarily mean he has feelings for the girl he treats "special"?

Also what lengths do you consider to be to short or to long?

I've been hearing a rumor that straight guys don't wash their anus because they want nothing to do with back there. Like their scared or something to wash back there because it would make them gay or something. How true is this? If it is... That's pretty fucking gross.

I'm 19 and my Crush is 24.
I have a crush on this guy who works at a bakery store. My mother noticed him being slightly intimidated by me and thought he has a crush on me. When I went to the bakery store by myself; he served me but there was this long silence between us with a lot of eye contact.
Anyway, a few days later, I gave him my business card to him which had my instagram/fb accounts and he said that he would follow me; which he did later that day.
I fb requested him, he accepted. So I messaged him saying thank you for the follow etc. He seemed to be interested hanging out with me on his day off but the only problem was that I have school and work on that day, so I explained that to him. At the moment he seems busy but later on he said that he can have the afternoons off (on the days that I don't work).

Today I saw him at his work place so I smiled at him and he smiled back with a awkward smile... then went out the back and never came out...

Does he find me annoying or is he shy?